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I feel your pain Bro, I have a similar experience, I believe your wife has a spirit husband, only after deliverance will she be able to really change , anything before real deliverance the changes will just be temporary, the symptoms says it all, spiritually she is being shared. She needs deliverance and if she is really close to God afterwards, she will have the ability to be a normal wife |
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Unyimekelvin:Repent, give your life to Jesus, and always abide in the presence of God, use your phone to watch MFM recorded sermons, watch about 3 sermons and pray with them every day, start praying in the midnight, run away from looking at sexually polluted materials. I believe with this the issue will fade away. This is my kobo for you. 1 Like |
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Most lions are not innocent , they also have several animals blood on their neck, looks like a payback situation to me. Lol |
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Jennyclay: I have already done all you mentioned to no avail, I was even thinking she was doing a hidden business, I have not stopped her from working, she is currently doing some study, and I never pressured her to work until recently that I started sending her vacancies. I wanted her to finish her studies so she could get a good job , that was why I never pressured her earlier to work. She had an online job she was doing as well but she does not earn much from it. She could have asked me for help if she needed to do anything she cannot afford. But I will need to know what it is 1 Like |
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Hi all, I have been married for about 3 years to my wife and we live abroad, some years back I discovered my wife has credit card debt , and was keeping it away from me, I complained about it, and she was not remorseful, she was paying so much on the credit as interest and insurance that I had to help her stop the insurance payments, and I started supporting her more financially by paying for something's for my child so she does not use all the money I give her for it. I looked at her statement again not long ago and the debt has drastically increased, she is buying more stuff. Even though she is not working at the moment and I pay 99 percent of all the bills, and give her money every month too. I told her to consult me whenever she has to do a major purchase for our child that her monthly allowance can not support. Her debt has grown to about 5 thousand dollars now with an interest of about 22 percent per year, she spends more than she pays back, I am afraid she will plunge the family into debt. When I asked her for an explanation of what she is using the money for , she told me she is spending it on herself and our child which I don't believe.She gathered the debt over a period of one year and some months.What happens when we have another child? I asked her to tell me how she plans to put an end to this growing debt but she has given me no response till date , she is only saying she will work and pay it off. I am confused because I do not see the reason for so much debt, since we can afford most of the things we need, and. She can still afford to send a little stipend home, I asked her to let us discuss her financial needs of she needs more money from me , but she never came for that discussion. Am I not supposed to know about her debt as her husband? Is it beyond me to want her to stop gathering a debt that can spiral beyond her control? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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Pharmjossy:She is above 30, I met her here,plus we did not date for long. |
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Aguogba: She came here on her own on a temporary visa, but I met and married her and she is now on my papers waiting to become a citizen. Our child attends Kindergarten, she has not complained really of anything regarding Sex , I do most of the work and I ensure she is satisfied. 1 Like |
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novia22: Thanks so much for your mature advice, she does not really believe in the leadership of a man,at least from what I see. There was a time I asked her not to take my child to school and she told me she will take him to school , and she did ignoring my request, I have asked her if she wants to go, so that we can separate amicably, she should not worry about her documents, I will still help since she has a child for me. I am not sure if I ask her to stop going to her church that she will comply, but I will tell her my decision, being that we live in a white man's country, I have tried to be a bit soft. She is not telling me she wants to go, I am thinking she wants me to pull the divorce trigger, that's why she is not saying anything, if I ask her if she loves me, the answer comes with alot of delay too. It's unfortunate, I guess I made a big mistake 11 Likes 1 Share |
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Datboredberry: Not yet, I sent her the link, she is the one insisting on special criteria, so I asked to to look for it, I have sent her my own suggestion. |
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Datboredberry: I am actually not that weak because of sex, I stayed without sex for almost nine years before I married her, I had more sexually attractive options before I choose her,I guess she was the most chatty with me then. 5 Likes |
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Shokoloko:I am not saying I am a saint, infact when there are issues , I apologize more easily than my wife. I feel very strongly for my child, I do not want him to suffer, she complained earlier that I was not helping with the baby and I started helping more, after a while, she said we need to go to a counsellor, I have agreed and also searched for a Christian one, but she prefers the one with a degree in psychology, Sometimes when she offends me I can be blunt, and I might says some words, but not extreme words the words are only an interpretation of the attitude I see. She knows it all, and does not easily take correction, even when I try to play with her she easily takes offence. Mind you all these never happened while we were dating, I noticed a bit of stubbornness and I tried to correct her , and told her that is one of the attribute I hate the most. I am at point that I am not sure she loves me , and I don't even know if everything happening in my home is normal. 10 Likes |
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I would like to share my current situation on this platform , and I will very much appreciate your mature advice on the issue. I have been having issues with my wife after our first born, we married about 3 years ago, our first born is now about 2 years old, we have been having series of issues In the marriage, my wife argues with me a lot on flimsy issues at times, we do not have constant sex, although I started helping more in the house,I cook and and I do the laundry , and asked her to give me my share of the work, when she complained about work load,I am the only one really working now, and paying 98 percent of the bills. I told my wife that I will like us to be eating together on the same plate to improve closeness, she refused, she sees arguement as normal discussion, sometimes we have sex once or twice in a month, I have told her I will like us all to attend the same church and pray together, but she still attends her Nigerian church online , where they are always seeing vision , and I do not like her attending that church.she also attends online services of my church with me, but I would like us to be attending one church even if it is not my church. I asked her recently that we need to be praying together for our marriage even if it is 10 minutes every day, after weeks of no response from her,I approached her yesterday and scolded her about it, she cried and I comforted her, I later asked her at night to come for the prayer,and she said she is not coming. We live abroad and my mum wants to pay us a visit, She told me the kitchen is her's and my mum should not enter the kitchen, and I told her that it will be difficult, we can pre cook all our food, But she might need to make tea and I will like her to be able to do that by her self , but my wife refused. In her church she is attending they already branded. My mother a witch. Even if my mother is a witch, we only need to pray against it, should we humiliate her when she visits us? I cannot make my wife my mother, she does not show me much love and does not show that she cares, neither does she respect me. My mum shows me love that I can feel. Now we are living like neighbours in the same house. Do you think she is interested in the marriage or has another plan? 79 Likes 4 Shares |
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Sister please go and buy comprehensive mathematics and waec past questions for him. That is all he needs, that is what i used during my days and it was very good. However he should study and understand it from.back to back. In case he needs something for English A1 in English is also very good, used this books in my SS3 days and cleared both Maths and English in both WAEC and NECO they are very self explanatory. |
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Hello, all pls where can i join you guys to watch the match online.what website or station? |
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Please does anyone know a website where i can watch the match? |
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What documents are available on it,and how far is adamo from ikorkdu garage? |
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Good morning, I am interested in buying a plot in the GRA. which plots are available and what documents are available that my lawyer can confirm, and can the prices be negotiated. and do you have whatsapp contact where you can send pictures of the land and area? |
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Please where is alakuko located and can we see a picture of the property? |
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How are you sure that you are not the blind one, have you seen God and he told you islam is the true way to heaven? you better make good research about your faith, we only have one chance and after that Judgment. However islam came about. 500 years after christianity, and islam.is not qualified to tell us about christianity or that our religion has been corrupted, only we christians should be able to tell you about the advent of your religion. Whose prophet healed no one and his only miracle was the quran which was memorized,and some of your people claim its perfect because it was memorized, even yoruba ifa was memorized and its currently well documented. If you have time to research, read up on the manuscripts of Sana and you can also study some books written by ahmed abdelsamad from Egypt to see the true face of your religion. Jesus is the only way to God. I have told you and i am sure heavens know someone told you. Rilwayne001: 1 Like |
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Hi pls, im interested in buying a half plot in the areas mentioned, do you have whatsapp so we can chat and i can see pictures? If you do pls send me the number |
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mapet:Would be nice if you could link me up , so i can clarify the issue, i will send you and email and you can senf me the contact through it. |
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mapet: my Friend , I am not as ignorant as you think, the component of the cost that is dependent on the location of the land varies, but the tax stuff is a major component of the total cost, if the seller does not have 3 years tax clearance, and the buyer does not have too you are talking of almost six hundred thousand already, if you say i must pay tax on my property i agree, but why should i pay a flat rate for income tax when i am not deriving any benefit from government and also pay my tax already abroad where i live. another issue is the building permit , it also costs alot of money, i heard the governor was threatning criminal proceeding against people whoever violates the law, a more reasonable aproach will be to make c of o , Governors consent and so on easier and very cheap first before looking for criminals, government should not victimise and ,milk its citizens dry on housing or discourage poor people from building. the difference in the cost of Governors consent and C of O is not much it is also approaching 1 million and over in some cases. and without this consent u are not supposed to build on a land youve bought. It is all a fraud and very soon Nigerians will get wiser and they will understand. i dont know which country punishes the poor like Nigeria, and Lagos is laying a very bad foundation when it comes to land and property administration. The Land use charge is normal and can be collected, but people should be encouraged to build because in saner climes , if you dont have a Job it is your government's responsibility to build and accomodate you, or pay a Landlord to accomodate you. people are doing Government's work for them. while our leaders spend the money on luxury driving heavy cars and living large. |
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I believe some of us here dont know how expensive the Lagos state government has made C of O acquisition, it costs above 1 million naira, they take the money from you and hardly provide amenities where you are , to even get the C of O is very difficult. I personally think it is wrong for government to make C of O acquisition so expensive, and difficult, even some people that manage to apply dont get it in 3 years. then you turn back and demolish peoples houses knowing fully well that when they dont have a C of O they get nothing. That is the height of criminality, dont forget that a majority of lagosians cant afford this C of O thing , it is just too expensive, i live abroad, and if i buy a land to even start the process I have to pay 300k as tax even as i dont live in Nigeria, and i will pay the same for the seller aswell plus other charges, i think our goverment habe lost their humanity, and only God will defend the poor in that country. Why should C of O be more that 100,000 Naira since its clear that a majority of Nigerians are poor, what is the Minimum wage in Nigeria? And now he wants to demolish 800 houses, some peoples life savings. agog: |
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Good evening, what documents do you have on it, and how far is it from berger or the closest big city ot town to it in lagos |
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