Hello fellow Nairaland users! I happen to have seen so many movies and real life instances (school campuses) where people kiss and keep at it for a long time on the same spot , and then i wonder: What's da big deal about kissing? Is it that much fun to actually kiss someone (definitely the opposite sex), apart from the norm of just showing that you love him/her truly? 

Kissing is just like fashion: it's a big deal because people think it's important. Unlike sex, it has no intrinsic value.

Seun:

Unlike sex, it has no intrinsic value.

Right, it [b]has [/b]no intrinsic value, cos it already [b]is [/b]intrinsic value:

Kissing is a wonderful thing.

Sensual kissing with just a little tongue, can be very Hot indeed.



nosillA xx

Kissing is typically regarded as a form of expression (after all you wouldn't kiss everyone on the lips)
Kissing is very general and it does have the capability of reaching higher and newer heights (tongue, deep, sensual).
Kissing is typically the begining of most sexual activities - most men don't regard it as important as women but do it cos they are aware that you can't drive a car without starting the engine.
NOT everybody is good at it!

kissing? mmmmmmmmmnnn

interesting! lovely! sweet! deliciuos!fun!

i culd go on and on!

wait o, wetin concern afrika man wit kissing?
   to me kissing na oyinbo thing

the main thin dat complt love is kiss and Romance so do it like tomorrow is not yet another day.

The Big Deal Is That U Can Get Yo Lips Bitten Off By A Vampire Sis.

Yeah, some wicked or inexperienced vampires might bite off your lips or tongue, but if you get to really explore the sensual aspects of kissing, you will live to love the experience and crave for it every second.

Although, your enjoyment of kissing also depends on the kisser and kissee .

@ Topic

You need to know the joys and pleasures of kissing. Maybe getting an Indian wife or a lady that knows a little of kama sutra will open your mind to new experiences in the realm of kissology.

#Candid Submission#

@ poster
why dont u kiss a girl and find out ?

kissin kissing kissing
kisssin na di thing wey sweet past in sex activities
the big deal in kissing is it`s ability to arose you to the ultimate level in sex.
so kiss and kiss until you will be kissin yourself

Make sure say the kisser and the kissed no get AKOKORO or else it can get transfered

omogenaija:

@ poster
why don't u kiss a girl and find out?

r u offering yo service?

opuro:

Make sure say the kisser and the kissed no get AKOKORO or else it can get transfered

Na true o

@ opuro, your name wont let them believe you.

electron:

kissin kissing kissing
kisssin na di thing wey sweet past in sex activities
the big deal in kissing is it`s ability to arose you to the ultimate level in sex.
so kiss and kiss until you will be kissin yourself

Beautiful kiss poem. Did you study kissology? LOL

Anyway, I am curious and want to know how you can or will kiss yourself. .

#Candid Submission#

Kissing is so sensual. It speaks volumes. It is so much more than sex itself, Really.

@poster

how old u bi sef !!!

So much big deal. . .swallowing someone else's salava!. in short, Kissing is

very succinct way to put it dear girl,

but that's wen u dont love the person ure kissing

@ poster

duuhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!

Kissing na part of the process. U can't just go straight to the ultimate level of s*x without initiating from the lower level.

I regard it as necessary and compulsory. I can't do without it, but u need a partner that appreciate it as well for the thing to jolly well well

Kiiissssssiiiinnngggg, ??

I don't blame the poster for his question,kissing was not part of the culture in most parts of Nigeria.
As some others have noted the art of kissing needs to be learned.It is not just pressing your mouth against some other person or attempting to swallow them. .
When I started dating I used to fumble around and used to wonder what the big deal was until one girl showed me what kissing was.
Man, with the right person you go loose urself. I think it also has more of an effect in arousing women than men.Kiss a woman well and things will happen for you. .
@Busygirl ,Sorry no offence meant I have to say this but the view you expressed is common with people who have mild Neurosis linked to an obsession for personal hygiene. Kissing some one is a sign of how much you have accepted them.If you find it disgusting what about giving head. I knew one lady who refused to kiss her husband even on account of the fact she had this idea of swallowing dirty saliva.

wHAT'S NEUROSIS? i Hope you're not saying i'm sick upstairs. . .AnyWAYS, that's my opinion. .Maybe when i get married my opinion will change. for now, it's

ruescho:

Henry [b]KISS[/b]inger?

Shuttle Diplomacy

kissing is an act of romance meant to be enjoyed by both parties. It is also a sign of acceptance. although not many people are good at it, i believe it could be learnt in the right atmosphere.

hmm, so ya i had my FIRST KISS after 20+ yrs of my life a couple days ago, it was , i dont know, just amazing. Kissing is definitely good stuffs!!
Its kinda sad for Nigerians because it seems like our men and ladies do not appreciate it, it is just an amazing and deeply intimate act,
So not to blow my horn, but the beautiful american girl that i kissed was suprised that the kiss was my first one what can i say, i guess i did preettty good lol,
But ya, kissing is definitely a big deal, esp. to the woman. If you are good at it, na enjoyment your wife go enjoy kpata kpata.

Indeed,it something that kinda show how intimate you are with somone,@least you can't just kiss an ordinary guy,so i think its a way of showing some luv, But trust me,its fun if you are kissing someone that you really like.

let me tell u all dis.doe guys do not appreciate a kiss as much as ladies but from experience i can tell d house dat kiss is an acid test to the closeness of the 2 parties.when u give a girl a sensual kiss i can bet u it is the door 2 beta tins 2 come.i can recall dis girl (virgin) i was datin who was very hard to get & i got frustrated.she even ,made me promise i wont make love 2 her until we were married.but , d day she finally allowed me kiss her it was now my turn 2 do shakara!!! can u imagine dis.from researches about relationship it is discovered dat when 2 parties dat used 2 kiss b4 making love stop kissing then d relationship is about 2 come 2 a halt .& dis is tested.meeeeeeeeeeen kissin is the preamble,the door,the beginning, i must tell u it is only when u want a "quicky" dat the excitement wiil still b dia without kiss.After kissing a girl one day she said u are good and what did i say.dat she was beta of course.so go out kiss,eat d tongue gently while smooching,brushh d teeth with ur tongue,eat the jaw, and ,