Dicey life! Yet, some will marry church girls that immediately they get married, the man's success will start dwindling and going into oblivion!

This life is deep.God please help me understand it.

Ipheeoma24:
my dear maybe she doesn't have family members that need the contract na

She is from Edo according to the story and I can tell you for fact, based on my blood link to Benin, don't count them as family,aside your siblings.

If you are even unlucky, your siblings can be a danger to your life.

Those people do not wish each other well... They compete, jealous and wish evil against one another. There is no unity...

And in Benin, its all man for himself. They can do anything to survive, absolutely anything, either good or bad.

Just had to point out "why" she may not have brother to link to such contract.

futurism:


Nobody say make u go fork ashii...

For inside this life there hundreds of ashiii happily married and faithful while holier than thou have divorced cos they are still forking dicks.

Everybody has a reason for taking certain path in life.

Plus, ashawo get standard...

When u give girl friend money after sex, what's that? Or when the only thing you gain from her is sex and you in turn do heaven and earth for her, what do you call that?

but any guy who gives a girl money after sex that one is not his girlfriend .sometimes we mistake hookups and bootycalling as girlfriend.

Am... just... just... speechless

I have never looked down on anyone. I do not intend to start now

lefulefu:
but any guy who gives a girl money after sex that one is not his girlfriend .sometimes we mistake hookups and bootycalling as girlfriend.

Most Nigerian girls don't offer guys anything aside sex and they expect you to compensate them for that.

Bros leave story. This is fact.

interesting.... in life everybody is important

Vortex369:
So, what do you want us to do about this story? Start fuccking prostitutes?

lol. i laugh.
no ofcourse
the lesson hear is probably to not look down on people
because this lashing prostitute thing has more bad than good . no doubt

GraGra247:
FABRICATED LIES!! Full stop!!

How can this be fabricated...??
Just look how God led her out of prostitution..it's a win win situation for them

With lots of comments I jus read here, Av come to the conclusion nairaland is filled with kids....Anyway tnks for the story...I guess the moral of the story is simple- never judge nor look down on anyone, u neva know who holds the keys to ur breakthrough...

When Ure more irresponsible than a prostitute it’s highly possible she can change ur life. The prostitute is just poor and needs the money if not she won’t be in it.

Helpers come in all forms, never look down on anyone.

lefulefu:
but any guy who gives a girl money after sex that one is not his girlfriend .sometimes we mistake hookups and bootycalling as girlfriend.

Nope... Most girls expect you to drop something. Either immediately or after... They expect something in return.

Yes
I put it to you
The less you look the more it comes

futurism:
In this life, I will never look down on anyone and it has always been my motto. Those who do can always learn the hard way. I have seen a lot to stick to this.

Happy Reading folks.



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True talk. And it's not only about finances. When you open your mind to what people consider the 'dregs' of society, you will be surprised that you can find more gold than you can ever find among the 'elite'. I have had more meaningful discussions with illiterates, beggars, prostitutes, and homeless people than with the so called educated upper class who are usually prejudiced and too full of themselves to understand or appreciate life fully. I noticed long ago that my weed smoking, drunkard 'bad' friends in school were always more loyal and eager to help each other out than the so called good students, and I decided then which was the real friend. It is good that you have learnt the same lesson too.

This life is a mystery.

Ashewo story aside.

Hmmmmmmmm, this is deep!

Lol, married a prostitute because she linked them to her clients. Very sad story. From the way the story even develops it is obvious the girl is still actively working.

Well in the end, almost every girl out there is a hooker. We just have to settle for the one we're most compatible with.

This only applies to people who look down on sex workers as if they are any better than them.
If y’all didn’t have such hypocritical mindsets to start with, there would be no story to tell here.
Sex work is work.

when i saw that NDDC water hyacinth story.......i believed. many boys hit it big with that...it was free cash

futurism:


Plus, ashawo get standard...

When u give girl friend money after sex, what's that? Or when the only thing you gain from her is sex and you in turn do heaven and earth for her, what do you call that?

You are wrong.
Prostitution is exchanging sex for money.
If you sit your girl down and tell her that your only deal with her is the exchange of money for sex
and she agrees. That is prostitution.

However, no sane man will call to ask about a prostitute's day, how her parents is, whether she got the contract,
tell her about his birthday, whether she reached her destination safely or discuss future plans.

I admit that some men don't know the difference between prostitutes and girlfriends and you are obviously one of
them.
They are not even close.

lefulefu:
but any guy who gives a girl money after sex that one is not his girlfriend .sometimes we mistake hookups and bootycalling as girlfriend.

She's still a girlfriend. It doesn't matter if you paid her then or one week after. After her visit don't you drop something?
The only difference is that escorts name a particular price.
Everyone pays for sex whether married, single or to call girls.

It's only the mode of payment that varies

People are quick to condemn people in our society .some people find themself in some shit ,they don't want to be in some find them stealing , prostituting,crime etc they try to struggle to come out,people call them all sort of names but God sees them in a different view.This is not to justify crime or prostituting.moral is for us to judge people only when we try to understand why they do things .I think the guy also had a role in her life .when some people come in to your life ,they bring some things ,good or bad.i think the appearance of the man into the woman brought a turn around and they were destined to helped each other.






quote author=Firstorderwizard post=84959050]My instinct tells me this is a lie.
I may be wrong anyway[/quote]

lefulefu:
but any guy who gives a girl money after sex that one is not his girlfriend .sometimes we mistake hookups and bootycalling as girlfriend.

Thank you.
I have been saying this for long but this Nairaland boys refused to understand.
When the whole arrangement is about exchanging sex for money, it is prostitution not a relationship.

MPESA:


Most of them do get VVIP CONTACTS due to nature of their jobs.

You must have benefitted immensely from those VVIP.

You almost made me a believer until the Australia contact

What's the moral of the story?
That money is more important than principle?
The same rotten mindset that makes Nigeria the corruption headquarters of the world.

If the ex-prostitute was not a helper, she would have been dismissed as just another prostitute.
SMH.

My Ph, My Ph.

This epistle title should be Don't look down on any one