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Don’t watch porn. Porn is for people who can’t attract mates. Masturbation kills your sex drive and prevents you from taking the initiative to meet a real woman.

Hit the gym. There are no ‘ugly’ men. Only unfit men. Hit that gym if you want that ripped body.

Pick one thing you want to do and do it well. Success comes from the perfection of a skill. Be it coding, business, finance, etc, perfection in a skill will take you miles.

Don’t be thirsty. Men who wake up every day desperately thinking of sex and trying to get laid will NEVER score. Women can smell thirst from a mile away. The men who score the most, the so called ‘Chads’, are the ones who never think about sex; sex comes to them automatically because they are dedicated to improving themselves every day, and women are attracted to it. briliant

As a follow up from 4, don’t live life thinking of the fruits. Think of the labour, do the labour, and the fruits will come.

Don’t EVER be ‘the nice guy’.
Don’t be the one who subserviently serves others, scrapes and bows his head, and then gets angry and entitled when he doesn’t get what he wanted.

Be brave.
Don’t join online communities/forums that consist of people who CAN’T get something, and who discuss how/why they can’t get it. All they do is blame other people, genetics, or ‘the system’ for not getting it. They then use those things as reasons to conclude that you will never be able to get those things, and that it will be futile to try, as you are doomed to fail. These communities thrive by getting other regular people down and making them join. Essentially, they are comprised of bitter people who want to drag other people down to their level of self pity/hate. Don’t join them.

Don’t worry about what other people think/say about you.
“Toxic masculinity” does not exist. Don’t listen to the people who say it does. It’s NOT a thing.

And one last thing: don’t cry when wronged. Don’t give your enemies the satisfaction of crying. Don’t give those who have wronged you the victory of making you cry. Don’t let them do that to you, to your soul. Not crying is essentially like emotional body armour; there is nothing that someone can say to you that can hurt you.
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Culled from Kim Jones/quora.com