my best friend is dating a girl that is five years older than him when i try to tell him to reason he say that age is not love, age is just a number seriously is this right, because i think he needs spiritual assistance

There's nothing wrong with that. Why is it ok for an older man to date a younger woman but not for an older woman to date a younger man?

it has been like that since the beginning of of time, also men came to the world first so it,s nature

Dafemo:

it has been like that since the beginning of of time, also men came to the world first so it,s nature

That's not a valid reason. And who told you men were in this world first?

it,s true since the creation of man<adam> and there won,t be respect

no big deal rili. if ur game is tit enof. But rmbr say shoe dey get size, dependn on what u r lookin out 4,

Inked_Nerd:

That's not a valid reason. And who told you men were in this world first?

the Bible >>> woman was made from man >>> but what the heck >>> why do people reason like Dafermo

to me it,s not sensible GOD created women for us so whatz the deal

Dafemo:

it,s true since the creation of man<adam> and there won,t be respect

w/e

Dafemo:

to me it,s not sensible GOD created women for us so whatz the deal

Created for you? Look, we're not in the Biblical era anymore so please get that notion out of your head.

k thats true but do u believe in rapture

No offense Dafemo, but this isn't the religion forum

the point is it is not right to date someone older than u since the beginning of time

guy take it easy eehn !!! >>> no bring Bible into dis matter >>> like this !!!

Hoopla.

Dafemo:

the point is it is not right to date someone older than u since the beginning of time

Using the Bible as his reference isn't enough. There are places all over the world were people believe life started from a woman before Christianity. Are you going to tell me that you anymore credible then they are?

I personally have never dated a woman younger than myself. Its a question of principle and honor. The younger ones can wait. I need to help the ageing ones, especially in their competition aginst the corvaceous temptresses

@Inked_Nerd: Actually life started with the MAN's spermatozoa. Or, if you want, when HIS spermatozoa met the woman's ova (eggs). It was a voluntary act. So, you could say that the MAN chose to start life. Thus, life started with HIM. Pure science, not myth nor legend as are found in the various scriptures. Respect to the mothers though.

Pafuri:

I personally have never dated a woman yunger than myself. Its a question of prnciple and honor.

@Inked_Nerd: Actually life started with the MAN's spermatozoa. Or, if you want, when HIS spermatozoa met the woman's ova (eggs). It was a voluntary act. So, you could say that the MAN chose to start life. Thus, life started with HIM. Pure science, not myth nor legend as are found in the various scriptures. Respect to the mothers though.

So did man just magically pop out of the air and exist? That isn't any proof that life started with men. Its like saying "which one came first, the chicken or the egg?"

Dafemo:

it,s true since the creation of man<adam> and there won,t be respect

Who said their won't be RESPECT, if the guy behaves like a man then I'm sure she will show him 100% respect  .


Any guy who behaves like a MAN WILL get respect from a woman regardless of her age.

the top rated religions in the believe men came first so what is the point, who came first the mother or the baby

^^^ Why does that matter?

@Inked_Nerd: And that, lady, is the puzzle of a gazillion light years. I guess the seemingly intractable nature of the puzzle is why a short-cut was conveniently discovered: the Garden of Eden. Yet, humans still haven't found that location. Lets just agree that the ova (eggs) existed; waiting, in the inner recesses of a Female, to be discovered by a Male's spermatozoa. This will therefore point to a simultaneous existence waiting for a mutual discovery. That discovery could be the 'Big Bang': expulsion or release (as in 'I'm coming', or 'did you come?', or 'come'). That is the overt process of procreation. The inner process is the piercing of the egg by the conveniently conical shape of the spermatozoid's head. Isn't life and its creation quite interesting?!

If you are matured enough to do so.
Younger men even marry older women.
Your maturity is the key.

@madlady there won,t be respect because the lady will not only have the upper hand but also control the relationship

Dafemo:

the top rated religions in the believe men came first so what is the point, who came first the mother or the baby

Top rated religion? Oh I'm sorry, was there a popularity contest that I was unaware of? And I didn't ask you about the "top rated religions". Even if you are talking about the major religions of the world, that's still not a reason for your explanation. Anyway, back to the original topic, there's nothing wrong with a woman dating or marrying a younger guy. Since you're trying to link this with the "top rated religions" explanation that your giving, even in Islam, Khadijah who was married to the Prophet Muhammad was older than him.

Pafuri:

@Inked_Nerd: And that, lady, is the puzzle of a gazillion light years. I guess the seemingly intractable nature of the puzzle is why a short-cut was conveniently discovered: the Garden of Eden. Yet, humans still haven't found that location. Lets just agree that the ova (eggs) existed; waiting, in the inner recesses of a Female, to be discovered by a Male's spermatozoa. This will therefore point to a simultaneous existence waiting for a mutual discovery. That discovery could be the 'Big Bang': expulsion or release ( as in 'I'm coming', or 'did you come?', or 'come'). That is the overt process of procreation. The inner process is the piercing of the egg by the conveniently conical shape of the spermatozoid's head. Isn't life and its creation quite interesting?!

Or we can agree to disagree. Whichever one works for you

Dafemo:

@madlady there won,t be respect because the lady will not only have the upper hand but also control the relationship

And how did you come to this conclusion? Is this about age or power? And so what if she had the upper hand? If a hand had the upper hand its ok, but not a woman?

the truth is that ever since we humans can remeber it as been this way so the question is who came up with this idea

so @inked nerd can u date a guy u are older than

@Inked-Nerd: Yes, we can agree to disagree. It is the the first requirement for intelligent and respectful conversation. This seems to be quite rare around here.

Dafemo:

so @inked nerd can u date a guy u are older than

Yes I can and I have  .

Pafuri:

@Inked-Nerd: Yes, we can agree to disagree. It is the the first requirement for intelligent and respectful conversation. This seems to be quite rare around here.

Yupp, usually no one around here wants to agree to disagree.

Mr Cork1:

actually i prefa older womens like SA Goddess, Omolola, innk nerd, 190, Queen eve  becoz  they love annnaal nyanshing  

Inked_Nerd who? You don't even know how old I am. Abeg, wipe that thought out of your mind.

well, 5 years is not too much, *i think*