sethgoogle: Nigeria Girls In Jand Are Lonely

I noticed something, Nigeria girls in USA are awfully loney. What could be the reason. Is it that the Nigerian guys are busy chasing Spain and other oyibo girls? Hit me.

WesleyanA:
i don't know. settle for less i guess
LOL... u wish....most nigerian girls have nothing to offer...so i dont see the need for the infusion of LESS in ur statement..... besides (2/3rd most promiscuous in the world).... thats a hell of a title....(settle for less my ass)

ldollier:

well, from what i have seen, experienced yankee citizens are infact better than the nigerian guyz that i dated. not just yankee citizens, other nationalities(caucasian, asian, e.t.c) are infact better.

p.s: notice i did not generalize.. but thats what floats my boats

Kokscity:
@Vichel

I think Variety is a great thing. In Naija u only have Nigerian chics, in Yankee u do not need Naija chics because there is an abundant supply of sexy honies everywhere. And the Naija girls "I HAVE BEEN WITH" while i was in Naija were str8 up Lousy in Bed. Yankee girls are like Tigers in bed, and i love agreesion. So i am not sure that it is hard question to answer why they are lonely. Nigerian men look outward for relationship and the women are looking for Naija men.Nigerian women need to liberate themselves and experience other cultures, just like their men are doing. I some celibate Naija female friends and the Nag like there is no tomorrow.

IB7:
[b]O.k. guys I had to stop reading the posts on this topic after I read a posters' note which says " ...the fact is that Nigeria guys here have soo many options to choose from... " not only did this statement irritated me, another posters' note says "..... you to have a nigerian lady you have to beg and beg,but the other ladies,eay does it come 2 u.So why waste time brothers go on and get the real women out there.... "  I was really trying to ignore all these absurd non factual inresponsible comments by wonderful people on this forum.  But my guts won't let me ignore it.  There are many other opinions on this topics which suggests that nigerian females are lonely because they won't date a nigerian guy in America.  I have to say sorry and incorrect.

First of all, many opinions given on this topics by most guys are VERY incorrect and all false.  I will take the stand and speak for myself only but I am sure it applies to SOME nigerian females and they can testify to it.  And I am not talking about those NIGERIAN females who are american want to bes.  I am talking about the true nigerian females.

Here we go...   it is very wrong to say some nigerian females are rejecting nigerian men in American.  Again, I say it is wrong because I am speaking for myself.  Lets' clear the table about nigerian guys 'running' away from nigerian females because of either attitude or varieties.  I don't believe in my heart that nigerian females are rejecting nigerian men and this is very personal to me.  The problem of loneliness of these nigerian females lies solely on our men.  If I wasn't educated, civilized and professional I would have bitched caused a lot of guys on this forum.  But I won't do that because I respect you all, and the least I can do is give my opinions.  You may disagree with my opinion but I don't give a f*ck.

Like I mention above, the problem of nigerian ladies loneliness is not them but the Nigerian guys who come to America or other western world and discover that there are "varieties" as a wonderful intelligient poster said.  It really baffles me to read about that.  Varieties?  And yet you stereotype all Nigerian females.  I guess the author is right, yes it is varieties and why asked the question of nigerian female being lonely in America?    For me, this topic needs a verbal physical debates amongst all nigerians.

Nigerian females maybe lonely because nigerian guys have choices or variesties.  As one author puts it "..... the reason is clear. The African man is in Demand in Yankee. The African American sisters want him.... "  I.B. believes it's the other way around, non-nigerian females are in high demand by nigerian men in America.  And these non nigerian females are the ugly fat ghetto non educated females nigerian men run after because they {nigerian men} feels inferior in America; maybe because of their accents.  They {nigerian men} wants to match up with the American way!

An author puts it rigthtly when he says ".....   But when other chicks elswere see Nigeria guys, they are always intrigued, and we definately enjoy the attention they give us  . but i don't mind dating a Nigeria girl, if only they could take their head off their a** ....."  Sorry bro, I think you are the one with your head in your ass.   Of course, nigerian men wants the ATTENTION because they feel inferior!  But why feel inferior, huh?  Why do you feel that dating non-nigerian females makes you somebody?  Why do you grave the attention?  A nigerian females doesn't or won't give you the attention?  I am speaking for myself, I cleaned, work, cared, in the hospital all night when he's sick, cooked rice & stew, egusi soup, ogbono soup, pepper soup w/goat meat, you name it; never talked back unless infidelity arises.   So dating a nigerian females does make you more inferior? 

And for an author to regard non nigerians as real women is a DISGRACE.  I believe that this wonderful authors are embarrased to be with a nigerian female in America.  They date american females because they want to be seen as fitted in.  They {nigerian guys} date american females {keep in mind, the females are non educated, left overs from american men, useless, sometimes ghetto with no manners but speaks english yeah I got news for you too, I speak perfect english and yes you can mistaken me for an AKATA but sorrow am full blood port harcourtian} because  they want to feel like they are somebody which in my opinion they are.  But I guess, they feel like they are being put down by americans and the american society so they chase americans or non nigerians in america.

However, I guess everyone has preferences......

Regards,
I.B.[/b]

Busta:
well....gurls in the states need to be more careful cos the naija guys out there are just full of shit, not all of them but at least 80% of them are jerks. they believe that since they are in the states, they just wanna have all the fun they can get as well mess with as much white gurls as they can since those ones are piece of cake. when its time to get married, they go to naija and easily pick a wife since most naija gurls would do anything to be married to a yankee guy.

most naija guys out in the states have gotten themselves in babymama dramas and the other half are at large since the cops are after them for fraud and 419 stuffs. some gurls out there too have forgotten their roots and gotten themselves caught up in the mix but one really needs to be careful when engaging in a relationship with naija guys abroad!

disney:
Well Sethgoogle,
It depends on what you mean by lonely cos l know bunch of Nigerian girls that are not lonely so try not to generalize ok. Well, I can't even blame anyone that doesn't fall for most of you Nigerian guys when you guys behave like crap and don't even know how to talk care of yourself not to talk of a lady. When in yankee, there are a lot of nice looking sexy guys out there to choose from who know how to treat a woman. so if they don't fall for you Naija guys, its all ur faults and you need to work on urself before you can attract a real naija babe. Get that straight into your thick skull.

naijacutie:
This forum is much too general. The loneliness factor depends solely on the personality of the girl you're referring to.

CaptPlanet:


Naija girls don wise up. They don't run after Yankee boys the way they used to. Thank God for opening their eyes and that of their parents