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Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by aminusodiq(m): 9:28am On Dec 12, 2019
falcon01:
you can't just ask introvert to ho to public places, that's not how it works. Trust me I know how it feels.
I don't even knw hw day feel convinient being an introvert... Me dah can talk
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by nuelsam: 10:16am On Dec 12, 2019
If u got girl problems....im sorry for you Son.....i got 99 problems but a bitch aint one
- Jay Z.

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Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by Dbullofficial: 11:48am On Dec 12, 2019
AfroKnight:
Some small boys in her school are calling her “sisí” and she’s pleased with herself. Na normal tin. She has never felt so beautiful before. This is a novel experience.

In her own eyes, you are a relic from the past drab life which she thinks she has escaped. One small boy go soon clear her.

In the mean time, focus your energy elsewhere. Many under 25 girls are in their höe-phase. So, Move on.
Absolutely correct

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Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by Dbullofficial: 11:49am On Dec 12, 2019
Apination:

I'm an introvert just like you but have come to realise one thing, just express yourself no matter what, if one girl says no or even 10, there will be one person who would say yes. Rejection is normal, everybody no fit like you
That's very true
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by Dbullofficial: 11:52am On Dec 12, 2019
samdavjustin:


That tight there is your problem, how do you expect to keep them without effective communication and attention. You know women love for attention especially from a person they like so u just need to adjust
I loose patience easily if I text and you don't reply I might delete the number
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by Dbullofficial: 11:53am On Dec 12, 2019
mumumugu:


true talk, a girl before uni differs from a girl during uni. she may come back for u when she is clocking 32
Hahaha funny you
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by Dbullofficial: 11:54am On Dec 12, 2019
nuelsam:
If u got girl problems....im sorry for you Son.....i got 99 problems but a bitch aint one
- Jay Z.
But there will definitely be a phase in your life where you will need love
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by Dbullofficial: 11:55am On Dec 12, 2019
aminusodiq:
I don't even knw hw day feel convinient being an introvert... Me dah can talk
Funny thing is I get really uncomfortable with people that talks Alot
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by falcon01: 12:22pm On Dec 12, 2019
aminusodiq:
I don't even knw hw day feel convinient being an introvert... Me dah can talk
I am an Introvert a very shy one, but I had to adjust cos I need to make money and I need to go out and talk to people in order to do that, and after all alis over I feel soooooo exhausted and need an alone time to recharge.
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by Nobody: 12:26pm On Dec 12, 2019
Dbullofficial:

Actually getting women is not the problem keeping women is the problem. Its really frustrating to see ladies dieing for you when they just met you only for them to keep distance after a week or a couple of days
My dear, you need to understand the dynamics of attraction. Attraction dies when overfed! One one has ever been attracted to the same thing or same person for long without a short break, distance or inattention. I.E Being too available makes you easy and too predictable. Predictability is boring! You feed ladies too much attention! you don't give them the chance to miss you so they turn the table on you. Just try this, get a Lady who's interested, then when all is still rosy, withdraw. Then observe her reactions. She would most likely call or text to find out what happened and try to fix you two up again. Only when she tries should you resume the friendship/relationship. Ladies love men that aren't too available.

Dude, contrary to the belief that women love to be chased, they get tired of it. Women love to chase just that they do not do the asking out but the make themselves available to be asked out. Let a woman choose you. In fact read Ubunja's thread on the Chosen and No greenlight No approach.
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by Omar09(m): 12:43pm On Dec 12, 2019
Riele:
Unseriousness should be your problem .

Whatever made you think you were smart to post this.
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 1:14pm On Dec 12, 2019
Dbullofficial:

This makes alot of sense. All the girls I have been with were never after money

Then you have not really dated sweet ladies. Dnt forget women have "class"


Conclusion - i used to think like u before when i was dating in my early 20s , but has time goes on my standard increases... Then i met hot Ladies.
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by aminusodiq(m): 1:36pm On Dec 12, 2019
Dbullofficial:

Funny thing is I get really uncomfortable with people that talks Alot
I av limit to wat Eva I say... But it Stil Dosnt make me an introvert!!
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by DenreleDave(m): 2:34pm On Dec 12, 2019
Riele:
Unseriousness should be your problem .


You are mad
Re: Painful Experience I Had With A Lady Recently. by Dbullofficial: 3:57pm On Dec 12, 2019
EMEKUSBOY9:


Then you have not really dated sweet ladies. Dnt forget women have "class"


Conclusion - i used to think like u before when i was dating in my early 20s , but has time goes on my standard increases... Then i met hot Ladies.
Money is still important anyways

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