internationalman:

Your last sentence is kind of true..

I have not told any girl before I want to date her.. It just kinda works out

Toks2008:


That is the best way to woe a lady you sincerely want....start acting like her man and observe her.

If she flows with you then you are in but if she starts acting difficult then accept the red flag and try to chance somewhere else.

Wooing a lady outrightly is for immature guys.

AmNuhRegular:
Can you people just let women be?

ibkayee:

Lol I didn’t say friendships that hopefully turn into relationships though, I mean relationships that just happened to start as a friendship, if that makes any sense

BabaIbo:
I remember asking a girl out, babe was like I really love you but we can't date cos I don't want a heart break(I guess she was acting base on her past/experience). The thing vex me sha, her reason was annoying, imagine she said because I am handsome and she felt she's not in the class of ladies she think I can/should date. I told her point black that she has low self esteem.

Meanwhile I wanted to date her for a serious relationship that might leads to the alter.

P.S- She told me whenever I'm ready to settle down, she's also ready but for courtship, she's afraid

Fourwinds:




Acting as if you are already dating is wrong because it might be too late and you can't blame the girl if she is seeing someone else

breakerofchains:



You people are so silly...

Must every relationship end in sex?
That you like someone doesn't mean that person will like you back.

This man KNEW Dany would have nothing to do with him romantically. She was his Queen and he was loyal to death.
It was more than his feelings. There where more important things. It's called loyalty and priorities.
Alpha behavior.

;

truthsayer009:


The heart of a Man is deep my Sister, that man liked Khaleesi. This doesn't affect his loyalty. Jon Snow liked her too, but it didn't affect his loyalty to his (own) people.

Loyalty or not, Friendzoned is Friendzoned.

Anyway tell your alternate moniker that I like her darkskin

breakerofchains:



I don't have an alternate moniker.

Also, there's nothing wrong with being friend zoned.
Not everyone you like must like you back.

Stop complicating things.

truthsayer009:


You're definitely not new on this forum, you're either Safiaa or No One!

Toks2008:
I decided to drop this after I read a thread on the front page where a lady advised fellow ladies on the criteria to look for before they give a man attention on dating sites.

The truth is that there is no rule when it comes to dating except one basic rule..BE OPEN MINDED.

It is quite understandable if a lady is very sure she does not want a guy and tells him out-rightly but we have some ladies who are just difficult for the wrong reasons...this set of ladies will like a guy but will still be acting up with the notion that if the guy truly wants them, he should sweat blood in the bid to win them like a trophy.

When a lady is too difficult, she may remain single for a very long time or most likely attract the wrong guys cos Players usually find difficult ladies very fascinating.

Real mature and responsible men don't have the time and energy for drama but they will express their sincere intentions to a woman they truly desire and will move on if she shows no interest not because they don't want the lady and it's not about pride but it is simply because they are too responsible and focused to waste their time and energy chasing an unresponsive lady.

That a guy chases you for a long time does not mean he truly wants you but he just might want to prove a point to you.

Agreeing to date a guy quickly does not mean you are cheap but it is the way you comport yourself whilst dating him that matters. Proving hard to get is old fashioned and only for ladies who don't know what they want.

I hope this makes sense.

stupidity:
I deh pity women shar. How they pick out one man out of the dozens of men that DM them really amazes me.


If to say I be woman, I for be ashawo o. A coded Instagram hoe

Fourwinds:



Oboy... That guy mentioned good example oooo... That man died on friend zone in GOT ooo

kaen1317:
When a lady is too difficult then she doesnt know that good men are hard to find and that women are like flowers that bloom and wither. Men are like wine that gets better when it ages....Ned and Regina

babyfaceafrica:
every mallam with his kettle..no rule anywhere

internationalman:
As for me I only date the girls I make friends with...

From friendship I just start acting like I have already started dating her while I take her own reaction into consideration..

It works 80% of the time..

internationalman:
As for me I only date the girls I make friends with...

From friendship I just start acting like I have already started dating her while I take her own reaction into consideration..

It works 80% of the time..

Mcslize:


This is the system I usually use and I am using right now on a girl. I met her the last Thursday of last month. Instantly, I started boyfriend role playing by referring to her as cupcake and me as boo boo. No time to waste. Invited her the next day which was Friday to my place with no hidden intention though.

Made her feel at home. Watched movies on my system and prepared food for her. In fact, I fed her myself like Romeo feeding Juliet as she gave me a thumb up and confirmed it before me when I was seeing her off that she enjoyed herself.

Since then, the calls had been mutual and looking forward to the next invite of which I am not ready for yet. She is truly into me right now. She called me yesterday, I didn't pick cuz my phone was on silence. She called again today and we spoke till she exahuasted her airtime. I called back as the gentle caring guy that I am but not blinded by emotions and put more fire on her body and made her feel wanted.

What else do I need again? The mistake I hope not to make is asking her to be my girlfriend when she is already acting as one.

This works very fine. As a guy, I don't need to ask a girl to be my girlfriend to have her as my girlfriend. She already positioned herself as one due to how I handled things from the outset.

This method works very pretty well no be lie.

BabaIbo:
I remember asking a girl out, babe was like I really love you but we can't date cos I don't want a heart break(I guess she was acting base on her past/experience). The thing vex me sha, her reason was annoying, imagine she said because I am handsome and she felt she's not in the class of ladies she think I can/should date. I told her point black that she has low self esteem.

Meanwhile I wanted to date her for a serious relationship that might leads to the alter.

P.S- She told me whenever I'm ready to settle down, she's also ready but for courtship, she's afraid

Patosky4U:
I just believe in make the money and chose any girl of your choice....




80% of girls this days are money driven