Wifey,

Don't be the reason why your husband will go and engage in money rituals, don't let it be because of you that he will loose his financial integrity at work, don't push him to jail, pls don't make him a criminal.
Many wives today are really frustrating their husbands by placing higher financial demands on the them.
As long as he is not lazy and idle, support and encourage him, stop tasking him as if he has entered a ritual den by marrying you.
Stop telling him he is not man enough simply because he can't yet meet your outrageous demands, don't tell him his mates are buying jeeps for their wives and he can't afford one for you.

One thing I know is this, every responsible man wants to please their wives, it is their joy to make their woman the envy of all, if he is not meeting up, it bothers him, he may not say it out but deep down, that's his wish, that alone is enough burden.
Making the home hotter than hell for them will simply push some into taking irrational steps and you might not be spared from partaking in the eventual negative outcome.
Pray for your man, encourage and motivate him always, nagging him on financial grounds is a sin against God.
Be like the virtuous woman in Prov 31.
Be considerate.

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Hubby,

Don't ever allow your wife to push you into doing what is wrong. Your life, name, integrity and relationship with God should be jealously guarded.
As long as you are working hard and not idle, God will surely crown your little efforts and bring greatness out of it.
If you allow yourself to be pushed into doing wrong, God will not listen to your excuse(s).
Adam was not exempted from God's punishment even when he reported Eve as the cause of his fall.
God who placed you as the head expects a level of sense and wisdom from you.

May the Lord bless every man reading this with the resources you need to properly take care of your wife.
May you wives not be the reason why your husbands will miss it.
Amen.

©Modupe™.

Why do people nowadays like to forget everyone started from somewhere?