Please i need sincere advice from reasonable people not those that will call me names.
all my life am used to dating guys that are way older than i am, infact my last relationship was with a guy that is 10yrs older than i, But he is not always around and i decided to start another relationship and not wait for him.
I met this guy here in lagos, we are both from the same tribe. he has shown me more love and care than i can imagine.Even these days where every guys is insisting on profitably employed ladies, he doesn't seems to mind that i am presently unemployed as i lost my job more than a year ago and have been searching since, he went as far as enrolling and paying my tuition fees oin skills acquisition center, so that i can be profitably self employed.
But the problem is that i just found out that am two years older than him. he just turned 30 on july while i turned 32 this sept. we have never discussed age ,so he does not know. I have been having sleepless night thinking about this issue. all my cousins and sister married husbands that are two or a year older than them and i use to tell them that it is not enough, and now i have found myself with a younger man. help me with sincere advice, should i let him go or look for someone else. He plans to settle bf his next birthday. and loosing sleep over the issue, Not that am lacking suitos, i presently have an older guy, more than 7 yrs older asking for my hand in marriage but i do not love him. Please i need advice, but do not call me names. it is not usually my stlye date younger guys.i never thought of that before.

marry d guy if u love him, disregard d age issue. it may not even show till u tell people.

its nothing 2 worry about.

You should try telling him about it, then see how it goes from there, 2 years isnt such a big deal, if you love each other enough and he's everything you want in ahubby, then the age difference shouldnt matter!

marryiing somebody who really cared for you is a blessing. You might have suitors bot not a lover as you have found in this young man. Age is just a number.
Discuss it with him if he does not mind.

Discuss this with him, and if he doesn't mind then go ahead and marry him. PLS let him know from you before the marriage.

Cheers

Hi Babes

Must women marry guys that are older than them? And, let me tell you, two years is nothing if age must be an issue. You are just upset coz you chose to be. Grab ur luck with both hands before another girl helps you out!

Poster make up ur mind on what u want, dicuss it with him on time if he agrees then ALL THE BEST. All u need to do is to take ur mind totally off the age difference

Sisto age is jst a number n nt a barrier,u need 2 discuss it with ur man, age shldnt b an issue here,its nt a big deal, in as mch as he loves u then lov im too n stop contemplating

Sisto age is jst a number n nt a barrier,u need 2 discuss it with ur man, age shldnt b an issue here,its nt a big deal, in as mch as he loves u then lov im too n stop contemplating

i belive age is just a number what matters most is the love you both share.so if you love him forget about the age and marry him.

go and listen to the song" Age aint nothing but a number" by the late Aaliyah. love does not have borders or barriers, follow ur heart

my girl friend of 4yrs is a year older than me, we even joke about it sometimes hehehehehe

i was told age is a number.