Hey!

What is your expectation in relationship with a woman, your view on marriage, children, education, employments, religion, sex, and family values. I am curious to what YOUR VIEWS coming from the LION'S MOUTH seems like everybody want to speak for you guys, BUT I WANT TO KNOW WHAT ON YOUR MIND about these subjects mentioned above.

Please be candid and honest. Thanks!

PLEASE really be serious I want to know also

I really need to know coz I m from Congo, yes not 9ja, living in Luxemburg and during my travel in Asia I met a 9ja boy and I love him, we want to begin serious life but it's very strange his vision of couple, life and some time is really skata

We have to come and to visit his country and that one also I fear coz of 9ja women haahaa
In every countries, african women like that king of things, they are too much jealous about their men Lol

Not fear coz he will leave me just fear to hear " hoo she doesn' t from here or too much chakara, problems from ex girlfriends" lol

I saw one topic in Nairaland talking about men who traveled abroad, meet and married foreign but they lelt in the country a 9ja girlfriend and too much girls were not happy

So just want to know and have some ideas

HONESTY FOR FAITHFULNESS FIRST.
DIGNITY.
INTEGRITY.
NOBILITY.
SECURITY.
MUST RAISE FAMILY ON THE ABOVE.

The best and only the best.
Do not settle for less.

Poster are u cross-examining all Nigerians or what?!

hmmmmn

Lola howdy?

No Vic,

I am not cross examine YALL crazy azzes, I am just curious about the different views of each tribe because I realize not all are the same, so I am asking from THE LION's MOUTH INSTEAD OF assuming WHICH everyone should be doing INSTEAD of making presumptions and assumptions ABOUT SOMETHING THEY DO NOT KNOW personally,

Anymore questions Vic?

The men that did responded, THANK YOU,

Then y not trim ur questions down. Why make then look so intimidating(even though i wouldn't mind answering them) like it is some sort of school project.

Ohhh VIc,

I am sorry I didn't dumb down the questions, let me rewrite some questions for you nursery level style,

What do you like?
Do you like clean room?
Do you eat warm meals?

Better suga?

**SMH** She didn't even get her own questions.

And you couldn't even comprehend the questions,

Xpectation in marriage is a personal thing, what i want/like might be different from wat the other guy over there want/like, though some xpectation might be the same.
For me a lady that is homely, with good manner, responsible, good looking,Godly and not a liability will be okay

I guess these describe what a lady should be and with this i guess you can xpect a marriage that is 80% successful cos you cant have a 100% perfection in marriage

I am not giving you chit, and you wasted your time explaining instead of just outright ANSWER THE QUESTION, and next time take a class on detecting sarcasm, YOU SUCKS!

Thanks for your attempted answers though, APPRECIATE IT!

ROTFLMAO. Queen u have a big problem lol. The kiss jor, i'm waiting

Is this your sly attempted to uppercut me suga? You going to have to do better than that, I am a tough chick and that requires excessive energy, HOWEVER, I will give you a kiss cos I done demasculated you so let me bring you back up

Lol! @ tough chick. I know u're a 1 minute chick. Don't rub it in, girl.

Must be able to cook very well

must be able to take care of ma children

must be a tigress in bed

should be ready to partner with me in my projects

and of course, my babe must be intelligent and properly educated - not some Poly Ede drop outs

lastly, she must respect ma fam (mum, dad & siblings) or else yawa

marriage - overrated in my opinion.

children - the fewer the better so there's much more love and wealth around to raise them

education - well, get the damned thing to keep some tails from wagging.

employments - of course. we need our bills to get paid . . and save for the raininy day 

religion - same regilion for me. that's all that matters

sex - hell yea 

family values - if you love me, you must love and respect my family. cos I will do the same for yours.

Hoooo it's too much for me ohh

Blandine27:

Hoooo it's too much for me ohh

wellcome to 9ja sweets!!!its too hot!u wanna try somethin else?u wud sure miss dem guud lovin!
@queenie
wer u goin wiv dis?tot u wer married n ish!!for one though,NO Nigerian man wud stay wiv u n no kids so get prepared for dat nunnery!lolsssssss

marriage - Will def wanna get married in the near future. Though overrated but does have loads of benefits

children - I want just the 2. The smaller the better so i can provide them with the best life has to offer accompanied with my undivided attention at all times

education - As long as shez articulate, able to hold her own then education is not a priority.

employments - This is a must as I'm known to disrespect women that live off their husbands. Ma mum worked and i expect my wife to do the same.

religion - I'm not religious so not a priority. would like her to be though so she can bring up the kids in a godly way.

sex - This is not even negotiable. She has to be good

family values - Yes but once I'm married it's me and me family 99.9% of the time. Absolutely no outside influence so their you go Queen.

But seriously what's with all your questions these days? Your hussy doing his job very well cos you seemed to be massively inspired whenever you wake up.

^^^

'massively' inspired.

Some Nigerian men are God sent to women.
They are well bred, well mannered, well educated and well connected.

They believe and practice dignity, integrity and nobility and raise their family on these principal virtues of life.

They have class and they have taste.

They are faithful and resourceful.
In fact, they are wonderful.
Like Prince Ibrahim Sanusi.
Like Dapo Ojora.


But most of the ill-mannered Nigerian men are ill-bred.
Being noble is alien to them.

Orikinla:

Some Nigerian men are God sent to women.
They are well bred, well mannered, well educated and well connected.

They believe and practice dignity, integrity and nobility and raise their family on these principal virtues of life.

They have class and they have taste.

They are faithful and resourceful.
In fact, they are wonderful.
Like Prince Ibrahim Sanusi.
Like Dapo Ojora.


But most of the ill-mannered Nigerian men are ill-bred.
Being noble is alien to them.

every men of any tribe race would say that

let us here what the ladies say while you shut da Bleep up

do you know that every men claims to be in good in bed but only da woman she slept with can tell the truth

Jaybee,

My husband is not a hussy thank you very much! I will cut ya messing with my husband! >:

I am asking question because this is CHAT FORUM, I didn't know there was a rule saying you can't ask questions!

Closed mouths do not get fed!

Koyoke,

Nobody ask you to co sign CHEERLEADER!

MORD,

I am married, me being married has nothing to do with asking questions that MAY OR MAY NOT CONCERN me thank you very much,

The respondents, thank you for your responses, you are opening doors for those who have no idea,

^^^

mind explaining yourself maam

kokoye:

^^^

'massively' inspired.

You need to remember what you say on threads, I was responding to this OLD SIR,

^^^ You have no right to judge men, you have to be careful.