Where I'm from that expression usually means willing to go to bed with someone, fare enough.

About the history thing, if I found that a guy had even a few sexaul relationships in the past I would want him to get checked out first for my own peace of mind. If he doesn't want to, then we can call it a day.

How would u find out he's had several sexual relationships in the past?
Men don't generally discuss their previous sexcapades until they have already grabbed their TROPHY with their 2 hands.

Didn't u say it is irresponsible for any woman to say YES on the 1st date?
It means women that are bold enough to ask a guy out are what?? Demons??

The funniest bit is u chics go out there and fight for equal rights. . . . .What a man can do, a woman can match/do better.
Is this not double standard??

sheesh!

Were from 2 different worlds entirely

Define, saying "YES", what would they be saying yes to  

Saying YES to start a relationship!!!!

I am not talking about SEX or what not.
Must every YES leads to SEX??

Jackal:

Saying YES to start a relationship!!!!

I am not talking about SEX or what not.
Must every YES leads to SEX??

Point!

The first date doesn't have to be the time you meet so it all depends on how you get to know each other. If you're ready and the guy aint where you at then you pull back. If he's ready and you aint then you say no. If you're both ready then 'hard to get' just means doing without. On your own head be it.

we hear u

In that case if someone wants to agree to that they can, now that we've come full circle I'll state my opinion as: playing hard to get and being cautious are two different things, Teasing someone or playing games is uncalled for, like I said before if you like them be straight with them. Just be sure of them first, before  becoming emotionally involved in a relationship.

genius33:

In that case if someone wants to agree to that they can, now that we've come full circle I'll state my opinion as: playing hard to get and being cautious are two different things, Teasing someone or playing games is uncalled for, like I said before if you like them be straight with them. Just be sure of them first, before becoming emotionally involved in a relationship.

I agree 100%.

Jackal:

I agree 100%.

Thought this day would never come

genius33:

In that case if someone wants to agree to that they can, now that we've come full circle I'll state my opinion as: playing hard to get and being cautious are two different things, Teasing someone or playing games is uncalled for, like I said before if you like them be straight with them. Just be sure of them first, before becoming emotionally involved in a relationship.

Sometimes you can get emotionally caught up even before you really know the other person. I suppose thats attraction for you. Then the sex just seals some kind of commitment. But I agree. Be cautious at all times and there never any need to tease.

genius33:

Thought this day would never come

These are strange times.

Cyclone5:

Sometimes you can get emotionally caught up even before you really know the other person. I suppose thats attraction for you. Then the sex just seals some kind of commitment. But I agree. Be cautious at all times and there never any need to tease.

Good point, seems like you can't win really  

uhm

genius33:

Good point, seems like you can't win really

It aint that bad Its all about choices, and knowing yourself. Fun is fun but if you want more then you have to ask for more.

genius33:

In that case if someone wants to agree to that they can, now that we've come full circle I'll state my opinion as: playing hard to get and being cautious are two different things, Teasing someone or playing games is uncalled for, like I said before if you like them be straight with them. Just be sure of them first, before becoming emotionally involved in a relationship.

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nicely said

ok oooo

It's not ideal playing hard to get when you're interested, the flow comes natural while dieing in silent just b/cos you want the guy to believe u're virgin mary. Be real, ''what will be, will allways be''.

Playing hard to get is a complete waste of time, u might even end up loosing the guy of ur dreams.
Am not asking girls to be desperate but pls go with the flow esp when u like the guy.

i think playing hard to get is just mainly for the amusement for some ladies. they think it is nice to get the certain type of attention from a man. and usually the guy falls for that spell. but as most spells do wear off and she is left with no one.

Hard to get?? Ahahahaha! Games for fools!

i don't see any sin in it,its good sometimes to play hard to get

jekad:

i don't see any sin in it,its good sometimes to play hard to get

Sweetheart the guy might eventually lose interest but still continue with his chasing just to satisfy his ego! Besides only women who have nothing except their body to offer play such stupid games. They want to increase their value! Fools!

michelin89:

Sweetheart the guy might eventually lose interest but still continue with his chasing just to satisfy his ego! Besides only women who have nothing except their body to offer play such stupid games. They want to increase their value! Fools!

tell them make them hear

michelin89:

Sweetheart the guy might eventually lose interest but still continue with his chasing just to satisfy his ego! Besides only women who have nothing except their body to offer play such stupid games. They want to increase their value!  Fools!

dats y too much of everything is bad,it should be done but not to the extreme

atleast d guy wouldnt have to call d babe cheap after d little battle u know

it is truly amusing to see fellas under the spell of a lady that is playing hard to get.

jekad:

that is y too much of everything is bad,it should be done but not to the extreme

atleast d guy wouldnt have to call d babe cheap after d little battle u know

See what I mean? You are all obsessed with sex because you think that's the only thing you can eventually offer a guy so if he doesn't suffer to get he won't cherish and value it. Bullshits! A real lady with a good head on her shoulder and the right attitude knows better than to let a man define what she is worth. You are not giving sex to let him know he has won you but because you as well have decided to move your relationship to the next level.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed and not to be seen as a trophy. There is more to you than you body!

michelin89:

See what I mean? You are all obsessed with sex because you think that's the only thing you can eventually offer a guy so if he doesn't suffer to get he won't cherish and value it. Bullshits! A real lady with a good head on her shoulder and the right attitude knows better than to let a man define what she is worth. You are not giving sex to let him know he has won you but because you as well have decided to move your relationship to the next level.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed and not to be seen as a trophy. There is more to you than you body!

what is exciting u?who is talking about sex?did i use d word cheap just to classify sex ? can't a guy still call a girl cheap even wtout them having sex?
does d word cheap always have to go wt sex?haba

jekad:

what is exciting u?who is talking about sex?did i use d word cheap just to classify sex ? can't a guy still call a girl cheap even wtout them having sex?
does d word cheap always have to go wt sex?haba

1. I was friendly to him: Uhm! Then I am cheap.
2. I gave him my number. Uhm! I am cheap!
3. I had a date with him. Never been on a date with a guy who wasn't a friend. Ohhh! It seems I am just 66% cheap.

michelin89:

1. I was friendly to him: Uhm! Then I am cheap. 
2. I gave him my number. Uhm! I am cheap! 
3. I had a date with him. Never been on a date with a guy who wasn't a friend. Ohhh! It seems I am just 66% cheap. 

when i used d word cheap,my mind was very far from sex,wats my business if a girl makes love to a guy on their first date,u just carry sex from nowhere come put am for where e no suppose dey

naw if a girl says yes to a guy immediately he asks her to be his lover,some of them guys will call her cheap,cheap not as in shagging but cheap for being too easy to get

i was really surprised when i saw your reply about sex ,so teeeee i look d thread to know if u make mistake post am for d wrong place,na when i come read well i know say u know where u post am