bluefilm:
[s]

Track your hopeless father down, first.

Onukwu. [/s]

delugajackson:
Some perverts here will tell you its her choice, forgetting that she hasn't reached the legal age for sex. What's next? STDs are introduced into her fragile body, unwanted pregnancy sets in, family is overwhelmed with shame, she's forced to end her education - good-bye to her hopes and dreams. The after-effects are far too numerous to mention.

I'm quite sure the parents are proud fans of the BlackBerryNaija porn show. Y'all should keep supporting and promoting immorality & indecency in the society, this will be the unavoidable fate that awaits your children.

BUSHHUNTER:
Definitely not her first time.
Y use a child's pic as a meme for such profanity











las las
Pvssy fvcked cannot be unfvcked

peacengine:
Bloody civilian, my father joined the military before you were born, o boy make sure you hide yasef cos if I get your azz, if you don't spend 3 weeks in guardroom after chopin belt then I'm not a true military blood.

chalantmike:


Oga, at the tender age of 12, he was lucky to have caught his daughter having sex, some girls start early or are sexually abused and can't tell anyone about it.

That was an opportunity to Foster an intimate relationship with his daughter, as well as guild her on such matters, and he has missed it, by using the rode, because nao she's going to be having sex in secret, hidding her flaws from her parents, flaws her parents are the right person to help her with, catching this things in time, would spare her a devastating future.

This is how Nigerians ruin their lifes and those of their children, guilt. He is only reacting that way because he is conscious and guilty of the same act, it is that hatred towards his self, the act he is festering and transferring that aggression on his daughter not love, that act does not come from love, it comes from hatred and guilt.

FlirtyKaren:
A furious father beats the hell out of his 12 year old daughter which he allegedly caught having sex.

In a video that has now gone viral, a man beats his 12 year old daughter mercilessly after he allegedly caught her having sex.

He can be heard screaming at her, asking;

"Do you want to be a hoe?"

Even after she responds "NO! NO!!" it did not stop him from beating the hell out of her with his belt


https://lailasnews.com/man-catches-12-year-old-daughter-having-sex-beats-her-mercilessly-video/

valdes00:

You are not in this lane alone bro... With the way girls of this days are, i am scared of having a daughter. i kuku Told my wife that i dnt want a girl, thank God my first born is a boy, looking towards another boy then it is finished just like the bible said

djon78:



Did you even watch the video?
That man ain't a Nigerian
His accent sounds American
The man did the right thing
If she want let her be doing it codedly after chopping the beating.
That one na her life
She will be the one to suffer the repercussion when she grows up. If she continues in that life
Her father did the right thing

valdes00:

You are not in this lane alone bro... With the way girls of this days are, i am scared of having a daughter. i kuku Told my wife that i dnt want a girl, thank God my first born is a boy, looking towards another boy then it is finished just like the bible said

daddytime:
Daddy daddy...that beating will only send our girl out and away from home to go join her many peers on the streets slaying and being celebrated as instapreneurs.

Las las you'd be left with no choice than to forget this heartbreaking and shameful episode and even join in celebrating your lovely daughter in whom you'd say 'you are well pleased'.

No be your fault o na just the condition of where we find ourselves as a people.

A little father to daughter talk just to figure out how she graduated to this level would have gone a long way, if for nothing at all but to help in guarding against a recurrence with your other daughters if any.

It is well

chalantmike:


Her choice ?, Suffer the repercussions at 12 years old?.
Didn't watch the video, speaking generally on the scenario and comments.

Children born of this generation are generally more intelligent and curious than, the previous generation. Has something to do with a higher IQ.
Sex to her at that age is probably, an act of curiosity, than a decision she enjoys. She's probably curious about her body and the act. While she might be curious as a result of a better generational IQ, her parents have better life experience, which they should guild her with.

For example, even when she manages to fathom out what sex is, she'd probably have no idea on HIV, pregnancy and definitely not how to avoid them.

This is where her parents comes in.

By not sparing the rode, he created an environment where is can not ask questions, cause in her mind, sex is bad and daddy will beat me.

Probably right now a neighbor has been sexual like abusing her, or an uncle doing things to her, how is she gonna ask, report after the dad did all that ?.

The father himself, is probably a backwards person who evaluates a woman's worth based on her virginity or sexuality.
Right now, his looking down on his daughter, cause to him, she has lost her flower, the word flowers with regards to a woman's sexuality should be offensive.

He is subconsciously communicating all this negative notions and impression on his 12 year old daughter, whose only fault is been curious. It's not like she sat down, decided that sex is a sin and decided to sin.

djon78:





You are just sounding politically correct.
Do you know that girls caught in past times misbehaving asexually, there mothers ground pepper and smeared it on there private part. Then in this modern times its flogging belt you are talking about.

That girl I saw in that video is still a kid
The dad did the right thing
He should have even used cane to discipline her

Its because of political correctness today that many young women are turning into something else. We are raising a terrible generation.

Any girl child caught in such act should be severely dealt with.

chalantmike:


Really, because of political correctness, that's why girls misbehave ?. Do you know why the term sexual assault is very broad and 80% of the home training methods used here in Africa, especially Nigeria would fall under some sort of abuse ?.

Prostitute are women with daughter issues, or early age of sexual or emotional assault, it's a well established psychological fact.

The kind of girl that becomes a prostitute tomorrow, that is what using the rode produces, cause that is an assualt not love.

The kind of girl, that is brainwashed into believing a man/boy is more better than her, more valued grows up needy for a mans attention, love that her father cannot give.

All those girls you are referring did not spring up from a emotional stable, mature loving environment. I actually bet you that.

Lemma ask you this.
- putting pepper in a girls private part, does it take the urge away ?.
- do you count sexual urge as something humane or something abnormal ?.

- if no, and you think it is human, isn't learning to control it, embarrassing it as something natural rather than embarrassing a better fit ?.

-how is pepper and flogging a way of controlling this urges.

-in this scenario, everybody me included keep hammering, please where is the boy ?, It's not like she was using a cucumber.

What the man did is not out of love, plan and simple. It is out of insecurity and hatred, he's probably feeling vulnerable so he is lashing out on his daughter. In his mind he feels defiled so he is defensive. He thinks having a girl child I'd weakness, and his weakness has been exposed. He literally feels like he just got screwed sexually, and men pride themselves as men, they hate that feeling, cause their ego is invented in that idea " I do the screwing".

djon78:




Aunty all these you are quoting is just academic exercise. The man flogging his daughter I believe is an American from the video. Not even an African.


Talking about home training failing, is because children are no longer disciplined like in previous times that's why young women are messing up and bringing shame nowadays


Talking about girls brainwashed, but that's how majority of women are raised in our society. That's our culture. Very minute or insignificant number are doing otherwise. Even with exposure to Western education, majority of our women are still raised to play the rightful role as responsible future wives and mothers. And I don't see it changing even in the future because that's our African way of life



Why emphasis is laid on the girl child is because the proper building of future homes and saner societies rests on her. That's how my sisters were raised and they are doing well in there husbands homes even with all there education (2 are medical doctors) and that's how I also plan to raise my daughters, to go and be good wives to there husbands, because that is our norms and values


I believe the major reason our societies is turning into something else is because many parents are failing in there duties of raising well behaved children because of NP proper discipline again.
The father was very right to flog her. He would have used cane to drive the lesson into her head very well

chalantmike:


I am assuming your sisters did not have pepper thrown into their private part ? And I hope you don't plan on doing the same thing to your daughters?.

Teaching a girl that sexual urges is part of life and her sexuality is valid as much as those of a boys, doesn't make her less of a mother material or home maker, it makes her even more.
African parents, hell most parents are not equipped to handle this things, a mother that feels shame over talking about about her sexuality, how is she going to educate her own girl child ?, Or do you prefer one uncle somewhere do it for you ?.
Children are like blank slates , curious enough, eager to be filled with life impressions, it is usually a first come, first serve thing. Meaning the first person to create an impression on her, probably would have a stronghold on her. Imagine a neighbor, sexually abusing your child, and convincing her that, she will be punished if she tells anyone, and rewarding her, for using her body.

All those girls you are seeing and complaining of, this is how they are made, someone taking advantage of their naivety and teaching them that they can be rewarded for using there bodies. Not the parental upbringing, they don't, can't talk to their parents about this, if they could do you think their parents would tell them to sell their body, just because they are sexually exposed.
Someone, somewhere created a bad impression on them, because their parents couldn't. Parents usually avoid the sex talk, or matters surmounting around this things, cause they're uncomfortable.

There are other equally valids paths and goals, your sisters could have choosen, instead of been a home maker, doctor etc. You should be able to be equally proud of them and tell them it is okay, if they decided not to have a family, or to be a musician.
A womans purpose of existence is not just to be a baby factory.

Also, bring your boys up to become fathers, oga. The same way you are hell bent on making your daughters by force wife, so that someone can marry them, if not they don't have value.

If boys were brought up to become fathers, good fathers, they would not be going around the place looking for naive girls, messing up peoples children. I am sure you know how sexual impulsive boys can be, but trust me a man that is comfortable with his body, urges and feelings doesn't react anyhow. All this boys around, can't host/exercise their feeling properly,
not to talk of in a healthy way, duo to poor sexual education.

Emotional maturity is a thing most men don't have, how many times do fathers tell their son's that they would reach a certain age where the urges would start and be difficult to control, did your own parents tell you that ?, What do you want a 15/16 yrs old boy, suddenly experiencing alien things with his body, to do ?. Then that same boy by chance realizes sexs quails it down, temporarily. Because he was not guilded, he did not know that his father underwent such phases,and did some things he probably regrets.

<b> parents spend too much time hidding their flaws from their children, meanwhile that same child would probably experience the same flaws, but because you have withheld that information, that they could learn from to make a right decision, they probably would make the wrong one, probably the same mistake you as the parent made</b>

You do know that high libido, can be genetic, right ?.

<b> it is the way things are being done, doesn't make it the right way. Change is constant, move with the times and match it with intelligence and understanding. They might have an IQ better than yours at that age, but you've got better understanding and experience</b>

peacengine:


Cool bro, you told your wife, who is someone's daughter, why didn't you marry another man? later you want another person to born daughters for your sons to marry. Raise those niggas to appreciate women and treat them right, all the best

valdes00:

No kill urself ontop my matter oo... i no knw you, you no knw me...

ThierryJay:


You are missing the point and that guy u re quoting is more on point.

It's not like the analysis you've been putting up is not logical, but there is no practical balance to your views. It's too pedantic and has failed to put the context of this particular story into consideration.

You have made so many non factual assumptions about why the girls dad beat her. First of all, the father was totally in order to beat the girl for the wrongdoing. Nothing stops him from having a heart to heart talk with her later on as you re suggesting. But there's a reason for having a reward and punishment mechanism. If the girl was rewarded for good behaviour, I'm sure you wouldn't have a problem.

Usually a child's mind is incapable of fully understanding the implications of certain actions they engage in. So they typically are not able to commit to resolutions in same manner as an adult. So if you re all talk and no action when bad behavior ensues, the child's mind may process it as a mildly acceptable situation. And there will be repeats.

Same would apply if it was a boy, so don't make this a gender issue. It is the righteous indignation of having your child already tasting the forbidden fruit that likely drove the father.

However, corporal punishment should be within acceptable limits.