A confused mind I am!However,I am going to gather myself together and trust nairalanders to help me out.
I have been in a distant relationship for close to 4years.We communicate and maintain a very healthy relationship.Recently,I had the opportunity of relocating to a place closer to where he is.Though this relocation involved me making a huge sacrifice, I made it without hesitation.This is where the story begins,

I found out that my "angel" or so I thought had CHAINS of other relationships .We talked about it and we forgot all about it and decided to start afresh.I agreed to give him another chance (afterall, nobody holy pass) but resolved in my mind that if he should do such again,that will be the end of our relationship. Everything has been fine since then or perhaps, he became smarter.A week ago,I found out that he has been consistently communicating with one of those babes (I don't know for how long though).I asked him about and he didn't have anything to say.It is Obvious he is still seeing her.

We are already talking seriously about getting married next year but I am sure I don't want to get married to a He-goat .I am now faced with the decision of sticking to my resolve or giving him yet another chance.
We have both invested a lot into this relationship and I am finding it difficult to decide.I need your honest advice and a bit of tough love won't harm either.

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give him another chance

if you leave him,you will probably get a worse 'HE-GOAT"

U should try giving him another chance,coz like Mrpresident had said if u leave him u would probably meet a worst He-goat.But i would like to add this: if possible for u to upgrade ur relationship from Distant relationship to a closed one that would probably make changes,Because i still can't advise ppl to put so much trust in such a relationship.''Sorry''.

Its better now that u have gotten married to him. If U can,try to be close it might be becos u are not always around that's making him mess around. And remember if u can't cope with him now, don't bother getting married to him becos it will be hell of a life time

Pls give him one more chance.