cenaman:
No lady that doesn't cheat maybe if u leave her now the next one will be worst. tell her to cut off communication with her ex. calls and social media (that is if you have her in mine to marry) if possible change her phone number.

or maybe the next will be better.

Let her go and move on.

That's the end point of it

fullofgrace:
Bro I salute ur courage!
To be realistic, the kind of trusted woman u wish to have no longer exist. They are found in the first heavens not in this sinful planet. It is very difficult for Ladies to be faithful if u are not ready to marry them. Because of the nightmare of being dumped.
Bro my solemn advice to you is if you know u are not ready for marriage don't date any Lady to avoid another heartbreak similar to the case of Samadina vs Regina Daniel. My advice to you is remained focused and uninterrupted in ur dreams and aspirations. Let them go wen u are ready to settled down then you prayerfully make ur choice.

Bull...shhhiiit...

At 28, you a man and cant take a decision on an ordinary 21 year old lady.. If you could break up from a four year old relationship, what's stopping you from a mere one year old relationship..

Abeg channel your thoughts to making money. The loyal and respectful one will locate you..

Nairaland NEVER seems to amaze me

This is the reason I only date a virgin.
Once you break.
I dump you.

Don't ask me how

Quit the relationship because if u eventually get married to her there is every tendency that her ex will bang her.she is not strong at heart and the ex is taking advantage of that.quit because in the long run u will cry,had I know.

My brother you’ll need a miracle from stopping the next girl not to cheat on you once you breakup with her. I dated for over 10 years thinking one was a cheat only to meet a bigger cheat, until I got one I can attest to her sincerity n married immediately without thinking twice. So you see no one can tell which decision is ideal, you just have to take the plunge on your own n hope it is the right one.

aysnoopy:
Good morning good people of Nairaland. please don't mind my grammatical errors coz I'm not that good.

I'm 28yrs, working and I had a gf of 21yrs. we are very good together and I love her so much. we started dating a year ago and I told her what can make me breakup with her which is cheating. she swear never to cheat on me coz she loves me. (she's a virgin when I met her).

But after 6months of dating, I suspect she's still attached to her ex.. they are very close. I warned her but she said she'll rather break up with me than to cheat. she swear never to do that. I accepted but I keep watching and been sensitive.

Fast-forward to last month, I checked her fone for the 1st time. she don't expect it. I notice she's eager to get her fone back but I don't care. I checked and I notice she and her ex are having romantic affairs (no sex though) ..

I confronted her but ever since den she kept begging. her friends keep begging.

I'm a type that if u cheat on me, no matter how much I love u, d love will dropped totally. one of my ex did same, despite our relationship is 4 years, I broke up with her.

She's so afraid and keep saying she can't leave me Coz I'm d one that disvirgin her, but I wish to leave.

She said she never mean to do all those bull'shit with her ex, but I let her know that she still have feelings for him.

Each time I remember, I felt hurt and wish to quit. whenever she come to my place, she'll beg from morning till evening but that doesn't move me.

Please good people of Nairaland. what can I do?
if you're on my shoe, what will be ur judgment.
I've never accept cheat with any of my ex but this particular girl keep apologizing.

oga they beep your babe whether cheat or no cheat , all hole na hole. Are u a saint?

Hmmm otije dodo

daewoorazer:

Here’s the deal.

1. ‘Unlove’ her totally and seek for a new girl

2. Accept her apologies and start treating her like a sex object. Just have her to bang and bang alone. No emotions and no feelings.

3. Someday, she’d be the one to bid you farewell; but you won!

That's unnecessary.... He should just dump her and move on... That girl will cheat on him with the ex even in marriage.

There's something about this ex issue... Once a partner (male or female) still has feelings for the ex, forget it... They will cheat on you the moment opportunity arises.

I have encountered married ladies that were ready to "hand out" when in the midst of their former love interests... If he or she is more attractive, then you are on a long thing.

Besides, Op's babe is still young, hence such stupidity... When age does its best work on her, she will finally get sensible.

a hen can never be a pet, cos it can be used for food at anytime. give her time if she can't adjust to your standard den let her go

goldenfrosh:
Make money...... You'll be shocked...

God bless you!

I think aside this issue, there aren't any again.
I think she deserves a second chance. She has seen how you handle anything related to cheating and I think she has understood this side of you.
However, if you don't love her again, move on, to save impending doom.
But I feel she deserves a second chance and you have to make sure she cut all ties with the ex.
No one can influence your decision but think this through, she had a reason for you deflowering her and not her ex.
It's up to you ma.

Ask to change her number. If she refuses, bolt fast fast.

People are talking of making money u are still there talking abt love n who cheat who.

aysnoopy:
Good morning good people of Nairaland. please don't mind my grammatical errors coz I'm not that good.

I'm 28yrs, working and I had a gf of 21yrs. we are very good together and I love her so much. we started dating a year ago and I told her what can make me breakup with her which is cheating. she swear never to cheat on me coz she loves me. (she's a virgin when I met her).

But after 6months of dating, I suspect she's still attached to her ex.. they are very close. I warned her but she said she'll rather break up with me than to cheat. she swear never to do that. I accepted but I keep watching and been sensitive.

Fast-forward to last month, I checked her fone for the 1st time. she don't expect it. I notice she's eager to get her fone back but I don't care. I checked and I notice she and her ex are having romantic affairs (no sex though) ..

I confronted her but ever since den she kept begging. her friends keep begging.

I'm a type that if u cheat on me, no matter how much I love u, d love will dropped totally. one of my ex did same, despite our relationship is 4 years, I broke up with her.

She's so afraid and keep saying she can't leave me Coz I'm d one that disvirgin her, but I wish to leave.

She said she never mean to do all those bull'shit with her ex, but I let her know that she still have feelings for him.

Each time I remember, I felt hurt and wish to quit. whenever she come to my place, she'll beg from morning till evening but that doesn't move me.

Please good people of Nairaland. what can I do?
if you're on my shoe, what will be ur judgment.
I've never accept cheat with any of my ex but this particular girl keep apologizing.

aysnoopy:


we had sex and I'm d one that disvirgin her.. I'm 101% sure of that.
I just don't know y I keep remembering and it keep hurting me.

Oga, if you know you are pained about it please break up and move on.

daewoorazer:

Here’s the deal.

1. ‘Unlove’ her totally and seek for a new girl

2. Accept her apologies and start treating her like a sex object. Just have her to bang and bang alone. No emotions and no feelings.

3. Someday, she’d be the one to bid you farewell; but you won!

It says a lot about you when you think sex connotes winning.

How come the ex did not dis virgin her? Atleast she has not cheated on you in the real sense. Better forgive and forget afterall you disvirgined her.

Try to get her to part ways with the ex so you can enjoy your relationship cos you simply might not find another pure soul o.

aysnoopy:
Good morning good people of Nairaland. please don't mind my grammatical errors coz I'm not that good.

I'm 28yrs, working and I had a gf of 21yrs. we are very good together and I love her so much. we started dating a year ago and I told her what can make me breakup with her which is cheating. she swear never to cheat on me coz she loves me. (she's a virgin when I met her).

But after 6months of dating, I suspect she's still attached to her ex.. they are very close. I warned her but she said she'll rather break up with me than to cheat. she swear never to do that. I accepted but I keep watching and been sensitive.

Fast-forward to last month, I checked her fone for the 1st time. she don't expect it. I notice she's eager to get her fone back but I don't care. I checked and I notice she and her ex are having romantic affairs (no sex though) ..

I confronted her but ever since den she kept begging. her friends keep begging.

I'm a type that if u cheat on me, no matter how much I love u, d love will dropped totally. one of my ex did same, despite our relationship is 4 years, I broke up with her.

She's so afraid and keep saying she can't leave me Coz I'm d one that disvirgin her, but I wish to leave.

She said she never mean to do all those bull'shit with her ex, but I let her know that she still have feelings for him.

Each time I remember, I felt hurt and wish to quit. whenever she come to my place, she'll beg from morning till evening but that doesn't move me.

Please good people of Nairaland. what can I do?
if you're on my shoe, what will be ur judgment.
I've never accept cheat with any of my ex but this particular girl keep apologizing.

My man,

You are one in a million. Am so elated that someone like you still exist among men. In a world where 80% of men are weaklings and wimps, I can only encourage you to keep it up.

My advice: pls pls pls and pls dont you ever accept to date her again as your girlfriend unless you want to be humiliated at a later stage.
You can date her as a friend with benefit or as a mere partner but not as your girlfriend.
You made it clear to her that you wont tolerate cheating, did she respect that? No.
So what makes you think she will respect it after the begging and acceptance? Women will denigrate you once you are weak to accept humiliation from them.

All am saying is: u cant take her as your girlfriend anymore. Of course u have to forgive her, that one nah must. But u must make it clear to her that even though you forgive her you cant take her as ur girlfriend anymore. Both of you can date and f!ck if u want but never you take her as your girlfriend again.


From this stance you will view the rest clearly. Maybe in the future u might revoke the stance but by then she must have known u to be a man and will never mess with u. Just allow her now to do whatever she wants, make it clear to her. Goodluck man.. Remember to f!ck the hell out from her.

Be ready to be changing girls like spare parts.
Try to stabilize her emotional imbalance in no time,she will think less of her ex.
If you say no,you will always repeat class.

aysnoopy:
Good morning good people of Nairaland. please don't mind my grammatical errors coz I'm not that good.

I'm 28yrs, working and I had a gf of 21yrs. we are very good together and I love her so much. we started dating a year ago and I told her what can make me breakup with her which is cheating. she swear never to cheat on me coz she loves me. (she's a virgin when I met her).

But after 6months of dating, I suspect she's still attached to her ex.. they are very close. I warned her but she said she'll rather break up with me than to cheat. she swear never to do that. I accepted but I keep watching and been sensitive.

Fast-forward to last month, I checked her fone for the 1st time. she don't expect it. I notice she's eager to get her fone back but I don't care. I checked and I notice she and her ex are having romantic affairs (no sex though) ..

I confronted her but ever since den she kept begging. her friends keep begging.

I'm a type that if u cheat on me, no matter how much I love u, d love will dropped totally. one of my ex did same, despite our relationship is 4 years, I broke up with her.

She's so afraid and keep saying she can't leave me Coz I'm d one that disvirgin her, but I wish to leave.

She said she never mean to do all those bull'shit with her ex, but I let her know that she still have feelings for him.

Each time I remember, I felt hurt and wish to quit. whenever she come to my place, she'll beg from morning till evening but that doesn't move me.

Please good people of Nairaland. what can I do?
if you're on my shoe, what will be ur judgment.
I've never accept cheat with any of my ex but this particular girl keep apologizing.

My friend shut up!!!!! Are you faithful to her too? If she cheats your love will drop blabla. Common sharrap! See let me tell anyone who cares to hear the truth here. EVERY WOMAN IS ATTACHED TO HER EX BOYFRIEND/BOYFRIENDS especially when the guy treated her right. If she like make she marry dangote,she must still contact her ex boyfriend so don't feel yours should be different. In fact it's even worse if you are bad in bed because her ex will still be servicing her. There's no woman married or single that does not contact her ex-boyfriend.dont even argue with me but if you feel this is just a mere statement then go tru her WATS app and see American wonders(well that's if you catch her bcs women smart pass pussycat)

I would have say you should be patients" because girls are from the same feathers, give her another chance bro...
and see what we happen.
because if you leave her you we still start afresh, so be wise bro

aysnoopy:


I don't understand Sir.. I'm confused at this stage.
what will u do Sir if you're d one?
I just need people's view on this
sometimes I'll pet her and told her everything will be fine again, but each time I remember, I just got fed-up and want breakup.

Don't be confuse quit now its early. Once a woman's mind is on something you can't change her..

Mind you when you dis virgin a girl we might wish to experience new things. (I been there I know what am saying)

Even if you forgive she might do it with another and it's very hard to catch a cheating woman

Marry her.....is that not what you want to hear?
Weak people everywhere.

daewoorazer:

Here’s the deal.

1. ‘Unlove’ her totally and seek for a new girl

2. Accept her apologies and start treating her like a sex object. Just have her to bang and bang alone. No emotions and no feelings.

3. Someday, she’d be the one to bid you farewell; but you won!

You d baddest guy

Except it is rape due to drugging or force,there is no cheating that happens as mistake. Every cheat knows what they are doing,and they chose not to care about you. It is your choice to still love someone who didn't care about you and your feelings.

aysnoopy:
Good morning good people of Nairaland. please don't mind my grammatical errors coz I'm not that good.

I'm 28yrs, working and I had a gf of 21yrs. we are very good together and I love her so much. we started dating a year ago and I told her what can make me breakup with her which is cheating. she swear never to cheat on me coz she loves me. (she's a virgin when I met her).

But after 6months of dating, I suspect she's still attached to her ex.. they are very close. I warned her but she said she'll rather break up with me than to cheat. she swear never to do that. I accepted but I keep watching and been sensitive.

Fast-forward to last month, I checked her fone for the 1st time. she don't expect it. I notice she's eager to get her fone back but I don't care. I checked and I notice she and her ex are having romantic affairs (no sex though) ..

I confronted her but ever since den she kept begging. her friends keep begging.

I'm a type that if u cheat on me, no matter how much I love u, d love will dropped totally. one of my ex did same, despite our relationship is 4 years, I broke up with her.

She's so afraid and keep saying she can't leave me Coz I'm d one that disvirgin her, but I wish to leave.

She said she never mean to do all those bull'shit with her ex, but I let her know that she still have feelings for him.

Each time I remember, I felt hurt and wish to quit. whenever she come to my place, she'll beg from morning till evening but that doesn't move me.

Please good people of Nairaland. what can I do?
if you're on my shoe, what will be ur judgment.
I've never accept cheat with any of my ex but this particular girl keep apologizing.

Stop dating kids...

Instructions to women should be given just once, not twice.

Find the meaning of what I said.

excanny:
Ask to change her number. If she refuses, bolt fast fast.

He is a boyfriend not a husband. Na husband fit talk that one o.

Guy just forgive her since is beggin u jst tell her to cut d relationship wt d ex,cos if u leave her,u no wether d one u go met worst pass dis one

Ikpeazukerosene:


He should drop her like a bad habit. 2 of my exes cheated and I dumped both.

My grand ex (the one before this last one) was still begging me after she had done intro with the other guy.

Your grand ex. Lol. Abi Na you be her GRAND SIDE NIGGA. YOU men keep feeling like you are the bomb but women keep outshining you guys. If you like change 99 girlfriends because they cheated. The 100th one will steal cheat. There are no faithful women these days oh so pray and be a proverbs 31 man to keep a woman.