Sharp guy

Well she deserved the response you typed.

ednut1:
Smh. No non virgin gal goes celibate abeg

What school of thought told you that?

bethyz:
Well it is not wrong for a lady to decide not to to have sex with you in a relationship and till marriage.

It is also not wrong that a man decide not be financialy commited in a relationship
Your choice

But who brought up the sex issue?

If you make sex an issue at the beginning of a relationship you are shooting yourself gun on the leg. What happen to other things that can enhance a relationship.
The guy claiming he wants to start somthing serious with the girl i dont think you are telling us and yourself the truth. The way you said you evaporated doesnt even show an atom of seriousness. She said no sex but said money can be involved you ran like an antelope because the word no sex was involved. There is actually no way you reasoned with her on getting to know each other better and sex should be put aside. For her to say money should be involved what lead to that ? Did you cut off some other conversation just to paint her bad ?. For guys who will comment the guy did a good thing. It means there is nothing you can offer in a relationship too. You just want to have a girl who will be sleeping with you. And when she says no sex you paint her as bad.

Any woman now who says no sex till marriage na bad person now. But you want to marry a good girl. A virgin abi.

One thing guys have refused to understand is test of motive .
Every girl want to know your motive when you come gushing out tales of love story. Ladies arent dump. When you approach her she has decided within if she wants you or not. Sex before marriage money before sex and all that crap is for you to show that person hidden in you. Run she knows the kind of person you are , stay your true reason for coming to her will still show.
Sex or money shouldn't be an issue if you are genuine.
Men shouldn't be running after women for sex in the name of love. You are just deceitful and a liar.

When the lady agrees to sex you cant even take care of her. You want her as bed mate with no responsibility. You are the same person to say i just met her last week we had sex all the time am tired of her. She is too loose. You go after another girl another relationship. Leaving that one who has committed her time and body to you. If you know you are not ready for a committed relationship stay off this ladies to find some better for them. Every womans biological clock is ticking. To go to waste there time . You may find out at the long run she will be the one to offer sex because she dim you worthy. When sex is brought up in a relationship dont make it an issue. Unless your brain is twisted around the butt
Fear God ooo

Baba, u spoke well. If u look at the chats, she said no sex. Then I went on asking her why, she gave me reasons. I said okay, let's work on building this.

Then she came up with the money. I was like WTF. Is this a sort of bargaining chip.

Truth is I couldn't really out up with such reasoning. It was awful

can you imaging

Why are some girls like this? Sometimes I wonder if their brains are wired wrong. You not met but you're already asking him to be the ATM. But wait oo who send her to school in the first place?

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