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Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:05pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Sam2310: God bless you my brother.. some of our people here couldn't differentiate between "Earlier year " and "early this year"... 2 Likes |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:05pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
megareal: Good you read well and understood.... |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:33pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Thanks to everyone that came round... But let me clear some misconceptions, I didn't bring this up here to convince my father or seek emotional comfort.. I have made my decisions, I opened this thread to show my fiance what is applicable and clear some doubts.And to keep record for my kids and other future purposes. Now let me clear some misconceptions in the many comments. 1) One year of my mum's demise ( some of us might misquote this English again, demise means that she had left this planet, I don't want to use the actual word) had already passed One year done pass teytey abeg 2) . My dad is very rich, I am not 0000000000000000000.000000 near him yet. 3) I met my grandmother today (my mum's mother) and I narrated my story to her, I was expecting her to pick phone and called my dad and beg him, she didn't , she just called her children, and said, we are following him for marriage, she spoke with my in-law and told them they are coming. She told me my father never paid my mum's bride price. 4). Am not painting my father bad. He is a very good and nice man, But once he says something, you can't change him from it Now here is it, In my lineage, they don't go to in-laws place or have cordial relationship with them. Women are generally seing as piece of paper, I did lots of works to remove this ideology from my brain cos it's what we grew up to see. On my father's part, it's more of ideology, it's more of believe system. He also advise one of my female siblings to just get Belle, even if it's for married man cos men are scarce now, you can see it's just his own believe and ways of life... But you can't remove this from him. We do had issue with course I studied in school, he rejected a very course close to medicine and surgery. I begged him to let me continue that following year, I will write Jamb again, he agreed, I did and passed till I entered 300level, I was still writing Jamb grin. When I finished the course, he advised me to start law. I was so short of words.. After I had Bs.c in a medical related course, you are now saying I should go and study law. I prostrated and thanked him. I never went back, just picked up my business fully grin. So to roll with my father, agree with him quickly, infact thank him the next day, then do what is on your mind and show him the result. grin I will surely share my wedding photo here... Thanks to all. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:35pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
adekaden: Thanks to everyone that came round... But let me clear some misconceptions, I didn't bring this up here to convince my father or seek emotional comfort.. I have made my decisions, I opened this thread to show my fiance what is applicable and clear some doubts.And to keep record for my kids and other future purposes. Now let me clear some misconceptions in the many comments. 1) One year of my mum's demise ( some of us might misquote this English again, demise means that she had left this planet, I don't want to use the actual word) had already passed One year done pass teytey abeg 2) . My dad is very rich, I am not 0000000000000000000.000000 near him yet. 3) I met my grandmother today (my mum's mother) and I narrated my story to her, I was expecting her to pick phone and called my dad and beg him, she didn't , she just called her children, and said, we are following him for marriage, she spoke with my in-law and told them they are coming. She told me my father never paid my mum's bride price. 4). Am not painting my father bad. He is a very good and nice man, But once he says something, you can't change him from it Now here is it, In my lineage, they don't go to in-laws place or have cordial relationship with them. Women are generally seing as piece of paper, I did lots of works to remove this ideology from my brain cos it's what we grew up to see. On my father's part, it's more of ideology, it's more of believe system. He also advise one of my female siblings to just get Belle, even if it's for married man cos men are scarce now, you can see it's just his own believe and ways of life... But you can't remove this from him. We do had issue with course I studied in school, he rejected a very course close to medicine and surgery. I begged him to let me continue that following year, I will write Jamb again, he agreed, I did and passed till I entered 300level, I was still writing Jamb grin. When I finished the course, he advised me to start law. I was so short of words.. After I had Bs.c in a medical related course, you are now saying I should go and study law. I prostrated and thanked him. I never went back, just picked up my business fully grin. So to roll with my father, agree with him quickly, infact thank him the next day, then do what is on your mind and show him the result. grin I will surely share my wedding photo here... Thanks to all. |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:38pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Kweensavvy: Hmmmmm... Lolz. He only forms hard heart, when little things happen, nah cry cry person Ugo just see. I could remember some years back when mum was sick... Papa just dey cry around, nah we pikin dey beg am 1 Like |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Thane(m): 12:43am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Marriage26: Good you have gotten advice. But Bros pls, can you introduce me to your business, i beg of you. You can reach via 07032909591 |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 1:32am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Thane: Boss, we all learnt it here on NL when Nairaland business section was very hot and a no nonsense mod cos the section seems filled with many stuffs now. It's a business that boom in 2013, 2014, 2015 , thought many ran away in 2016 and faced coins but I stay put and it paid off... 1 Like |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by segunk1(m): 1:40am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Emescot: He should not break his family history but go against God's wish bah Issoryt it's like you need 24 slaps I mean just two dozens of slaps 1 Like |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by segunk1(m): 1:52am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Bros, pls go check your fertility asap, I don't trust that your dad, from the look of things here he might be diabolic. God will see you through. 1 Like |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Thane(m): 7:29am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Marriage26: what's the biz pls |
Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by NoToPile: 7:42am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Marriage26: I think the bolded is the main challenge your father has. Your grandmum not making an attempt to even call him about the issue speaks a lot. Wish you the very best in your marriage. 1 Like |
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