Good and smooth relationships are the hardest to find these days and a major dysfunction in existing relationships is one or the two people in it having a sense of self entitlement which could lead to an actual problem in the relationship,

Every sense of entitlement starts from the littlest thing, though, we see them as normal but no, they are not and unless they are duly dealt with, such relationships is about to hit the rock bottom. Sometimes, entitled people don’t see these acts as being overly entitled, they think it’s normal and they are doing no wrong.

Well, some of these entitlement issues are;

The Tit for Tat Scheme

This is where the whole problem starts. A whole lot of people who are in a relationship have a mindset of “I have to get this if I’m giving that”. For ladies, sometimes, a lady thinks because she has sex to offer, her man must give her all she wants because she’s satisfying his sexual needs. As much as this has become the norm, let’s be factual, both parties are satisfying eachother’s needs, so keep the money out of it.

From man’s angle, if he starts to think he spending so a deserves to own her body, then, there’s a problem. Things done in a relationship shouldn’t be based on these mindsets and having these sense of entitlement. Whatever happened to just enjoying the moment and making the best out of it?

Thinking whatever belongs to your partner is yours too

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As much as we love to think this is true, you both ain’t married yet. His or her phone isn’t yours, you can’t force him to tell you his phone password, your cannot force her to let you know hers. Giving you these information is only based on genuine love and transparency. Girls often think they have a right to their partner atm pin, clothes, shoes, his car and other stuffs. Girl, there is no rules stating this obligation. Again, doing these only discretional and same goes for the man.

It’s okay to share his things but you need to know where to stop because you don’t want him putting to your face that you are being too entitled, it hurts but it’s the truth.

Being overly jealous of other friends

This is often seen in most relationships. One who’s entitled doesn’t thinks his or her partner is for just them alone. They don’t want to share. Such person cannot have a friend who is the opposite sex, there’s going to be a serious problem. I’m not saying you should be inquisitive when you feel the need to ask questions, but, people who feel entitled become overly obsessive, they don’t want their partners around other people for whatsoever reasons.

Asking for favours like it’s your birth right

A person who feels overly entitled would ask their partners for things or favours like they are commanding. Here, it’s some kind of confidence that he or she must do what they are asking or but what they want. They don’t think are making your inconvenient or making you go out of your ways to do things for them. They are less appreciative because they feel they aren’t asking for too much and they deserve it.

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"freely it was given to and freely shall ye give"...can't women just love men freely?.

I don't need your ATM pin or your phone password. But,you see those his tops and slippers,we must wear it together ni. I don't even care how big they are on me...