An hard working guy struggled to send his girlfriend to school and also provides for her needs throughout her years in school. He loves her wholeheartedly and he has always made sure he satisfied her in everything provided he has the power.

The both of them had been dating for 7 years and within those years he has been saving for their wedding. After successfully saving up the money he gave all to his girlfriend to plan and organize the wedding event but she gave him an excuse that she is not ready in which the guy accepted and asked her to keep the money that he will save more to it.

And after some months the guy talked to her again concerning the wedding. this time around he requested for the money but she gave excuses but as time goes on the truth was revealed. The girl has spent the money on another guy who she truly loves and they are getting married.

The other guy became totally down and confused. He fell sick and it took him so long to recover from the trauma. One afternoon in his single bedroom as he was laying down in thought. his phone rang, he picked and the caller turned to be his girlfriend best friend. she called to ask what happened between him and her friend and after the whole conversation she told ....

https://shegesup.com.ng/2019/06/20/girlfriend-destroys-seven-years-relationship/

You must understand that this is 2019, and sending some else wife or daughter to school or investing is categorized as a form of charity except a consensual agreement was signed stating what you want to benefit from the investment.

The facts that you guys had sex all through the seven years as violated any form of entitlement you may be feeling.

So don't spend your time sulking on the past, the signs would have been obvious from time to time, but you ignored it trying to "win" her affection as if she shouldn't be wining yours also.

Move forward, If you want to go into your next relationship state some ground rules,

*Pay as you go relationship is very important: This is to stop you from acting foolish due to sexual starvation and fustration thinking its love (they are Runs girls, Oloshos, Students etc)

*Serious Girlfriend that you let her know you want to marry her after not more than a year after dating