hot-angel:

I can marry chinese man. As long as i love him (noo i take that back).

gocity:

I'm not Nigerian i'm a black american

This is my story. I'm out with 2 of my guys, in a club around State and North, downtown Chicago. I walk in the club which was caucazoid, basically it a white club right, you understand. I spot this cold sister standin on the glass. I don't know she's Nigerian. I stepped to her and it was on. I was feeling her. She was feeling me. We danced all night long to whatever rock and roll, techno bullsh*t the DJ played. These dudes on the other side of the club, They were dancing too but at the same time they were eying me. I saw them with my Hatar Radar. I asked her who she came with. Those same cats plus some more nigerian ladies. I played it cool Me and the sister sat down and had a drink. I really started to dig this girl. After the drink I was walking her outside when one of the haters snatched her arm and pulls her to the bar. She's trying to get away but he has his arms around her trapping her inbetween his body and the bar. He talking to her basically like, "oh no you don't". I stayed cool, I don't know who she is to him and i'm not about to fight all these cats. I mean there potentially could have been a big misunderstanding(Furniture moving up in that motha). I'm peace loving and me and the boys wasn't out for that. He let her go after a minute or five. I asked her "what was the problem". She said "he's Nigerian and Nigerian men don't like to see there women going outside there tribe". I'm like "Hello you'll at the damn caucazoid club". Whatever it was all love. After that I called her and she said It wouldn't be a good idea. Really now, To bad, her loss. I was offended, so I didn't bother following up. We all black right? Thats what I thought.

@ gocity we are all black, but its a sad thing that we still have to overcome the differences that exist within the black family - tribal differences and cultural differences are problem blacks have to over come (1) Tribal differences and bigotry is a problem for africans(2) the blacks in diaspora( americans, carribeans and south americans) have thier problems too - afro americans sometimes dicriminate against africans,carribeans and afro americans have cultural frictions and animosities - the typical jamaican girl may find her family prefers her marrying a fellow carribean rather than an afro american.

though we are all black, we are a very diverse globally spread race.we just have to work towards overcoming the kind of stiupid behavoir u saw in that club.Africans and thier tribal differences are the sadest example of disunity within a unity.