mekay:

To be frank with you any guy that is just friends with any female will want to go the extra mile if given the chance. Some will want to be playing on such levels until the right opportunity surfaces. I think its all about the mindset and the attraction.

chi-baby:

So your sayin derez nothing lyk 'Just friends' between males and females?

jay bee:

Yes you are right with your thinking but as you know technically friends don't usually put themselves in such positions.

jay bee:

If my female friend is single then i won't be inviting her over to my place as it's a recipe for disaster.
Point is you can be friends with a woman as long as you don't spend all your time with them vice versa.

no1madman:

I got a whole lotta female friends but a good number want more than friends. . .

chi-baby:

@yorisb

So u say itz based on the looks of the girl huh? wud u make a move to talk to a 'FAT and [b]Ugly' [/b]girl lyk u put it in da first place?  

UGLY is relative nau - [size=2pt]they often make the move BTW[/size]

I thot so!

chi-baby:

Err how do u mean and wat positions?
 

chi-baby:

So basically guys always have feelings for their female friends then ? Cuz i dnt see dat happening with sum1 u dnt hve any attraction to

Odunnu:

As a matter of fact,I have more male friends than females (I dont even have any female friend). Some of the guys everly would want to 'chop oga's food' and when I notice stuff like ths,I run. I for one would never date any guy my bf knows,I would (God help me) never date any guy who has introduced his gurl to me either.But all the same,I know guys who wont misbehave and keep friends as friends

n other words, you'd knowingly cheat on ur BF

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I get on with men better than women its always been that way. So yes its possible, I have to find the guy attractive before I sleep with him, so I do have self control lol!

However you can NEVER be just friends with someone you have slept with even just once cause there is always the, well we done it before we can do it again mentality.

jay bee:

I disagree. I'm friends with ma ex's and i certainly don't have such mentality

Tough in some cases. . .but possible.  And i have loads of them.  I'm what you call a guy's girl. . .sometimes its as if they don't remember i'm female (the shiite i be hearing ).  They do make the best of friends

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However you can NEVER be just friends with someone you have slept with even just once cause there is always the,  well we done it before we can do it again mentality.

Story.  I'm still friends with all, well almost of them The 'well we've dont it before' is a lame excuse in my book and they are just that. . .excuses

iice:

Tough in some cases. . .but possible. And i have loads of them. I'm what you call a guy's girl. . .sometimes its as if they don't remember I'm female (the shiite i be hearing ). They do make the best of friends
Story. I'm still friends with all, well almost of them The 'well we've dont it before' is a lame excuse in my book and they are just that. . .excuses