jclassiq:


You are the ignorant person Mr. Someone is talking about a marriage spouse and you keep talking crap about girlfriend. Are you so immature that you can't see past this puerile inclination of yours?

They are married for godsake, not your senseless boyfriend girlfriend talk. If you can't make such a sacrifice for your husband, then it means the marital vows don't mean much. And it then begs the question: why willingly marry someone you don't love and can make sacrifices for?

Be smart bro.

ednut1:
if this story is true. this a pointer that true love is a scam. many people are in relationships for material or societal gains

LillyVal:
My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of Kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months na, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

a. would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man
Sacrifice is good, if she loves him she will do it,"if she doesn't she is wicked right? What if on doing it she dies? What would happen?. Is unfortunate the man has to look for a way to solve the problem, if he loves the wife why he want her to take such risk? Anyways if he has #50 m let come and take mine am available,08066212559
What do you think?

LillyVal:
My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of Kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months na, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

a. would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

mahvie:


Okay. I have a issue. i mistakenly transferred money to the wrong account. I was told by the bank that before the money could be withdrawn from the account which was wrongly credited, i need to get a court order. is this proper?

Acidosis:


It seems like you're extremely ignorant but then again, I believe you're simply denying the truth. Take a moment to think about your relationships or marriage. What's the most remarkable thing you've done for your girlfriend/wife? Would you have done exact thing at the beginning of your relationship? No, right? Does it mean you don't love her from inception? You don't just wake up to start loving and making sacrifices for someone like a controlled zombie. It takes a great deal of commitment to arrive at that level. Husband or not, did you take a moment to ask how long they've been together?

LillyVal:
My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of Kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months na, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

a. would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Acidosis:


Yes. That's the procedure. You should act fast before the money gets withdrawn by the account holder

anonymuz:
true love ended in late 80s

yazga:
Did the kidney suddenly fail or it was there all along and wasn't disclosed? If it wasn't disclosed, she has a choice to walk away. If it happened suddenly, she ought to make sacrifice but you can't force her. I believe he has siblings, let love ànd blood lead.

Again, Instead of the two families to sit down and look for a suitable solution, it's divorce they are pushing her for? A fresh marriage for that matter, what exactly was their reason to get married if they can't support and help each other at their down times?

Obascoetubi:
STUPID ADVICE

funmisticqueen:
God forbid bad thing

gidob:

What are you even saying...after writing so much, you made no point

Acidosis:


It seems like you're extremely ignorant but then again, I believe you're simply denying the truth. Take a moment to think about your relationships or marriage. What's the most remarkable thing you've done for your girlfriend/wife? Would you have done exact thing at the beginning of your relationship? No, right? Does it mean you don't love her from inception? You don't just wake up to start loving and making sacrifices for someone like a controlled zombie. It takes a great deal of commitment to arrive at that level. Husband or not, did you take a moment to ask how long they've been together?

LillyVal:
My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of Kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months na, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

a. would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

AwkaetitiBabe:
This is where true emotions are tested. I remember one of ojb wife gave him a kidney. If you truly love ur partner, such matter won't be difficult. And married peeps should try to leave out their parents and siblings in their matters abeg, humans can be selfish. Personally I'd give me a kidney. Shey I can survive on one kidney ryt? Giving d father of my kids my kidney won't be bad... Atleast I'll know I own him totally, I'm his life saver.

Martinez39:
I know you yourself won't give so you support the narrative that it's not right to give for sake of a troubled conscience. Whether you like it or not, love requires sacrifice. There is no love without sacrifice. Love is part of romantic love. Love is love. Even if Nigeria gives the best medical services in the world, she will still not give the kidney. There is no excuse. A human being can survive on one kidney. That's a fact. All excuses are for the gods. She doesn't want to give. If she loves her husband, she will give. Let's tell it like it is and stop covering people's selfishness.

Females on this thread are already making up excuses for her and defending her because they themselves can't love their men to give them their kidneys. To soothe their troubled conscience, which arises from the fact that they are selfish and have no love, they are making up excuses to justify their selfishness and lack of love.

trevorhorace:
Its very easy to say give till you are the one in the middle.
Its a major decision anyone wouldnt wanna rush into.

Theres no right or wrong decision.

Stop watching Zeeworld and Nollywood. It can mess up your perception of the true realm we live in.

Duggedised12:
I am very concerned about the medical implication donating a kidney will have on the lady. That should be the main issue on the table.

LillyVal:
My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of Kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months na, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

a. would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

CyberEBOLA:
THEY MARRIED HER FOR HER KIDNEY IN THE FIRST PLACE

hopefulLandlord:


interesting, any reason behind this?

Vieamie:
She does not love her hubsand at all. Even if the kidney problem was there before or not, Who think twice on saving the life of her spouse? something a stranger can even do for another.

Cocotrendz:

Do you think it's easy to forfeit one organ for someone who might cheat on her

Martinez39:
I find romantic relationships to be overrated and a complete waste of time. There is nothing I need from it. I also plan not to marry and have children because it's the way I want it and I am happier that way Even if I want children,I will go through surrogate mums. A nanny, employed by me, will take care of my kids until they can safely find their way around the house(around age 9) and keep themselves okay. I will spend quality time with them to raise them properly. My life.