1Sharon:


I've had this before

1Sharon:
Any question that a guy asks is annoying when you arent interested

keryj:
I just hate it when a guy I just meet asks what tribe am I. I don't know why, I always auto loose interest in the conversation

1Sharon:


I've had this before

Blackivy27:
Have you eaten?

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I have this thing...I'm not sure what to call it (an aura perhaps?) that makes people do & say weird things.
I cannot speak of social media experiences because I'm not big on that. However, I could write a book on the craziest things I've seen & heard in my waking life.
May be it's your ...........
We don't know. You have seen so many that did not cross the boarder, lucky you. You don't just need to write a book about it, you make money distinguishing and classifying them. Poor man that started it when you were a lil girl has does not know what he see. The gods are not to blame.

One time I was having a random conversation with a tattoo artist in my area. Out of the blue, he asked if I wanted to see his penìs tattoo & before I could grasp out a response, Jack was already out of the pulpit. It was just bizarre. I didn't find that particular incident annoying though. What I find annoying is the fact that people seem to feel (free?) enough around me to say & do inappropriate things. I'm not talking only about people I'm acquainted with (like the tattoo guy), but also random strangers I don't know from Adam. I've seem more penìses than a whòrehouse wench. Strangely enough, this didn't start now. We moved from my early childhood home because my father beat up a neighbour for exposing himself to me. I believe I was 8 or 9 at the time. It has happened so often that now I almost expect it & that's the annoying part of it.

oglalasioux:


When you train your eyes on a man's groin region with a smirk smile on your face, you are suggesting just one thing; you are interested. Stop mentioning over and over that you don't know why random men show you their dicks.

Mrpsly247:

I think you were right to call it an aura... an aura that's very receptive to other peoples energy... almost like u're a mirror. . it's mostly lyk u're an intp in the personality spectrum..

ubunja:
and how will a guy know you're not interested? Read minds?

ubunja:
that's a bad thing. Men must be afraid of you and must never feel so much at ease around you that they feel they can say anything to you. You need to rework on your Lady mystique. Your femininity.

But these are concepts I will expand on more on my upcoming writeup The Female Alpha.

ABCthings:
what do you think made the person say this? were you close?

QueenSuccubus:


There are thousands of annoying questions that most men love to ask again and again..

And also i hate it when they send this random quotes. Bitch please, i got no time to read it.

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I have this thing...I'm not sure what to call it (an aura perhaps?) that makes people do & say weird things.
I cannot speak of social media experiences because I'm not big on that. However, I could write a book on the craziest things I've seen & heard in my waking life.

One time I was having a random conversation with a tattoo artist in my area. Out of the blue, he asked if I wanted to see his penìs tattoo & before I could grasp out a response, Jack was already out of the pulpit. It was just bizarre. I didn't find that particular incident annoying though. What I find annoying is the fact that people seem to feel (free?) enough around me to say & do inappropriate things. I'm not talking only about people I'm acquainted with (like the tattoo guy), but also random strangers I don't know from Adam. I've seem more penìses than a whòrehouse wench. Strangely enough, this didn't start now. We moved from my early childhood home because my father beat up a neighbour for exposing himself to me. I believe I was 8 or 9 at the time. It has happened so often that now I almost expect it & that's the annoying part of it.

RiyadhGoddess:
Can I Know You?
You just slide into my DMs and say Hi, Can I know you
Hahahahahaha
U be olopa ni?
All these brothers that doesn't know how to package themselves that will just be dropping can I know you in my DMs. It can so much annoy me eh. First I'm not the type of person that knows how to write an essay abi na composition about "Myself". So when I see Hi, can I know you? I will just read and pass. Note when I said packaging, I wasn't talking about monetary packaging I meant oral packaging.
Brothers please take note- No more Hi, can I know you?
Thank you.
Read my signature

MezieFresh:


Okay Ma...

I believe they will do better next time

.meanwhile... "can I know you?"

ImaIma1:


I can so relate. I saw a lot of "those" from guys I never had anything to do with. I had to start begging them at a point to behave.

Plus people tell me things...deepest secrets that they should not be telling. Like in school, a guy told me how he was a paedophile but retraced his steps and even attempted going to a monastery as a means of purging himself.

Till now, people confide in me even if they haven't known me for long. So I feel you to a large extent.

XhosaNostra:



Yes!!!!! I'm glad I'm not the only one that has experienced something like this. What do you believe is the cause? I've tried avoiding eye contact because I thought that maybe I'm giving people "Come hither" eyes, unawares lol. That didn't work.
I even dress sensibly but weird things still happen despite my best efforts. I've resigned to the reality that I must be a crazy magnet. Plain & simple.

ImaIma1:



I think one reason could be if you are a not a judgemental person; you are open minded and objective in your thinking. So they feel free with you.

XhosaNostra:


Yeah, that could be one of the reasons.

ImaIma1:


And someone mentioned being tomboyish. Maybe that could also apply because I remember a girl made a pass at me thinking I was swinging that way probably because I was very active in sports in school and always around guys.

1Sharon:



Perverted men that like young girls also ask this. I got this question alot as a teen

Blackivy27:
Lol. You arent a girl. Most ask me. I ignore them after a while they apologize then ask again. Once late at night one begged me to send him etisalat.

XhosaNostra:


An easy Bleep @ 8 years old?

TBH, I don't think it has anything to do with looks because I'm just okay-looking. There're people better looking than me, but all the crazies seem to zero in on me for whatever reason. It gets scary sometimes. One time a guy at a house warming party I attended with my cousin, threw an insanely dramatic tantrum because I was leaving. I've never seen this person in my life, only spoke to him briefly because he was sitting next to me (I took an empty chair next to his) & yet somehow he felt entitled to more time with me. He went absolutely bonkers, he had to be pulled away. That was frightening. Mind you, there were many gyrating ladies there, so he could have chosen to be crazy with any of them

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I have this thing...I'm not sure what to call it (an aura perhaps?) that makes people do & say weird things.
I cannot speak of social media experiences because I'm not big on that. However, I could write a book on the craziest things I've seen & heard in my waking life.

One time I was having a random conversation with a tattoo artist in my area. Out of the blue, he asked if I wanted to see his penìs tattoo & before I could grasp out a response, Jack was already out of the pulpit. It was just bizarre. I didn't find that particular incident annoying though. What I find annoying is the fact that people seem to feel (free?) enough around me to say & do inappropriate things. I'm not talking only about people I'm acquainted with (like the tattoo guy), but also random strangers I don't know from Adam. I've seem more penìses than a whòrehouse wench. Strangely enough, this didn't start now. We moved from my early childhood home because my father beat up a neighbour for exposing himself to me. I believe I was 8 or 9 at the time. It has happened so often that now I almost expect it & that's the annoying part of it.

DrObiHogan:

What's the nature of your job that guys just come there and show you their tool of havoc? Well man's oldest occupation I think.

XhosaNostra:


Back then I was a student, but I bussed tables for extra cash.
The guy was a lawyer, hence it was so easy to get rid of me instead of them dealing with the sicko.

DrObiHogan:

Are you beautiful? Like hawt

AstroG:
So,it's now a crime to knw someone's state of origin or trib ??

Are you sure ur not abnormal ??

Am normal.

ABCthings:
'CU's you're ashamed of your tribe. abi?

keryj:

Am never and will never be ashame of my tribe.