kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

DMerciful:
You think it's easy for a man to hold this position not to cheat on his wife given the circumstances? A genuine effort by this man to remain faithful yet you're finding fault. The truth is women with low sex drive naturally pretend to be into sex just to hoodwink guys to marry them. These men will be wondering if their wives have changed, bla bla bla but it's a freaking lie. They never had it but were pretending. Our forefathers married several wives, there has to be some advantages. Even the women who think they are sexually driven, check and you'll find out their husbands or bfs initiate sex 80% of the time.

kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

uruba23:
Okay maybe we should wait for the elders but I think you should communicate more with your wife and try see her beyond been a sex tool agreed by the time you returned Konji would have accumulated.Really you need to study moods,you know the language women hear is money,so if you haven't done that part you might not have a willing partner,secondly you need to do the little things that matters,especially now that you got kids,try to understand your wife and her moods.

daddytime:
[s] mmm

Very rigid situation.

There's nothing you can do to reignite the spark In some women when they have decided to turn off the switch trust me.

I'd advise you just cable your line and find a fuckmate around you for relief.

By the time she sees you no longer ask her for sex, her body go phone her [/s] .

donkilidon:
What are your aIts all about the guy abi...improving this stepping up that...if he does all this only to find out later she ks shagging a modafuka outside it will be very painful.


ges?
How long have you been in the marriage?
How long have you known each other?
What changes in sex partern have you noticed from the beginning till now?
When did she start having low sex drive?
Do you suspect she's seeing someone as a result of your job type?
Do you satisfy her other needs as a woman?

Answer these questions honestly and am sure you would find answers you desire.

She might just be passing through a phase in her life, soon the drive might appear.

I encourage you to adopt new and more romantic approach to making her desire you more.
Step up your game,
By improving your general being.
It's not easy to eat same food everyday,every month, every year served in same plate prepared with same old seasoning. Try to serve the same food differently, flavored differently, served differently.
And am sure she will change.
Good luck brother

Gaggi:
Withdraw what women value most and she will be the one begging you. Stop asking her and don't come home every weekend, do what you can to satisfy your sexual needs even if it involves self pleasure.

davillian:

I think he should try making her happy and he would get what ever he needs from her.

bukatyne:


It is your wife we can advise in this case.

Can you get her here?

Or you show her the thread?

As a wife, she ought to look forward to your arrival every weekend and clear her calendar to make you her priority so you feel rejuvenated when going back the next week.

kennydotkom:

I agreed with you the major key to make woman libido high is money, but am trying my best, cos am the only one working, she doesn't go out often, atleast I established her with small scale business. and i do assist her at home, wash my clothes, her clothes, and kids cloth on that Saturday morning, she usually commend me that I hv always relief her whenever I return on weekend.

kennydotkom:
In all fairness to her she is not the cheating type, i knew that in our courtship days . most of the time she do company that I like sex too much and do I want to kill her that is when she is not ready or interested in it

DateMynd44:
are u insane?
the guy said he's God fearing that's why he has avoided girls and you're here dishing a jonadab advise

GeniusWannabe:

People like you disgust me. You know nothing about marriage!

kennydotkom:
Bro thank you, I have spoken with her many time, there was a time earlier in the morning on Monday I ask her for sex before I embark on my journey to place of work she refuse me and make sure I left home Hot and she never care what I can do or go to get myself satisfied till I return on Friday. I do help her with house work, that is what I like most, I do cook, sweet even wash her cloth and my kids cloth, I stop the cooking when her immediate younger brother join us to stay with us, atleast I need to respect myself. When it comes to sex,
I don't rush at all I can spend 40mins for pre-intimacy to make sure she enjoy it. What am thinking is that may e because she was circumcised, cos they usually have low sex drive

kennydotkom:
Bro it's not exactly what u think, she is not the type that cheat, she hardly touch my dick because she get irritated with either dick and spam

kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

Davash222:
So, you still need Ezemmuo to come and tel you your wife is getting the dicck somewhere else

After the weeks toil and you return home to your beloved wife, a faithful wife would ‘scatter’ you with sexx!!!! She’s getting the D somewhere!!! And I think that D is performing better than you. Sorry about that.

cococandy:
Look at how easily the suggestions for infidelity are being handed out left right and center.
Lmao.

kennydotkom:

Thank bro. Just that I don't like cheating on my wife because she is not the cheating type too, maybe because she was circumcised that is why she has low sex drive.

Davidasi:
Simple and easy thing to do. Buy her a new phone hack her communication with voice recorder or call recorder hide it inside the phone give her two weeks and you will be shocked to see what your darling wife is doing. Am saying out of experience I did it and I was free from bondage women are secretive and you must deal with the. Secretly