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Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by olabrinks(f): 6:56pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
All is well in Jesus name. Your story will change, mark my words!!!! This is the time where your husband is even supposed to hug you close, comfort you as this situation is out of your control. That’s the difference between a husband and somebody who just gave you their last name. Even if frustration comes, it should be temporary. Pray pray pray, you will have the last laugh. amarachi06: |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Nobody: 6:56pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Lush100(m): 7:07pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
dear ma'am, i disagree that Nigerian women will always be at a disadvantage, a lot of scenario plays out where the woman is at an advantage. so don't generalize, i would have given u mine as an example but i am at work and tired ready to go home waiting for arrivals of people and " business commodities(and no its not commodity in the market oh" UjuJoan2: |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Fundamentalist: 7:27pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Its quiet sad. I wish you the best. I hope in the nexy one year, you'd be sharing a picture of a new born baby. As for your husband , as an advise from a man, avoid anything that irritate him. |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Donjazzy12(m): 8:20pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
amarachi06:Did you tell him the truth about your bareness! How you were aborting for your Sugar Daddies. Did you tell him all that? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by galadima77(m): 8:59pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
UjuJoan2: As far as I'm concerned, the man is being completely unreasonable and i hate such men of little faith and caring towards their union. I know it's good to have faith, be prayerful and all that blah blah blah but truth is since they're now married and stand as one before God and man, she shouldn't be bearing this alone. Whatever the problem is, I'm pretty sure there are medical solutions to it. He should be ashamed of himself for not being your comfort at this trying time. Whatever he thinks or feels he's going through, I was there and stood by my wife for 6 good years till God answered our prayers via fertility clinic. Let him go and raise money and take you to fertility clinic instead of behaving like hell on earth. So many opt for marriage but are not emotionally and psychologically ready for it. Please find a way to talk to maybe his parent or someone that can convince him to take both of you to a fertility clinic: it doesn't matter who has the challenge, you're now one and should behave so. You can only pray after you've made concerted efforts. Be strong and please stop the tears. God bless you. 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by BlackCrainte: 11:53pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Use him for money rituals 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by shogsman(m): 11:54pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
You leave the table when you’re not being served to avoid certain embarrassment and false hopes. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 11:54pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
nigerian men= trash spits! |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by YorubaPrince: 11:56pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
OP... May God Almighty answer your prayers soon. Amen! |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by adem30: 11:57pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Madam please be strong. Have faith and believe in God positively. Seek for good medical advice. You will smile soon. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by shogsman(m): 11:58pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Donjazzy12: Your brain is docile,you need help. 11 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by 12345baba(m): 11:58pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Dislike him back. Its all a goal |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by nairalanduseles: 11:59pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Ariza: Really is that your advice......see what religion has.made you.......my dear it is not by force even if you are 70 .....if u are old to ur husband you are new to someone else......leave asap 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Majikmoment(f): 12:00am On Nov 09, 2019 |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:05am On Nov 09, 2019 |
NO baby can make a man love "you"... NONE!!!! better wake up and smell the coffee. that man simply does NOT like you, period (no baby can fix that)! why is everyone on this thread hellbent on advising her on how to get a baby, as if this will change anything...? to the contrary, having a child by this demon will only aggravate the matter. 11 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Enculer2: 12:05am On Nov 09, 2019 |
dawnomike: Bullshit advice. |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Majikmoment(f): 12:05am On Nov 09, 2019 |
I’m so sorry about what you are going through Sis. Please go for hormonal test, cut down your carbohydrate intake, eat mostly fruits and veggies, drink enough water, exercise as much as you can, then pray and ask God for mercy. |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Nobody: 12:08am On Nov 09, 2019 |
amarachi06: sorry for your situation. wonder where you ladies meet these guys anyway. He must have shown you that he didn't love you from the start, but you went ahead all the same. Not blaming you for anything sis but at the moment you need to go to a good clinic and find out why you have miscarriages. I believe it is a medical condition that can be taken care of easily. Be careful so your husband doesn't infect you with std though cos I'm pretty sure he cheating on you. Look for the person he respects the most and can't look in the eye and report the situation to them. It'd be interesting to hear his own version of the story too though. But all in all, don't wait for the relationship to become physically abusive before you hightail out of there. my two kobo. |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by romenna: 12:08am On Nov 09, 2019 |
We should all come to agreement that giving birth outside wedlock is only fashionable in modern times. We must learn to adapt for survival and for our own peace of mind. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Trutherme: 12:09am On Nov 09, 2019 |
amarachi06: It doesn't get touchier than this but you must gather yourself together and see this as an odd God will help you beat. Have you recommended that both of you visit a doctor. If not, there's no better time because it may not even be your fault. Good luck dear! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by seangy4konji: 12:09am On Nov 09, 2019 |
Sis..don't be pestered..Godbsay he is the one that does as he wish..no man can tell what time.. I am not a church person but I read the message and I can assure you that all that is blocking the happiness inside the marriage is cancceld from henceforth..you will get a baby for him.. Buhari is anothvsource of anoyyance...dress well for h..when you are ovulating,move him closer and in the name of God things shall go your way..don't be bothered please..may God enter his earth to be calm with you.mabinu.. You will give him a boy soon....lovely weekend. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by saajus: 12:09am On Nov 09, 2019 |
If that is true, he needs to change. Have you sought medical help? If no, you need to work on that first. Keep talking to him but if you start having suicide thoughts, u may need to go for counseling and leave the house. Please, don't hurt yourself o. If you do, he's going to get over it after 1 or 2 yrs and remarry. |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Elaric(m): 12:10am On Nov 09, 2019 |
Congratulations in view. Luv n pray for him more. Fast n pray always especially at midnight. Sow more seed in d life of Children n go to other churches alter to sow seed without involving anyone. U will testify later,dear |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by udemzyudex(m): 12:11am On Nov 09, 2019 |
UjuJoan2: After all this I was thinking you will offer a solution. Nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by jaxxy(m): 12:12am On Nov 09, 2019 |
amarachi06: God will answer ur prayers. Just believe. Amen 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Nobody: 12:15am On Nov 09, 2019 |
The question is, what then happens when the child comes? He suddenly realizes you're his wife and automatically starts loving you? Is the sole reason for getting married 'child-bearing?' even in this tensed environment called marriage, how do you both have sex? Some of you are just enduring people you should have no business in being around if you value your sanity all in the name of marriage. 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Samuels90: 12:15am On Nov 09, 2019 |
@Ujujoan, @Crackhaus, @bukatyne, u guys are taking this thread to any level. always arguing about men and women Issh, it's crazy. Advice and leave, and let the OP get what's best for her. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by ngwababe(f): 12:16am On Nov 09, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Medical help how? Na to ask her if the husband still dey sex her at the right time. That man fit don use vex dey scatter the whole thing time when him suppose give am belle. |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Nobody: 12:18am On Nov 09, 2019 |
Donjazzy12:Is a woman who has had one/more miscarriages barren? I was not supposed to quote you, but you stupidity couldn't be ignored. 11 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by anonymuz(m): 12:19am On Nov 09, 2019 |
He loves you, he's being pushed by some people. He's not his fault. Seek medical solution and prayer. Don't commit suicide o. Everywhere go good soon. 1 Like |
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