raphieMontella:
this is barbaric... a 21 year old is way past adulthood...

Past adulthood?
OK o

If the parent had played their part properly, this wouldn't have happened.
Nevertheless, the girl was really a rare gem but not anymore.
In this part of the world, VIRGINS are really scarce and indeed a rare gem.

Personally, I don't believe in premarital sex but if a 21 year old girl choses to go that route, I don't think it's right to spank her. She's an adult and old enough to make her own decisions. As a parent, you should just reiterate (remind her) what your values are ... it's up to her to make her own choices.


O pari

IdreamOfUnicorn:
African parents don't give sex education.
It was easier to act like it doesn't exist.

However it did and it does exist. We are a sexually charged generation, in a society where sex is at the forefront of everything that sells. Sex is the universal act that triggers a common feeling amongst people, whether in the Bandundu region of Congo or in metropolitan cities like London. So why have some of our African parents avoided teaching us this very important thing whilst growing up? Why is it an unspoken rule not to mention sex in a sex-saturated world? How do we learn without being taught?
There is an African proverb that goes: ‘It takes a whole village to raise a child’, but we all know that education first begins at home. So if our parents don’t teach us about sex, then ultimately we will learn it elsewhere, to our detriment or not. I always say a lesson hard learned should teach a person not to make the same mistake twice, but what do you do when that mistake stays with you for life? And who is to blame? Sex education at school was the first and only time some of us received it. Some of us in our twenties are still waiting to have that ‘talk’ with our parents. Many will die waiting.

So it’s crime to beat ur child again? The reason may not warrant it bt flogging to sm extent has kinda been part of African training.

Earthquake1:
21 years Chai, the girl try o

My landlord last born is fvcking regularly at 13 years

How do u know??

dopemama:
I lost my virginity at 27+....so 21 is still young

liar, you for kuku wait till you clock 57 before you lose am

Now she has gone to enlarge her coast

is actually wrong that's if they failed to give her sex education but if they give her sex education, I won't fault them




I can't imagine getting married to a lady that don't have her Virginity intact, she won't enjoy the marriage with me

dopemama:
I lost my virginity at 27+....so 21 is still young

why you no wait till age 47?

Yello1:


How do u know??

na him dey fok the small girl

AbbeyvanPersie:
liar, you for kuku wait till you clock 57 before you lose am

what makes you think I lied... The fact that ur sisters lost theirs early doesn't mean everyone should be like them na my brother

Lexusgs430:
Wetin her pápá wan take her virginity do? Negotiate bride price?

Flogging would not restore her virginity, it's time for sex education, not flogging.................

Here in Nigeria we hardly treat the issues we have. We rather beat around the Bush in Ignorance.
Thats why you see the Biggest churches here but still so much crimes and very little progress.
No proper sex education but he's beating her for loosing her virginity.

BABANGBALI:
why you no wait till age 47?

cos I am not from a cursed family like yours.... I had my reasons for waiting and I dint regret it

I don't know the reason why I don't like a girl being a virgin....I can't marry one

Lol.... Africa sef

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dopemama:
what makes you think I lied... The fact that ur sisters lost theirs early doesn't mean everyone should be like them na my brother

since you claimed I'm your brother, then you're one of my sisters that lost theirs early. MUMU girl

MASTERMIND04:

Past adulthood?
OK o

lol...I mean the inception of adulthood.. 18...

lemme go and correct my statement

dopemama:
I lost my virginity at 27+....so 21 is still young

There is no different between u and a girl that lost her own at d age of 17....u both lost it beefore u get married..skikena

Alhaji why did you do this girl this thing?

Nwodosis:
Flogging her will not restore her virginity rather giving her full loads of demerits of engaging in sexual activities at a tender age would've done the magic prior before she lost it!

21 years is not tender sha

dopemama:
I lost my virginity at 27+....so 21 is still young

should we fry cement with that one??. the girl is an adult so she can do what she like..

deewhydoski:

There is no different between u and a girl that lost her own at d age of 17....u both lost it beefore u get married..skikena

lol

[quote author=Earthquake1 post=75513107]21 years Chai, the girl try o
My landlord last born is fvcking regularly at 13 years [/quote


bro how did u know

This remind me of that movie DESERT FLOWER.

Why you no mind your business, male hoe.

BABANGBALI:
why you no wait till age 47?

Mizik:
Here in Nigeria we hardly treat the issues we have. We rather beat around the Bush in Ignorance.
Thats why you see the Biggest churches here but still so much crimes and very little progress.
No proper sex education but he's beating her for loosing her virginity.

I bet the parents never ever offered any form of sex education......

So the failure is equally their's to share.........

Mumu boy.

AbbeyvanPersie:
since you claimed I'm your brother, then you're one of my sisters that lost theirs early. MUMU girl

dopemama:
I lost my virginity at 27+....so 21 is still young

It doesn't change anything if it happened before you got married