even though i broke up with my boo cos i caught him sleeping with another chic,i still love him even more.i've now come 2 realise dat even though u broke up with someone who neva loved u ,u still feel soo much affection.d ironic part was dat he dint even send.he dint call,send a text or even come 2 my house.anytime he jams me (cos we are in d same institution) he just greets me casually like we are aquaintances,like notin eva went on between us and it shocks me how men can be so unemotional and totally shocking.but d question is y did u date and have sex with a girl when u know u dont love her and u knw she loves u.he doesnt even come check me like he used to and all.not even an explanation 4 his action.he just acts like he doesn't owe me one.so guys can i read ur views

surprisingly he made me trust him and always sounded serious besides dat he was in his 30's so my mind was dat guys of dat age have overgrown playoyism.i neva knew cassanoving doesnt have age limit

hey baby, cassanoving aint got age limit for guys.  so please bear that in mind.  i can feel d pain u r going tru at the moment.  but pls kno 1 thing, its not the end of the world.  everyday, we learn and acquire lessons in life.  one thing u must know is that he is not the one for you.  he doesnt love u. u have to try and get on with ur life and enjoy it while it last cos u ll sure meet the one that loves u for who u are.

Awww you seem like a really nice person. And he must be a real big buffoon for treating you so poorly. I mean, he's even still in an institution in his 30's. Yuk! Lil wonder why he's behaving so sickly. Sorry gurl, just couldn't hold back.

there's no age limit when u r looking for players. My advise is u should brace urself and move on with your life. Engage in other things dat would take him off ur mind. I hope u meet someone who will love u for u.

@OP its not peculiar to guys only, my girlfriend broke up with me on no just course! We were together for three yrs until few months back when she started acting weird! she finally came out of the closet last month that we should brake up! I ask for my wrongs but nothing was forth coming! I really love this girl, even in all that was happening i still show her how much she meant and still mean to me but the funny part is she doesn't call, no text n not even a flash from her and the painful part was she never act like we where ever together, never act like she once craved for my voice, for my presence some months back!!! So dont tag it to guys only, its just who they are! Still missing her like mad cos for three years we really made MTN rich with calls we made to ourselves every minute but am trying to move on with my life even though i still call her once in a while cos i still cant believe it cos she felt n looked perfect in my eyes, So just move on! somone better who appreciate u will come your way k!!!!!!! Cheers

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Sh!t happens, life sucks, relationships dont work, love dies, but in the end we have to learn the lesson and move on, I know its easier said than done and it hurts especially when the so called love partner doesnt show any remorse about it all as if it meant nothing but I have a feeling that his ego is bruised a bit, and he doesnt wana bruise it any further, I think right now its pride acting up, man, you have shared a bed with this person there in no way he didnt or not feeling anything for u, maybe just not enough to bend his arrogance and beg but hey U can never know when it comes to guys so dont take my word for it, Give urself time to heal and to get in terms with the fact and in the mean time held your head high, your shoulders straight up and back on that confident look, it will get better in tym, dont look for a rebound, or try to get his attention anyhow he is not worth it,