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Save My Marriage Today by romanusgab(m): 2:48pm On May 06, 2019 |
I'm not going to lie about your marriage and tell you everything is going to be okay. The bottom is dropping out of your world right now. Your marriage, everything you love and treasure, everything you have worked your life for, everything that's familiar to you... it's all on a knife-edge. You can't eat... you can't sleep... you can't think straight... Your health is in free fall due to the enormous stress you are under. Your whole life and future happiness, something that at one time seemed so certain, now hangs precariously in the balance, waiting for you to make the next move. Your marriage is about to jump off a cliff... is it going to take you with it? I have THREE things to share with you that will immediately disarm the threat of divorce and work on rebuilding and saving your marriage RIGHT NOW if you do them, but you have to listen carefully and do them without hesitation if you want to save your marriage. It's that important. 1. STOP what you are doing right now. The misguided methods and well-meaning ideas you have used up until now have not worked. That's why you are here and your marriage is teetering even closer towards divorce. What you have done may be pushing your spouse even further away, even into the arms (and the bed) of another person. It's time to rethink and relearn everything you ever thought about how to save your marriage and get your dream life back. 2. Break forever the chain of lies, the resentment, the doubt, and the never ending negative spiral of arguments that has catapulted you and your spouse from happily married to the gates of hell and the very real possibility of divorce. No matter how complicated or unique your marriage issues are, I have the key that will stop the arguing and negativity dead in its tracks, focus you and your spouse back on YOU AND YOUR MARRIAGE, and open your eyes to the love that still simmers beneath. 3. Turn your spouse around and make him/her LOVE you, CHERISH you, and DESIRE you again, so completely and powerfully that your marriage is the strongest it has ever been and is immune to the threat of breakup and divorce ever again. It might sound impossible right now to visualize your renewed, loving marriage again...but I promise you, if you read through this page and do what it says, you'll be shocked at how quickly your marriage turns around for the better, how the communication with your spouse will go from awkward and angry to nurturing and positive, and how you will have the loving spouse and the strong, supportive marriage you have always dreamed about and deserve. That mind-numbing, consuming pain that has taken over your entire body that is with you every moment of every day will become a distant memory, as you use and apply my life-changing skills and key psychological secrets to your marriage, and make sure that you never face these sickening feelings of loss and loneliness ever again. I am going to reveal to you my life-changing methods for saving your marriage, but first I have a very important truth to share with you before carrying on... Your Spouse Is Lying To You About The Real Reasons They Want A Divorce Chances are they don't want to tell you what their real reasons are... for fear of hurting you, for fear of making them look bad, or they might not even fully know or understand the real reasons themselves. If you want to discover the truth and cut through the lies and ultimately save your marriage, there are several things you are going to have to learn and apply before you are able to make that happen. If you're like the thousands of couples I've helped over the years, you'll have heard or used a few of the following reasons for ending a marriage: "I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore..." "We've grown apart." "You've changed." "You're not exciting or fun anymore." "I've met someone else and I think I love them..." "I hate you!" "I'm sick of your nagging!" "I don't want to be married anymore and there's nothing you can say that will make me change my mind." Any of these sound familiar? I know that when your marriage is teetering on a cliff edge it can feel like you are the only one in the world this is happening to, and feel completely devastated at hearing one of these lies, but let me tell you that you are not the only one who has heard these excuses and none of these have to spell the end of your marriage if you don't want it to. It's about cutting through these lies, digging deep, and exposing the real reasons your marriage is in trouble, tackling the core of your crisis rather than going over the same old ground and having the same old arguments again and again... learning nothing and getting no further ahead! The difference between a marriage that ends in divorce and one that fights back and survives is using and developing the right techniques and strategies that your marriage needs... at the optimum right time. It's about understanding and reconnecting with your core self and the crucial role you play in saving your marriage, even if you are the only one that wants to save it, the values you want to bring to your marriage, what to say, how to say it, and when, and developing this into a formula for success! My Save My Marriage Today system will strip back the lies you have been told and teach you fundamental values, communication, and relationship skills that will not only bring your marriage back from the brink of divorce, but will give you a solid foundation from which to build an even better marriage and future that will GUARANTEE you will never face the searing, body-numbing pain of a marriage crisis or breakup ever again. I have seen the most toxic and damaged marriages that appeared to be absolutely beyond repair turned around and saved, becoming stable, intimate, loving unions, stronger than ever. Heaps of people have bounced back from a huge range of nightmare issues, such as: lingering and poisonous unresolved conflicts extra-marital affairs emotional detachment and a lack of physical intimacy excessive fighting and negative thinking ineffective communication or long bouts of stony silence busy schedules overtaking quality couples time a suspicious, untrusting, or suffocating partner children and family issues trial separations and many more complex and difficult situations I've helped over 1000 couples disarm and stop divorces from happening to them, and I am telling you I can deliver the same great results for YOU and YOUR MARRIAGE... even if you are the only one that wants to save it! Keep reading and I will tell you how to resolve your marriage problems and gain the intimate and supportive relationship you always dreamed of Why Do I Care About Helping You So Much? You might think that nobody on earth can know what it's like to be you right now... But trust me, I do. My best friend Juan thought her entire world had ended when her husband came home one night and asked for a divorce, telling her that it was over and nothing could make him change his mind. She stared in shock, she cried, she asked for an explanation, but no answer she got really made sense. Apparently her husband Adam had been unhappy for a while. Doing long hours at work, always coming home tired, he was sick of the monotony of his life and felt constrained by the expectations of his wife and family. Juan was devastated. She had been married 14 years, had raised two children, and thought things were okay. Sure, things had been difficult in the early years with two small children, limited income, and a mortgage to pay, but they had got through it. Jane had got a part-time job in the last few years which helped with the bills, the children were getting less and less dependent, and Jane was looking forward to the next few years and what it would bring. There were the occasional arguments over how much time Adam spent at work and how much he helped around the house. Juan was always tired with the kids and cleaning up after them every night, but she thought all couples had moments like this and she never gave it much more thought. They didn't have much time for each other but that was often the case with being a parent. But nothing prepared her for the bombshell Adam dropped on her. That conversation turned her whole world upside down. Everything was a blur after that. Teary... foggy... and numb. The next few days were hell. Every waking moment was consumed with sickening fear of what was going to happen next. She had never felt this low, never felt so REJECTED, UNLOVED, and ALONE. Was she going to lose the house? Where would she live? How would she have enough money to support herself? How would she tell her elderly parents? She knew it would just about destroy them. How would she tell the children? How would she endure the humiliation, the stares and the gossip from the other parents at school, her friends? It would be a lie to say Juan did not contemplate suicide in those first few weeks. She could not sleep, she could not eat, when she did try to eat she wanted to be sick. Her skin was terrible, her complexion drawn. She was a real mess. Her heart was broken and she felt utterly defeated. She wanted it to end. She reached out to me amid a teary phone call, telling me she didn't have the strength to carry on with this. I took her under my wing and started from the beginning, sharing with her and teaching her everything I knew about how to save a marriage. Slowly but surely, Juan got better. She got stronger. She got some of her old spark back. She started to think clearly and avoided her first instinct to beg, blame, or be a victim. Using my guidance and advice, she learned all the essential steps on how to save her marriage. She could have turned away and let this defeat her... but she didn't. Juan did not want to give up and be another divorce statistic, no matter how hopeless it seemed at the beginning. She owed herself and her children better. She applied the steps and strategies I gave her and started to win back her husband by doing things that at first seemed counter-intuitive. Step by step, day by day, there was a small breakthrough. She learned so much about herself and the tangible things she could do in those first few weeks, even when her husband was unresponsive. It was a total flip in the way she would have approached it, but it worked. Slowly but surely Juan started using my techniques to let go of the anger and frustration and started communicating in a way she never had before. Bit by bit, the barriers were broken down and they started to talk, really talk, and the floodgates opened. No more fear, no more lies, no more unspoken expectations. Unbeknown to both of them, they were able to find a way forward and reconnect, and their marriage is now better than ever before! Juan and her husband showed up at a party of mine recently and I could not believe the difference... in just a few months from that devastating conversation, here they were totally loved up, hand in hand, laughing and smiling at each other, staring at each other with renewed energy and love... like a honeymoon couple! To look at them you would never believe they had been at the gates of hell only a few short months ago... but the results speak for themselves! Encouraged by their success I started writing down some of what I knew, refining it, researching and testing it, and developing it into a winning formula that would help more couples avoid the agony of divorce. It was this formula that formed the foundation of "Save My Marriage Today." Today I've helped over 6000 couples save their marriage and achieve astonishing success as they build a better future together, crazy in love like a honeymoon couple and having the skills to make sure they are never in crisis mode ever again. I know it sounds CRAZY... but I know I can make the same great result happen for you... all that remains is for you to want your dream marriage back as bad as I want to help you achieve it! It's time you committed to making sure that your marriage is next by visit www.authorityestore.com |
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