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Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:26am On Jul 13, 2019 |
kizwid:the story does not add up |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by lekonso: 9:27am On Jul 13, 2019 |
GogobiriLalas: My friend, age does not determine maturity. There are 30yr olds that behave like teenagers 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by godofuck231: 9:29am On Jul 13, 2019 |
mezarddinny:that one was tight |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Olarewaju89: 9:29am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Are you normal at all? softwerk:
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Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by srclark: 9:30am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Adakintroy2:i dont want to sound like a show spoiler.But the op has to be careful .what if she is taking advantage of the fact the op is single and his business is doing fine ,many naija babes are these way all in the name of marriage once they are in then you see their true colour |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by goodyvin02(m): 9:31am On Jul 13, 2019 |
SavageBoy:Hoo or heo sorry i have a problem with spellings |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by micxwell(m): 9:31am On Jul 13, 2019 |
What kind of foolish question is this ehn . The business is not hers and she's managing it well and she confessed to you how being around you makes her feel, then you went silent and drove her home without saying are word. What in God's name is wrong with you? You are meant to seal it there and then!... 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Fantazy(m): 9:33am On Jul 13, 2019 |
softwerk:U don't belong to the group (wife materials) |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by openmine(m): 9:36am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Being an excellent staff at work does not translate into being 'good enough' to have a relationship with! Like someone said here,try to proceed with caution and first date her before contemplating marriage! Remember,being your staff is completely different from being your partner or lover! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by HMarshal(m): 9:36am On Jul 13, 2019 |
She is ur bizness face @tm, can ur lust or lose ur bizness, let her Midas touch remain on ur bizness,buh if u want to take the risk, do.remb once u strt a relationship wit her, a lot of things will change, she will be "caged", those tips folks give her & returnng because of her is because they want her too (even for just sex). The moment she is no longer to work because she has to always consider ur emmotion ur bizness might suffer 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by fynex(m): 9:38am On Jul 13, 2019 |
ellalina: Go ahead! |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Upaka(f): 9:40am On Jul 13, 2019 |
SavageBoy: Hoe |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by grandstar(m): 9:41am On Jul 13, 2019 |
ellalina: Romance or as we say here, "love wantin tin". You just caught the love bug. Both you and your sweet will live happily ever after. Put a ring on it 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by 1forall: 9:41am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Frankly, the reasons you've given are mainly emotional - they are not strong enough reasons to base a marital (lifetime) decision on. Understand that being single, it is inevitable to develop feelings for a decent person you work with and see on a daily basis. So don't even consider the situation as special. You probably would have felt the same way if it was somebody else doing those things. And she probably felt the same for you even before you realized your own feelings. One standard rule you would be violating by going into a relationship with her is that you'll be mixing business with pleasure and it's bound to have an unpredictable (usually negative) effect on both of you, and effectively the business. This is because it will become difficult to know where to draw the line between being her employer, and being her romantic partner. For example, if she begins to resume late consistently, maybe due to spending time with you after work, how will you react? However if you're determined to get involved with her, you have to build a relationship with her first before you begin to consider marriage. Because you're already talking about a marriage proposal while it appears you have overlooked the stages you should go through before proposal. You should take time to know her family - parents and siblings, and how they're set up. You should observe the relationship between her mum and dad, because it is likely to be the model she will base her own marriage on. You need to know their family values too. And you need to meet and know her friends because they will be likely reflections of her. Then you need to test her by asking questions particularly about any red flags you find. What you find would give you a picture of how marriage to her may be. Then it will be up to you to decide whether you can live with it forever, or not. Note that doing all these things will take time so you shouldn't be in a hurry, and it's only after you've done these things that you'll be be in a good position to consider marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by jaxxy(m): 9:43am On Jul 13, 2019 |
I don't see much issues here it seems u both like urselves or atleast on same page bt I will only advice u don't get too emotional that u stop thinking with ur heads. Know what u really want and if that's it then beautiful go for it. I will ask u know alil bout her relationship history, etc cos I dont believe so much in angels and saints so easily these days. It doesn't have to be perfect bt u need to know abit b4 we hear another set stories that may touch. Goodluck |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by gabbytabby: 9:45am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Story plenty. This ones are few and far between quick quick grab her unless introduce her to me and I go find her a good job and husband too. kernniejay: |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Shino444(m): 9:45am On Jul 13, 2019 |
To me you done tire to pay her salary, that's why you wan wife her� |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:50am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Dudeweedlmao: As if she'll be his sales girl forever. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:51am On Jul 13, 2019 |
She's ur wife. |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by GOFRONT(m): 9:51am On Jul 13, 2019 |
First of all, What did your Genotype say?? Are you genotypically compartible?? 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by TotoNaRubber: 9:59am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Op you deserve a very hot slap, this is exactly the same script we swore not to release until Nollywood agrees to sponsor us. Lie Mohammed like you. Idiot, next time reference the source and don't just copy and paste. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by babyfaceafrica: 10:00am On Jul 13, 2019 |
gnykelly:why will thr man die and not the woman?..all this una permutation sha?... |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by fujirice: 10:00am On Jul 13, 2019 |
srclark:Well, let’s just agree to disagree. Following what the Op shared, this one is different. Someone that turns in her tips at the end of the day is to be trusted if you ask me. It’s not as if it’s a one-off something. She has been tested over the year and the business grew in that respect as well. |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Bamdex28: 10:04am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Go n do blood test if u are comparable before u proceed |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by gnykelly(m): 10:05am On Jul 13, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: You can like or hate it... That is the stat... |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by heavylaro: 10:05am On Jul 13, 2019 |
OP you should date this your staff for at least 6 months first without mentioning marriage or giving a hint.Within this period you will know better if to decide to propose to her for marriage or not. Marriage is deeper than the surface you are seeing currently. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by victorian(f): 10:07am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Check both of your blood groups, Check HIV status, then place it in prayer. Everything is compatible? Biko marry her. Also let her meet with your family members and watch her reaction and interaction with them. If it's good, my brother marry her. Such ladies are scarce. With her presence in the business u are even doing well and expanding in biz. Men and their inconclusive attitude. Hmmmmm |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by hagisolo: 10:07am On Jul 13, 2019 |
guess u should start with courtship at list for 6month b4 talking of marriage , by then your intention will be officially made known to her , no more employer/employee relationship. by then u will be able to see some of her flaws as none is perfect... close observation and so on/// |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Onyeka8: 10:08am On Jul 13, 2019 |
find out more abt her b4 u marry her. |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by lasmile(f): 10:10am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Fast Fast ... Make she no turn you into COZAA in the future. Good step. |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Clinghton: 10:11am On Jul 13, 2019 |
She is a blessing be quick before you would have to fight to get her. Such ladies are rare |
Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Omoboy(m): 10:11am On Jul 13, 2019 |
More women comments needed on this issue they know themselves better. |
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