Never lose hope henryhemon, they are out there!

MRbrownJAY:

as for independent women, what man in his right mind would turn down a gal that can pay her own share of the meal, holidays etc, lol!

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Belive it or not there are ALOT of men who would rather go for the non independent gal- because they feel they can control the situation better !! I speak from experience on this!

henryhemon:

Like mr.brownie said it'll take a vry sily man to turn down ms.independent bt i guess there are no ms.independent or they're just 1percent of the total women population.
We need re-branding of Nigerian women cuz they've the most bizare mentality u can tink of just a few are different.

Well- obviously there are a lot of silly Nigerian men out there, because that is what a lot of yall are going for these days!! That is real talk!

Ladyjide:

Belive it or not there are ALOT of men who would rather go for the non independent gal- because they feel they can control the situation better !! I speak from experience on this!

thats because there are a A LOT of women out there who have absolutely NOTHING to offer than their coochie and who would be happy to find such men. read on about all the threads where women want to find men who will do all sort of nonsense to get with them. "pay this pay that, buy this buy that and you can have me"

the sad part in all this is that 9ja men start to believe that if you have money you can get ANY woman and BE HAPPY!
get any women: probably, but be happy: i dont think so!