Budline1:


Exactly, she knows he still likes her and she wants to take advantage of that. He would be nothing but a mugu to her.

2dice01:
lol why is that

Because he woo her and she declined


So he shouldnt help the needy

Bros do u know if you date an average 9ja Bae your expenses after 6month can building one room in my area

Pls dont ask me where i live

jaggedboi:
If you help her you will end up showing her what she missed for not dating you....
If you dont help her she is happier not to have dated you in the first place.
We should get to a point where we do good and don't expect a thank you.
Pay for a pregnant lady in a bus and ask the conductor not to say anything. Pay for someones hospital bill and ask the doctor not to tell the patient.
God likes these secret help and rewards in open.

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Zubi85:

U are not helping matter wit ur comment.
However, d girl is a fool to beg d Guy money. Let her go to her boyfriend and beg for money.
Guy u need to wisen up. Girls don't deserve help from guys. They are very wicked.

2dice01:
lol why is that

Because he woo her and she declined


So he shouldnt help the needy

Bros do u know if you date an average 9ja Bae your expenses after 6month can building one room in my area

Pls dont ask me where i live

NkayStory:



Yes i am bitter because the wickedness many of you imbibe transcends the issue of boy/girl relationship...It is a canker-worm consumming many of you,us and the soceity as well

It is the canker-worm destroying the fabric of this pathetic nation as well those trapped in it...Many of you ignorantly fail to see how being wicked and vengeful destroys you alone and no one else...She declned your toasting 4yrs ago so what?..i ask you so what?..Must a girl date every single guy who asks her out?..

Who says YOU WONT NEED HER HELP TOO IN FUTURE?..or you think she will be a student forever?...,Are all the numerous male beggars everywhere begging money from those they are dating alone?

I have been helped financially by a man i declined to date in the past cos i was too young..Well guess what? i helped his younger sister get a job in a bank 2years ago via my Sister who is a bank Manager..That is life for you!!!

Yes the SARS example is very valid...Extreme wickedness embedded in many of you, playing itself out in various ways..It is a cycle.

Davash222:
Turn her down completely without any reasonable excuse!!

You can’t work for mtn and expect airtel to pay you.

NkayStory:



I am not 'wise' right?..,Time will tell.

sharpwriter:


God bless you

Budline1:


Well said, well said bro. Exactly my thoughts and point. These guys go about preaching about maturity and being Godlike when it comes to ladies matter whereas the ladies only look them like fools. How many of these guys preaching would consider helping their fellow guys as they've turned themselves to good Samaritans when it's involving ladies. This same ladies would still rise to them and act all feminist the next day. Nigerian guys need to stop being weak and give these ladies what they actually deserve so they could learn and change. How many of the successful ladies out there are helping men or lifting men up in return in this country, y'all better use your brains because they wouldn't even help your gut if they were in your shoes.

luluosas:
To hell with your money, foolish man. Direct her to me immediately

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

lonelygem:


So many people are extra ordinarily blessed in our society, some earn more than they actually needed. We have single guys earning as much as 400 to 500k, what do they do with it? Throw party for women and declare free beer in night clubs.. And we are always fast at crucifying and tagging women prostitutes without contributing to what should change the society..

If we all sincerely give a token with plain mind no matter how small, not poke nosing into what he or she do with it and without expecting return of any kind, there will be less prostitute in the society and we will have a better value for each other..

Fouronetwo:

brother, pls i am desperately in need of financial assistance.i narrated my ordeal in chat box for chrirtians thread (religious section) yesterday.pls any help will be greatly appreciated and the good lord shall multiply it in a thousand folds bafk to u.
ACC. NO: 0032212724. STERLING BANK. THANK YOU!

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Davash222:

You’re one of the problems we have in this country.

luluosas:
OK, please the link to the thread. God bless you

Donchukz:
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All the responses concerning this topic,showed how mean guys are towards women,just take a look at the likes and shares,it goes to show that women are not treating the male folks well. Babes,you guys can see the raw data here,which indicates that ; women are emotionally tormenting guys,from what girls have done to me,I so therefore,second every bodies opinions,I so second,gbaaaaaam! Gavel has done it's job

9jaRealist:


The motive for helping people should NEVER be so that they can remember you “helped” them...
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ityP:




5k in this Buhari regime? Abeg 500 naira is ok

Favor99:

Declining to date someone is not an insult, but some people may feel offended. I was talking in general terms.

Trutherme:


Have you wondered why we are blessed with the opportunity to assist or be kind to those who hurt us? Some actually ask for forgiveness when they have nothing to gain or lose. The truth is that the woman in need of assistance may have another opportunity to assist the guy in the near future. Both of us don't know the fate of that woman.

Favor99:

She didn’t do anything wrong, she wasn’t interested in dating. Just like it’s not every girl your interested in dating either

But Jesus preached to help your neighbor regardless of whatever they’ve done. Rejecting man and rejecting God are 2 different things

If Jesus was on this earth in physical form, He would tell him to help her and give her the money she needs

9jaRealist:


Merely reaffirming that misogynistic culture of entitlement...

She did not have to give a reason (just he doesn’t have to not to help her out)...
It’s enough for anyone (male or female) to simply decline to date someone else.
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MJBOLT:

yes,you can help but dont let her turn you to father christmas

Altern8:


Well! It’s been quite a while since I’ve met anyone this angry at men.

She is within her rights to refuse him any future favours whether he once offended her or not. He doesn’t owe her any goodwill neither does she.

I have not said she should have dated him when he asked 4 years ago. It’s not by force. He didn’t offer any details of their friendship (if they remained friends) after the rejection but he wrote this like she came out of the blue to ask for financial assistance. That is what ticks me off.

And there is no justification for SARS brutality.