Chiefqueenn:

Keep your fvck

Abi ooo

The internet and social media is simply responsible... Now people play with people's emotions anyhow. Lack of commitment flying everywhere.

Factgist:


Sequel to the previous post (which featured here in Nairaland) where we listed out some values that are currently in its all time low with regards to Nigerian women; it became expedient that we list out values which most Nigerian men held in high regard in the past but seems to be dwindling with each passing year.

Below are top 5 of them.

Read Also: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing

1. Responsibility:

Source: Instagram
Statistics reveal that the number of children without someone to call "father" increase by the day. With the ongoing trend of "baby mamas" and "baby daddies", many children do not feel the love of a father, thanks to irresponsibility of many fathers who birth children they can't take care of.


However, some do have fathers who are at home, but without commitment to the future of their children.

2. Contentment:


The holy book says be content with what you have. With the economic crises facing Nigeria, and the massive unemployment already taking its toll, it is no longer strange to see Nigerian men who want to get money by any means necessary. This has damaged the value most Nigerian men had in the past.

The lack of contentment is indeed one of the numerous reasons why crime is on the increase in the country with money made in these proceeds sometimes spent on "strange women"

3. Commitment:


This particular type of commitment is beamed upon relationships that lead to marriage. In time past, Nigerian men showed more commitment to their spouses and wives placing valuable value on what they have. Today however, the blessedness of commitment has been lost to the altar of infidelity.

4. Self Esteem:


Critically take a look at it. It seems as though there were more brave men in the past than we do have now. The value of self esteem hinges on the fact that a man believes in himself to achieve his ambition and diligently walks towards it. A real man is not meant to chicken out of a situation but face it head-on with the aim to conquer.


5. Wisdom:


As time passes, the wisdom of our fathers and grandfathers seems to be passing away with it. The ancient wisdom of the past seems to be lost in today's Nigerian society. We cannot ascertain for sure why this is so, perhaps we could blame modern culture, but it is a value that is gradually fading.

What do you think?


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Tit for that thread. Rubbish!

etrange:


This is is self esteem issued talked about. Y'all cannot put your shits together without mentioning woman.

leave this child.

#7: Using only their cassava.

They are now adding intimacy gadgets like Senator Abbo.
It seems womanlineses are so wide through multiple men girls juggle these days.

7) Virginity nko?

my own wee nuh commah be in vain nah

The most stupid post of the year

OP your thinking...

Your problem

Your writing

None of my business

is HARDWORK not on that list??

At least, this list is only 5.
I cant wait to see the list for ladies, we will get tired.

This is a counter thread na

utenwuson:
Lol...... See thread

Responsibility:... Directly proportional to the ladies, how can majority of us be responsible when most ladies feel entitled to guys dating them, the moment u say I love u to a Nigerian gurl, next thing is her wage bill, she wants asoebi to attend a wedding, she's not fine, her mum is sick and her entire family problems become your inheritance,

Commitment... Lol, this one is funny, how can a sane man be committed to a Nigeria lady? The tendency that she's keeping over five other guys as side nigga is a sure game on a bet odd, most guys committed to a lady here mostly end up buying snipper, don't ask me what it's meant for.

Contentment...... Lol, it's quite simple that u can't be contented in this country, even if u are federal civil servants, u can't even drive a Benz with your basic and before u know, ur babe right in your camry will be nodding head to another music in a c300 Benz... So tell me while guys won't use the pants of same girl who makes him feel inferior to one useless dirty yahoo guy.

Wisdom.... I won't agree with u on this, a typical Nigeria guy has wisdom, do u know what it takes to be shagging two sisters, in fact my guy is presently fixing his rod in two identical twin... So tell me why wisdom will not kee him.

Self esteem.... Don't even have what to type.... We get am die.

In short, women are the reason why men are going crazy.

Our women need to redress.

FuckThaMod:
Wealth nko

Wealth is not a value.

consultancy:
is HARDWORK not on that list??

Our men don't lack that, at all. But Yoruba say: chicken dey sweat, na the feather dey cover am.

baddosky1:


You never sabi Naija bloggers and their mumuness?

Nigerian bloggers are the only bloggers in the world that will write story about "hotdog" (snack) but will put picture of a dog standing near fire!

I don’t think guys have lost it the truth is you don’t know really how someone truly is till you’ve known them for years and the pretend phase has worn off. We are all going to get angry, fall in love and be happy but our approach is really what matters and how we seek for forgiveness matters as well.

Perfection is not expected but awareness

baddosky1:


You never sabi Naija bloggers and their mumuness?

Nigerian bloggers are the only bloggers in the world that will write story about "hotdog" (snack) but will put picture of a dog standing near fire!

lol......abeg no kill me with laugh ooo!

First the western culture has so much infiltrated Nigeria and Nigerians as we buy anything foreign. We buy foreign food, foreign clothes, foreign shoes, foreign degrees. There is no hope for anything Nigerian. We are only renting Nigeria to live in. Past generations have failed us woefully. They are the reasons why Nigeria has become a hole of suffering. Now the "every man for himself" mantra seems to be resonating in the ears of our youths. Our youths now take to addiction and drugs. The future of Nigeria is looking so bleak. Yet the older generation loves what is going on and long may it continue. We are nowhere getting out of this quagmire of a country we find ourselves in. Buhari has nothing to lose. Same with our leaders. They will finish their tenure and leave to retire with free money coming in for them and their children. There is no hope for the average Nigerian anymore. You work. Salary will finish in two weeks cuz of inflation. It's so sad.. to do business na die. You will be frustrated. High cost of production.. No wonder the rate of crime seems to have gone overboard. God will save this country only God will.

Where are those wailing low self esteemed biatches from the previous post when u need them

Baby come Let me take you my world
Cause I've got a lot of love to show you

Call me for all kinds of printing,Quality assured.

I hate when ppl stare at me like wtf
Zo i no fit wear sneakers and jeans again
Me.i chill at a lounge waiting for a new bich and fuckkk it
I felt irritated seeing fake asses posing and snaping.
Most ladies are saw runs girls
Bleep.like 95 percent
Men fuckkkk

Okpo dem

I was actually discussing this with a Spanish friend and and she said the same thing. The death of masculinity is global, with attackers like 3rd wave feminism, process foods, porn, drugs, lack of role model, promiscuity, hyper-sexualized society, social media, declining testosterone, to name few, its subtle, little at a time, but its here. Now, we have males not men, boys not adult. Responsibility, sense of purpose, a sense of consequence are all a thing of the previous generation.

If you see the shadow of many men these days at night, you might confuse them for a pregnant woman. Potbelly is the new normal, a declining virility with men that cant ravage a woman without sexual concortion, no life goal except chasing women, can't compose a coherent sentence even if they are uni graduates, a disaster to lead new generation. Even with access to all human knowledge in their palm in the form a smartphone, being intellectually handicapped makes you integrate well with fellow mentally midget males, the future is scary with the kind of android we call men these days.

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