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| Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 8:42am On Aug 22, 2019 |
The perceptions of domestic violence vary based on region, religion, and class. For example, the Tiv view wife beating as a “sign of love” that should be encouraged as evidenced with the statement “If you are not yet beaten by your husband then you do not know the joy of marriage and that means you are not yet married”. All the major ethnic groups in Nigeria- Yoruba, Igbo, and Hausa- have strong patriarchial societal structures that lead to the justification of domestic violence. However, the Hausa are more supportive of domestic violence and viewing it as an inherent right of a husband. it is believed that abusive behavior are triggered by past experiences. "Kids are precious -- they record everything,""Many abusive women/Men grew up in an abusive household, so they don't know how to verbally communicate with people, wife without putting her down. they don't know how to verbally disagree Sexual masochism refers to engaging in or frequently fantasizing about being beaten, bound, humiliated, or otherwise made to suffer, resulting in sexual satisfaction. ... One specific type of sexual masochism is called asphyxiophilia, in which a person receives sexual satisfaction by having their breathing restricted. |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:45am On Aug 22, 2019 |
That's how some women are wired... Lol... They fantasize about being beaten especially during sexual sessions [BDSM] 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by PUSSYWHORE: 8:46am On Aug 22, 2019 |
I dont have pussy how would i know, are you not with one? 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by successmatters(m): 8:47am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Read about the Stockholm syndrome. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by bdsm: 8:47am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Ok |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by successmatters(m): 8:48am On Aug 22, 2019 |
You cannot beat an educated lady. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:48am On Aug 22, 2019 |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Venusman(m): 8:50am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Because they are real African women |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:50am On Aug 22, 2019 |
successmatters:I am not understanding... 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by successmatters(m): 8:51am On Aug 22, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss: Because she will have knowledge of how to deal with you afterwards. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 8:52am On Aug 22, 2019 |
masochism is what it is called DanDeeBoss: |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:53am On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal:  |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 8:54am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Stockholm syndrome is a condition which causes hostages to develop a psychological alliance with their captors during captivity. These alliances result from a bond formed between captor and captives during intimate time together, but they are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims. This term was first used by the media in 1973 when four hostages were taken during a bank robbery in Stockholm, Sweden. The hostages defended their captors after being released and would not agree to testify in court against them. Stockholm syndrome is paradoxical because the sympathetic sentiments that captives feel towards their captors are the opposite of the fear and disdain which an onlooker might feel towards the captors. There are four key components that characterize Stockholm syndrome: -A hostage's development of positive feelings towards the captor -No previous relationship between hostage and captor -A refusal by hostages to cooperate with police forces and other government authorities -A hostage's belief in the humanity of the captor because they cease to perceive the captor as a threat when the victim holds the same values as the aggressor Stockholm syndrome is a "contested illness" due to doubt about the legitimacy of the condition. It has also come to describe the reactions of some abuse victims beyond the context of kidnappings or hostage-taking. Actions and attitudes similar to those suffering from Stockholm syndrome have also been found in victims of sexual abuse, human trafficking, terror, and political and religious oppression. successmatters: 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by NOC1(m): 8:55am On Aug 22, 2019 |
successmatters: Educated ladies suffer domestic violence than less educated ones. you would have used intelligent. 12 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by ebhodaghev: 8:56am On Aug 22, 2019 |
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| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by PUSSYWHORE: 8:57am On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal:If you know it then why are you asking , dumb hoe_! 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 8:57am On Aug 22, 2019 |
I disagree, my friend's boyfriend confided in me that my friend left him because she told him is not man enough and when he asked why, she told him, "you have to beat me, if you love me". There are times, he would apologize, she will say, he apologized arrogantly, when he calls, it ends up in a fight. successmatters: 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 8:58am On Aug 22, 2019 |
pr!k  PUSSYWHORE:I had like to hear men and ladies share their experience. |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by AstroG: 8:58am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Women are wired to love those that maltreat them very well. That was how one Girl told me that she loves her boyfriend though this her boyfriend panel beats her almost every week whenever they have any little alteration. So women do love to be the victim of Domestic violence cus it makes them think u love them 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Funkyswagzz(m): 8:59am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Its not that some ppl are very stubborn. So they can tolerate anything. My ex complained so much about her family hating her so much and her brother beats her sometimes. So I used to wonder how everyone will hate her. As our relationship progressed i understood she's very stubborn, annoying and she makes me want to beat her. Any woman that is not stubborn won't tolerate any beating its as simply as that. 12 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by successmatters(m): 8:59am On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal: Your friend is a rare type. Beat me once and you may never see me again. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 9:00am On Aug 22, 2019 |
hmmmmmmmmmmm Funkyswagzz: 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by PUSSYWHORE: 9:00am On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal:It shows you aren't getting enough attention offline. i understand. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 9:01am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Lol! you are a clown.  PUSSYWHORE:Some school of thought once said: "Don't clap for a man until you have seen the end of his days" |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Nobody: 9:02am On Aug 22, 2019 |
This issue was shared on radio had many callers in Nigeria calling to explain to the presenter why they like it successmatters: |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Funkyswagzz(m): 9:07am On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal: A stubborn kid won't mind u beating him or her its common sense 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by nelklyn(m): 10:13am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Topic created already? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by catwalq(f): 10:37am On Aug 22, 2019 |
Pls can you share the link to your findings of the Tiv view of violence, I'd like to read it. Thank you |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by DrayZee: 10:42am On Aug 22, 2019 |
LillyVal:Calling to explain why they like getting beat up? Hmm...In this same Nigeria. I won't be surprised if I discover these people act stupid on purpose...Because they like the beating they'll receive afterwards. SMH 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:13am On Aug 22, 2019 |
successmatters: What are you saying? Domestic violence has nothing to do with being educated. 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by NiRfreak(m): 11:45am On Aug 22, 2019 |
As a result of this post I may end up beating my babe or wife if she proves too stubborn. Thanks for sharing this O.P...I now see that they want to be beaten cos they want a confirmation that their man is stronger than them, and enough to protect them. Also, beating them also means that the man feels pained by their attitude, so they are happy they can influence his emotion. To my future wife or fiancée..pls dont be stubborn, cos I will beat you. I have now seen the value..that it confirms my love for u. 14 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Love Men That Beat Them? by MrCoker: 12:38pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
NiRfreak: Werey 4 Likes |
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