Etinosa1234:


Plsssss....Read and understand ....

I asked a question...is ehor not part of esan land

U claimed to be from ehor...

Besides what is ur Family greeting

I asked you, are we discussing Esan or Benin? Where did I ever mention Esan for you bring that?

We are talking Benin and you are mentioning Esan.

Etinosa1234:
Ever wondered why there are family greetings in Benin and not in other tribes of Nigeria not to talk of the whole world

Excuse this interruption but I have come across the family greeting stuff before and I am curious.

What is the reason for it?

And I thought it was only for royal families in Beninland and not everybody

futurism:


Its common, very common. The jealousy is too much, the backbiting is too much. Some times I find it hard to believe my mum is even from there.

They speak ill of each other at the slightest opportunity. And they are very hot temper

Hm. Okay o

The only one I have heard a lot is that they are too diabolical...this one youre saying I am not sure

I believe in this story 100% because I have heard of similar story. Where a guy who was suffering was asked by his friends to join them to d night club, d guy refused but afer much persuasion, he agreed. There in d club, every men wants this particular stripper to dance with, but d girl refuse all d men, n go straight to this particular poor guy that was sitting and watching, drag him to d floor dance, in d morning, d girl insisted that she must go wt this guy and told d guy pump & play she loves him. That's how d story of this guy changed. The girl later find mouth watering job for d guy, they later married, God blessed d marriage wt children boys and girls. Now they r stinkly rich

I laughed out loud so seriously in the public now after reading the "I put it to you" .... Lols .


But this testimony is good to share in the church. Don't you think so?

Runs girls mostly have a lot of connects especially their sugar daddies

God can use anyone to change one's destiny, a touching story.

GraGra247:
FABRICATED LIES!! Full stop!!

It takes one to know his/her fellow.

SocialJustice:
Yeah I get but these days women want so much more. It is no longer about protection and providing for offsprings but living to be better than their neighbour no matter what it cost.

I guess the social media contributed to that with the small girl, big God syndrome, Yahoo boys, celebrities etc
In Nigerian society ,everyone is trying to show off because of religious messages.The poor and pious is not respected but the rich,lousy is hailed and worshipped in our society no matter his source of income.

paradigmshift:


Talk Ur own lie na...
Likes they put money for basket.. ode

You don't know what's called "clout chasing"
You don't know what's called "'sensational blogging"
I will forget about the bolded because today is worlds cool day and I just have to keep my cool today

Chriso2:
I believe in this story 100% because I have heard of similar story. Where a guy who was suffering was asked by his friends to join them to d night club, d guy refused but afer much persuasion, he agreed. There in d club, every men wants this particular stripper to dance with, but d girl refuse all d men, n go straight to this particular poor guy that was sitting and watching, drag him to d floor dance, in d morning, d girl insisted that she must go wt this guy and told d guy pump & play she loves him. That's how d story of this guy changed. The girl later find mouth watering job for d guy, they later married, God blessed d marriage wt children boys and girls. Now they r stinkly rich

Bro why are you like this, what have you achieved with this sweet telemundo series.
Please don't be like this in 2020

JastSiryin:
But you would readily someone visited heaven and hell and came back. Somehow that's more "real" than what the guy just narrated? Dunno what to say

Because I am sure that heaven and hell are as real as the air I'm breathing right now!

My advise to people is to treat everyone that you come across like they will make it the following day. You never can tell, life is so unpredictable to carry ego around abi WHO EGO HELP?
Some fools will be saying have got taste, I just smile because he ought to say "Have got grace".
Treat people nice as if you knew they will make it the following day.

BabaIbo:



Are you saying the paragraph in bold is bad or wrong?
Because I don't get that point

It is not the action itself that is wrong but the intent.
If you think the only reason your parents took care of you is to reap the investment then it is bad.
If you had younger siblings and have helped them out financially or otherwise, is it just to reap the reward?

The OP believes that the reason you do anything for anybody is business(transactional) so you can reap your own
reward later. This is wrong on all counts.

He forgot that family members sometimes donate their kidney even when the chance of survival of
the patient is slim and the recipient cannot reciprocate.

We have seen parents care for kids with cancer that would only live a few years and can't "payback".
We have even seen people help a complete stranger who they will never meet again.

midnighter:


Excuse this interruption but I have come across the family greeting stuff before and I am curious.

What is the reason for it?

And I thought it was only for royal families in Beninland and not everybody

it's 4 all Benin families. . mainly in identifying them and tracing their origin

like lamogun is 4 the oba family
and there are some 4 chief's family like laire, lagiesan

and there are also the ones that are traced to some particular villages

But it is mainly 4 identification

GraGra247:
FABRICATED LIES!! Full stop!!

I think so

futurism:


I asked you, are we discussing Esan or Benin? Where did I ever mention Esan for you bring that?

We are talking Benin and you are mentioning Esan.

U mentioned that ur mum is from ehor and I want to tell u that ehor is not part of Benin but esan

Once again. I'll tell u that ur assumption is mainly coming from one angle ie ur family....

Because ur Family were wicked doesn't mean thats how the tribe in general are

or will u say because there are kidnappers in Niger delta,everyone in that area are kidnappers

or will u say everyone in Igbo are drug dealers just because some pple from there were caught in the act

U are just fond of hasty generalisation

Even the tribe u are claiming sef...do u think it's everyone that is a good person there

pls stop the hasty generalisation.

Ur Family is ur only basis 4 this ur faulty conclusion

Beosten:
Have the spiritual eyes and marry someone at par with your destiny.

If I tell you this, you may see it as fiction: exact house where my wife lived and her office's exact location were revealed to me in a dream.

But I didn't go to these locations in search of her. We met somewhere else. It was when I visited her for the first time that I declared myself a seer par excellence. Then, I was to pick her up at her place of work later. I became dumbfounded upon getting to the place.

Please how can someone have the spiritual eyes to detect a true partner?

Mscheeeew

midnighter:


Hm. Okay o

The only one I have heard a lot is that they are too diabolical...this one youre saying I am not sure

if you mean juju, that is an African thing na... It's phasing our already

Etinosa1234:


U mentioned that ur mum is from ehor and I want to tell u that ehor is not part of Benin but esan

Once again. I'll tell u that ur assumption is mainly coming from one angle ie ur family....

Because ur Family were wicked doesn't mean thats how the tribe in general are

or will u say because there are kidnappers in Niger delta,everyone in that area are kidnappers

or will u say everyone in Igbo are drug dealers just because some pple from there were caught in the act

U are just fond of hasty generalisation

Even the tribe u are claiming sef...do u think it's everyone that is a good person there

pls stop the hasty generalisation.

Ur Family is ur only basis 4 this ur faulty conclusion

Says who? Ehor is not Benin and they speak Benin? Just go sleep.

SocialJustice:
Lol, married a prostitute because she linked them to her clients. Very sad story. From the way the story even develops it is obvious the girl is still actively working.

Well in the end, almost every girl out there is a hooker. We just have to settle for the one we're most compatible with.

first paragraph. Made me think I'd found the golden comment. Second paragraph and I'm like whaaa?

Seriously, almost every girl out there is a hooker? What kind of girls do y'all roll with? A question I wnt stop asking.

Beosten:
Have the spiritual eyes and marry someone at par with your destiny.

If I tell you this, you may see it as fiction: exact house where my wife lived and her office's exact location were revealed to me in a dream.

But I didn't go to these locations in search of her. We met somewhere else. It was when I visited her for the first time that I declared myself a seer par excellence. Then, I was to pick her up at her place of work later. I became dumbfounded upon getting to the place.

Were you praying for a wife when this dream occurred?

How has marriage been?

Xisnin:
What's the moral of the story?
That money is more important than principle?
The same rotten mindset that makes Nigeria the corruption headquarters of the world.

If the ex-prostitute was not a helper, she would have been dismissed as just another prostitute.
SMH.

Q.E.D. Disgusting story from every angle.

Xisnin:
What's the moral of the story?
That money is more important than principle?
The same rotten mindset that makes Nigeria the corruption headquarters of the world.

If the ex-prostitute was not a helper, she would have been dismissed as just another prostitute.
SMH.

My exact thoughts and why I hissed. Money more important than principles.

Considering that these guys kind of had their thinking upside down, their focus in the wrong place.

Let's call a spade a spade. We aren't even talking about her leaving the business. No, she was still philandering after meeting someone serious with her and that's okay, cuz Afterall it brought them money and changed their BS lives.

BS story. Part of why we wnt have sense in this country.

Brightgem:
first paragraph. Made me think I'd found the golden comment. Second paragraph and I'm like whaaa?

Seriously, almost every girl out there is a hooker? What kind of girls do y'all roll with? A question I wnt stop asking.

Stop being blind, if you choose to be blind then you'll remain so but if you choose to see, you will see. Not all Hookers ask for money upfront, some even mellow it and delay gratification for a long time.

Just another story to show us Christians say, no one holy pass. The fact that you go to all night every week and another can barely stand 3 hours church service doesn't mean you are a true Christian.

cocolacec:


I guess the social media contributed to that with the small girl, big God syndrome, Yahoo boys, celebrities etc
In Nigerian society ,everyone is trying to show off because of religious messages.The poor and pious is not respected but the rich,lousy is hailed and worshipped in our society no matter his source of income.

You get my point.

SocialJustice:
Stop being blind, if you choose to be blind then you'll remain so but if you choose to see, you will see. Not all Hookers ask for money upfront, some even mellow it and delay gratification for a long time.

Na you Sabi. We all see the world from the limits of our knowledge of it and our own realities. That's ur reality. Goodluck ending up with the hooker you are comfortable with.

futurism:


Says who? Ehor is not Benin and they speak Benin? Just go sleep.

ohk I'm not really sure abt that

I've been asking u 4 ur family greeting and u never said anything

And besides esan language looks like Benin FYI



The truth...U are the one that is reacting emotionally because of what u passed thru in the hands of ur aunt

I'm saying that it does not justify tongue-lashing u calling Benin pple jealous and back biters..

Leave the ehor part and talk the abt rest of my arguments

Wow, alot of moral lessons...