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Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Dazuki(m): 10:10am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Pray and continue talking to him...please keep to your faith,that's the most important... He will come around you will see |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by hope4life: 10:12am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: Don't impregnate her.Never commit premarital sex.God hates it.It has grave consequences. Keep to your conviction so that God can defend you.Break the family curse by not doing what they do.Keep praying.If your father still sticks to his gone,go ahead in the name of the Lord,nothing will happen.God's authority superceeds his.You obey God above anybody.You obey your parents IN THE LORD-if what they ask you to do tallies with God's will.There are many cases of such and God stood by them. 1 Like |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by stylepoison(m): 10:18am On Apr 22, 2019 |
pray and pray against every odds God will take control of everything |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by stankezzy: 10:21am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26:from what u wrote u need serious deliverance and family liberation prayers ,if no one have done it , how do u then think that your family and village forces will just allow u to do it without any challenge |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by agabaI23(m): 10:22am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Budex40:The only cogent reason reason there is that it is family tradition and the father imposed it on all based on his belief. He is a dictator. Keep the other things. Not relevant. 1 Like |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 10:35am On Apr 22, 2019 |
agabaI23: If he goes ahead without his father's blessings, he' s FVCKED....!!!!!! |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by robosky02(m): 10:47am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by lonelydora: 10:51am On Apr 22, 2019 |
andycom: Orphans also have people who stand in as their fathers during marriage. If it was not important, no one would bother looking for someone to stand. Learn some traditions, bro |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 10:51am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: I know people like your father. They are narcissists. I don't have experience with this so I cannot advice you. I wish you well. I know you'll make the right decision |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 10:53am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Xisnin: OP this!!! Do court marriage and white wedding and enter house, ojare God will bless your new home. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by obinoral1179(m): 11:01am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26:this is dicey but pray about it and put everything to God hands , he sures.knows how to handle everyman heart, but don't yield to the pregnant stuff... |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Shinjitsu: 11:14am On Apr 22, 2019 |
If Africa is a dangerous place to grow up, why did you grow up here in Africa?..the only thing we learn from the Europeans and Americans are bad things on how not to respect our father...like one stupid boy on facebook was happy because the dad is late..even called him a stupid and foolish father because his father left his mum when he was young.but did he ask the mum why the dad left her? No OBJ was dating his sons wife before his son got married to her..but was warned by his father never to marry the wife but he was in a rush now he has rushed out.. This is Africa we have culture and traditions which you can't change..as an African man will get married without your father's blessings? you see fathers knows best |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 11:17am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26:Bro, I think u should agree with your old man, impregnate her if its allowed in your religion and then wait till your mother demised reach 1yr. The implication of going ahead with the wedding is; 1. Your relationship with him will be sore, 2. There is every tendancy that your wife will be outcast in your family. Alternatively you may involve your Father's Imam/Pastor |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Shinjitsu: 11:18am On Apr 22, 2019 |
You and I don't know the reasons why his father asked him to wait. OBJ was dating his sons wife before his son got married to her..but was warned by his father never to marry the wife but he was in a rush now he has rushed out.. This is Africa we have culture and traditions which you can't change..as an African man will get married without your father's blessings? you see fathers knows best |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Lopeztranto(f): 11:28am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Donjazzy12: My profile will do justice to your question |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Ishilove: 11:29am On Apr 22, 2019 |
robosky02:You are not serious |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 11:32am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Hey boy! Why are you so much in a hurry? Mourn your late mom for a year and come back later to receive your father's blessings. Shebi na sex... You go fck you go tire. I just hope your girl has also kept her self celibate for the 7yrs too. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Nobody: 11:45am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26:your. Parents are your key to paradise.....*dont forget that* u can have up to six wife but your parents can't be changed... I think ur lady is feeling Insecure but. Waiting. Till. Next year isn't bad I pray with all this struggle you are facing that this girl Is a Virgin |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by CASHCOW247(m): 12:12pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
AleAirHub: All this fathers blessings this....fathers blessings that really makes no sense. If one finds a woman to marry, one should seek God's blessings and go ahead with the marriage. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by CASHCOW247(m): 12:21pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Phonix16: And if the dad doesn't bless the union, what happens?? |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by CASHCOW247(m): 12:41pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
dan2976: What exactly is your point?? So "parental blessings" would change his wife from evil to good?? The only thing you'll say is that the relationship with his father may be strained. Which he can make up for it later....especially when children start coming in. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by ashjay001(m): 12:58pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: If u don't mind getting disowned, no P. You might win, by calling his bluff or u might loose everything! No sex before marriage, is dangerous. Sexual compatibility, is a must! It might be nobody's fault, but it's real. The size of d D, might be a bone of contention on its own! |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by mechanics(m): 1:40pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Your dad has to give his blessings and there must be parental concept before wedding can take place, maybe you should meet one of your father's brother to talk to him to see reasons to accept your wedding plans, it won't auger well for you to go ahead without his approval. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by AleAirHub(m): 1:49pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Abi... Well done jor CASHCOW247: |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Meliaen(f): 2:06pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Olu20090: I had the feeling he is yoruba while I was reading too. Although I didn't need to think that since I'm yoruba too. He's def yoruba. Same way when I'm reading on marriage issues by an igbo, I would know it's igbo. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by ghettochild4u(m): 2:35pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26:Is[b][/b][color=#770077][/color] Is it not d same God that said honour thy father and thy mother |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by sircrabo: 2:52pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
TheVictorious: Africa is so frustrating. from Govt to the Home front. People frustrating people. Africn parents can be annoying and they are dream killers 2 Likes |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by trevorhorace(m): 3:33pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: simply inform your family members and in-laws about your pops behavior and decision . then go on with the wedding. By So doing, you already have an alibi. Move on with your wedding plans and pray he changes his mind. Parental blessings are great but overrated. Afterall there are many married orphans doing well. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Emescot(m): 7:30pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Noel1:abeg i no wan laugh |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by andycom(m): 9:27pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
lonelydora: its no longer blessings but traditions, I laugh at your ignorance. you're so low behind |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Rozaytee: 9:46pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Abeg forget dat ur Papa jare and live ur life he had lived his... He should leave u... Biko |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by hammerFC: 9:49pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Rozaytee: he had lived his? Is he dead yet or just old? |
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