@omolola can you date a guy you are five years older than

No, i don't think so

@ omolola that is the point it is sooo wrong

@inked nerd where are you

Dafemo:

@madlady there won,t be respect because the lady will not only have the upper hand but also control the relationship

With respect, your a much younger guy than I but, if your talk and behave well I will always show you respect.

A FEW young guys will always receive respect from women of all ages, this is because they know how to handle themselves.

Mothers respect their sons if the behave in a manner that deserves respect, so a wife or gf will respect her other half regardless of his age.

Dafemo:

@ omolola that is the point it is sooo wrong 

You didn't even make a point. You're just agreeing with her. Agreeing with someone is not making a point.

Dafemo:

@inked nerd where are you

I am in Brooklyn, New York [whoop whoop ٩(-̮̮̃•̃)۶ ]

@madlady so it is okay by you ryt it just like a 15 year old guy dating a 20 year old girl

^^^Be mature ,( how can that be right, the 15 year old boy is a CHILD, he is UNDER-AGE.

Dafemo:

@madlady so it is okay by you ryt it just like a 15 year old guy dating a 20 year old girl

This is bad reasoning because your trying to use extremes to get your point across and so far your doing a bad job at it.

okay another example is a 25 year old guy dating a 30 year old woman

@inked nerd stop being a critic

Dafemo:

@inked nerd stop being a critic

Ummm newsflash, everyone is a critic. Everyone in society judges, its just a matter of whether or not its a good or bad judgment. Are you not critiquing this subject matter? Does that not make you a critic? The whole point of a forum is to discuss various topics and exchange ideas. Perhaps if you had explained yourself properly or given actual valid reasons and explanations then maybe I could agree with you or at least see where you are coming from. As for your 25 year old guy dating a 30 year old woman example, there is still nothing wrong with that. They are both consenting adults.

Dafemo:

okay another example is a 25 year old guy dating a 30 year old woman

I could not but many do, and it works.

I know one 25year old guy (Nigerian) who is far more mature that I, he's a graduate and now holds down a very good job. We all respect him.

It depends on the guy, some guys of 40 can some times behave in a very immature manner so age does not always show the whole picture.

@inked nerd can u date a 30year old if you were 25

Dafemo:

@inked nerd can u date a 30year old if you were 25

Yes, I can. I have been asked out by older guys before and its not a big deal. I've been asked out by younger guys before and its not a big deal either. As a matter of fact, a handsome Belgium man in his 40's asked me out on a date a few months ago and I didn't think of it as a big deal. As long as you are both consenting adults, there shouldn't be an issue.

@inked nerd you have a great sense of judgement, but if you don,t mind how old are you and can you date a nigerian, no offence

Dafemo:

@inked nerd you have a great sense of judgement, but if you don,t mind how old are you and can you date a nigerian, no offence

Thank you, I'm 21 yrs old and yes I can date a Nigerian. LOL, why do you ask? Is it because I mentioned the Belgium man?

no it,s just because you have a good sense of judgement, this is akward but i,m fond of you

Thank you 

it really depends on the individual
for some they gat no probs with it for others it is a NO
but how many age gap are we talking abt here?

@y me 5 years

@ inked nerd thanks

Dafemo:

@y me 5 years

5 years is much but as i said depends on you as a person

it is to much well i agree with u @y me

@inked nerd so did you go out with the belgium guy

No, I didn't. As charming and as handsome as he was, there was just something about that encounter that made me think twice about going out on a date with him. Chai, what a shame. He was so good looking and had a beautiful accent. Oh well, there are other men out there [whether their older or younger]. Can't dwell on it forever 

the fact is that it is akward to date someone 19 years older than you

Dafemo:

@inked nerd you have a great sense of judgement, but if you don,t mind how old are you and can you date a nigerian, no offence

Use the apostrophe ( ' ) and not the comma in words  like the following   -  " don't" ,  "isn't" , etc.

@iya basira thanks

Dafemo:

the fact is that it is akward to date someone 19 years older than you

Ok then, is it still awkward if a man is dating someone younger than him? Initially, you started off this topic with it being ok for a man to date a younger woman and it being wrong for a woman to date a younger man and now you've generalized it by removing genders and just saying "the fact is that it is awkward to date someone 19 years older than you", so please explain.

seriously he is going to die before you 19 years earlier

Ummm, you haven't really explained anything. All you said was "seriously he is going to die before you 19 years earlier". What is it that you're trying to say?