Being a Philanderer or a player is fun, a lot of fun they say. You can go after whom ever you want, throw a little money or skin at their face, get them to fall for you, play around their heart a little, use them for sexual satisfaction or money gains and then voom!. Off you go. Doesn’t that sound like fun to you? Yes it does and the most exciting part of it is that you have a lot of them, you get to choose which to sleep with or collect from in each day and who to dump next, Interesting!

You pile up broken hearts here and there as you go, that is a sort of trademark that you have been there. They cry calling your name, they go sad all month cursing at you, they think of you and how smooth you are with words and how they feel cheaply for it and that crashes their heart. Sometimes you don’t even give them the benefit of breaking up properly, you just start treating them like trash and they are supposed to read the hand writing on the wall right? You make them feel its their fault, they feel they did not do enough, or maybe they are not beautiful enough and this tears down their self esteem. Still it’s fun right?

Wait till your sister or brother is a victim, you will get married someday, and bear children and I hope it will be delightful seeing them go through breakups, cry and tell you they are not good enough for anyone and they are ugly and shapeless. They meet flirts after flirts like you and you get to watch them age while drowning in depression, zero ego and no self worth. Then they turn into flirts themselves or become loose and distribute their body freely to who ever tells them they are pretty. Wow! Isn’t it more fun than we even thought?

You do not know how much emotional damage you do to people when you break their hearts. You have no idea how badly you have impacted their self confidence and how they struggle to build it back. You create trust issues of the opposite sex in them making it hard for them go give the genuine ones a chance. Increase their body count and consequently decreasing their ego or where do you think all these “Men are trash”, Men are scum”, “Women are never to be trusted”, “Women love money” group all came from? How much fun is that?

Once you break a heart it is difficult to fix it, even if you do by trying to make up for it, the scars still remain. Just like a piece of paper, once crumpled it can’t get as straight as it used to be even if you try. Don’t hurt a heart that loves you, that is not fun. Don’t play with a heart that cares for you, it is not fun either. Don’t go around playing with people’s heart because you are attractive or rich, there is no fun in that. Don’t use people and sleep around with them just because you can, that is boring and wicked.

If they love you and you can’t love them back let them know and walk away or you can just do the Etisalat thing. Fppriend zone is a more better and polite option and there is no numeric limit to it you know? and who knows, you may even genuinely fall for them later. Never intentionally hurt a heart that has tended to you or fended for you, it is no fun!

Source:http://flipmemes.com/2019/09/16/dont-hurt-a-heart-that-loves-you-it-is/

In life there are people who are like us,they give what we want and take what they want,just like us....Look for those kinda people.

If you cant give love,leave people who want to be loved alone.

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In life there are people who are like us,they give what we want and take what they want,just like us....Look for those kinda people.

If you cant give love,leave people who want to be loved alone.

Well said