ogawisdom:


Happiness does not depend on anything but your will power, it's just a choice. whether u are sexually satisfied or eat onces a day you can still choose to be happy. Your understanding of happiness is shallow.

Ok
I could give a lecture (to you) on this and clarify my words when I do that, but I ain't got that time.
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Thank you for your opinion though
Cheers!

Fhemmmy:


No one can be without a reason . . . .Dont let your hatred for women cloud your reasoning, whatever you give a woman is what she will incubate and give it back to you double, give her happiness and she will give you joy but give her miserable life and she will give you 7 feet

Biko dont get me wrong i dont hate women. why naaaa
buh i hate those who keep playin victims even after all ur good doing.

I see this statement as a 'consolation statement' ( a statement to make you move on when things are not going as planned) . For instance,your spouse isn't treating you right and you keep saying 'it's my choice to be happy' by trying to do things that makes you happy outside of the home ie hanging out ,working ,the fact is that the underlying problem is still there and deep inside ,you are not a happy person ( unless you really dont care)Why do ppl suffer heartbreaks,why do people commit suicide if truly happiness is a choice.We are human beings and we definitely have factors that contributes to our happiness ( our happy languages) - it could be work ,friends money ,etc.when those things are not there we are definately going to be sad! So I'll say while it's good to have a happy life outside marriage .Your marriage or choice of a partner also contribute greatly to how happy n how successful you turn out to be.

Goodnewsbearer:


Na true you talk boss. I learned this the hard way.

Infact, I'm in this case now.. Abt calling it quit... Gosh I can't stand pple dat feels de world revolves around dem

Solid question