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Hard To Get? 15 Subtle Signs She Wants You To Chase Her by Storyboy247: 9:13am On Aug 17, 2019
Men are often faced with the decision of whether to chase the women of their dreams or to quit. Here are 15 signs all she may be saying is “Chase me!”


To Chase Or Not To Chase?

Only a novice at dating would agree that women can sometimes be complicated in their expressions of emotion. Sometimes they cry when what they really mean to do is to laugh. At another time, they really mean what they show or say. And for you, the guy, you become somewhat confused because what you expect is not what you see. Should you give up on that lady or chase her? Don't worry too much. As most ladies share a lot in common when it comes to dating, all you have to look out for between you and her are some signs. This way, you will have no difficulty deciding whether to chase her or not.

Never Mind Your Friends, The Chase is Worth It
So, you are considering listening to your friends’ advice to let her go. After all, they say, there are many other alternatives. You really don't need to follow that that path. Quality relationships surely demand quality effort. If you don’t do the chasing, somebody else will. And come to think of it, we all chase something in life, even things that are non-essentials sometimes.

Therefore, do not let your friends mislead you in this regard. Follow your gut. But in doing so, there are some vital signs to watch out for to ensure you aren’t chasing a lady for nothing. The truth is most girls will give a guy they like lots of opportunities to prove themselves, even though they may be giving you some tough times. Here are 15 of these signs that, once you notice a lady display them, all she is saying is “chase!”

1. She Isn't Comfortable With You Being Too Close With Other Ladies
When a woman likes you, even though she may be acting funny, she’ll still be kind of protective. You ain't going to win her smiles by letting her know you just finished conversing with another lady in the room. Be ready to answer lots of questions if you ever do that. She’ll be concerned you are probably slipping out of her hands and would greet it with a subtle protest.

When you notice this attitude recurring with her, she is just playing hard to get and wants you to do some chasing before she gives you a warm yes! She is yours already. Nothing else can probably make her feel as uncomfortable than you being with other ladies. She's definitely nurturing some feelings for you. Just play along by giving her the chase of her life.

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2. Her Generous Smiles Are A Sign She Wants You To Chase Her

We are not talking about some random acts of courtesy here. Any lady would easily smile to make you feel comfortable talking to them or to show you some respect. But when you discover that from your appearance at a distance, she is already loosened up each time you both meet, guy, just wake up. It is one of the signs of approval. A sign she is telling you your advances are welcomed. If you aren’t her type, your first and perhaps, last chance of seeing her white teeth would be the first day you both met. She would just want to let you know she isn’t interested and one way to do that is to be frank anytime you both meet. Where many conservative men get things wrong is to assume women are just being kind with their very generous smiles. It is not true. A woman who has no affection for you has no business being “kind” to you always. She is only signalling that you should put in more effort, perhaps to maintain her dignity.

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