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How To Position Yourself As A Single Trying To Get Married To The Right Partner by nextpoint4u: 9:25pm On Jun 16, 2019
HOW TO POSITION YOURSELF AS A SINGLE TRYING TO GET MARRIED TO THE RIGHT PARTNER
As a single person either male or female intending to get married, you must position yourself and take action that will attract the right partner for your life.

The day you decided to get married ,there many factor you must consider as single, such distance,accommodation,finance,business and work,religion,challenges ahead,sacrifice,language,character,education,vision of your partner and tribe.
Men are hunter by nature,they go after women that attracts them while Women are res ponder when men ask them out .
If you want to catch fish then you will go to the river,if you want to travel abroad after getting your visa then you go to airport same thing, when you are looking for marital relationship that will lead to marriage.

Many people are looking for right relationship that will lead to healthy marriage ,they are not taken the right step to make that dream come to reality. All they do is to go to work,back home, to church or mosque back home and you are at home throughout and complain ,that you are not seeing the right partner , social media that would have been another avenue to connect with opposite sex, you are not making use of it.
Then how will the dream partner connect with you.

Using a farming system where a fisher man has to go to the river to look for fish to catch if the fisher man did not go the river , no way he can catch the fish. the fishes displaying on the surface of the water will attracts the fisher man same thing in relationship.
Both opposite sex have roles to play in coming together to start healthy marital relationship which will lead to marriage.

HOW CAN A WOMAN POSITION HERSELF FOR THAT RIGHT MAN TO LOCATE HER.
The purpose of marital relationship is Marriage,if you are not ready don’t go into marital relationship yet. Some ladies have been in relationship for 3 to 10 years yet they are not married then why are you in such relationship that is wasting your time,add 10 years to your present age then you know that you are not getting younger.

1)through networking in various places you meet people.
2)By attending social function such as wedding party,naming ceremony,end year party etc
3)Be friendly with males that are singles
4)By joining various association that you know have large numbers of singles
5)By joining different depart of your church or mosque
6) NYSC CAMP
7)Seminars
coolMarket place.
9) Social media is the modern way to locate your spouse owing to the various platform such Facebook,Instagram,etc. and lot more
Many people are not using the various platform effectively.

When you place a sugar on the table in few minute,it will attracts ant same thing in relationship using platform like Facebook,most single ladies,don’t use beautiful pictures for theirs page,they don’t write good things on their timeline. Many single ladies are on a dating platform on Facebook,Instagram and they can not upload their pics,no comment ,they are just waiting for miracle to happen then how will such dream man locate you.

in marital relationship business,the opposite sex can meet at any location.
Doing all these ,does not make you cheap but make you seen by these that are interested in starting relationship with you.
You said there is no men out there ,that want to marry but time to time ,you are attending wedding and you see wedding going on in various location,that is a wrong believe system which brings limitation to your life.

HOW CAN A SINGLE MAN LOCATE AND ATTRACT THAT RIGHT LADY
As a man,you have many role to play in order to have that dream relationship.
There are two mistakes men should not make in life.
Mistakes of occupation and marrying the wrong wife.
Many men have labor but die on timely owing to marrying the wrong wife.

As a man, you must go after that lady you want to have as a wife.if you do not take action and talk to that lady and you are waiting for that lady to locate you then you might wait for long time .

PLACES YOU CAN MEET YOUR SPOUSE AS A MAN.
1)At event you can see and meet your dream wife
2)At seminars where you will see potential ladies and men for marriage who are single.
3)Religion program
4)NYSC camp
5) Association
6)Social media is one of the best and easiest way to connect with the singles ,all over the world right now.

We have over 30 billion singles all over the world and you are saying ,you cannot find one as a partner then you need to change your game.
Don’t be scared to meet your spouse any where, all you have to do is to pray,develop positive mindset and have the basic understanding about marital relationship and marriage that will lead to healthy marriage.

The number thing you should look out in your spouse is the fear of GOD and GOOD character before other factors can be considering other factor such finances etc.

Many single are not doing what they should do ,to get in touch with their opposite sex that will lead to marital relationship that will end in marriage.
Written by
MR ARIAYE I RICHARD.

A business consultant,a coach and motivational speaker (08024995989) call and whatsapp
Email:livingcoastrelationship@gmail.com
For speaking event on (business,relationship,marriage and motivational speaking) get in-touch

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