SirLiquidGold:
its not about sex... There are certain things the BROTHEL can't offer

...but you’re a virgin so not in the position to make choices.

AwkaetitiBabe:
The village girl eats sand and flowers ba?

No, but you can't compare are standard with those in the city....

Yustash001:
No, but you can't compare are standard with those in the city....

Standard? Atleast a city girl will support you cos she's educated and has a job but that village wench will be an added liability

AwkaetitiBabe:
Standard? Atleast a city girl will support you cos she's educated and has a job but that village wench will be an added liability

Hahahaha... Which city gal will support a broke man?.. Stop watching Africa magic.. Even. Linda ìkejì carry Belle for a billionaire!!!!!....

OP forget woman first.. Find better job... IF you get a woman now when you are broke, na yahoo boy go collect am ó... Gfs and wives dey suck. Money o

babyfaceafrica:



Hahahaha... Which city gal will support a broke man?.. Stop watching Africa magic.. Even. Linda ìkejì carry Belle for a billionaire!!!!!....

So na village girl fit support? OK o

CsRockefeller:
My Brother, listen to Life is Beautiful by Vega100, you will feel better.

No one ever cares where the sun goes when it sets, they just expect it to rise the next day.

Same with humans, when you are struggling, they don't care, they deal with the present vibes anyone can bring. When that is done, they move over to the next.

So f**k it, take it in, and when u rise, do not get a damn about anyone or their opinion.

Why mentioning me bro? We get problem before?

Vega100:

Why mentioning me bro? We get problem before?

Sorry, I meant Vega4.

TonyeBarcanista:

How do you advice having a girlfriend when he is yet to have a job or stable income?

Wetin concern me. He is here for woman. If he badly needed a job he wouldn't have come here crying out of loneliness.

I have learned to respect people who do not know what they need but chase what they want.

Ladylite:


Wetin concern me. He is here for woman. If he badly needed a job he wouldn't have come here crying out of loneliness.

I have learned to respect people who do not know what they need but chase what they want.

Bros priorities are misplaced aswear

TonyeBarcanista:
Bros priorities are misplaced aswear

Bros let's look at it objectively o.

What if this guy is a need, throughout out his youthful days, he spent his time reading. Got to the University, didn't chase girls, was so focused on his books, graduated with a good grade and at an early age.

After service, had high hopes of getting a decent job, searched, searched and couldn't find any. Even if he found, he found low paying jobs. When he got home frustrated, no one to talk to, no female voice to hear from, the pressures at home is too much, no place to relax or someone to relax with and just tell.him things will be fine.

Now, he's 29, his Finances haven't changed for the better, he's lonely and craves for a feminine touch, he's afraid he may die broke and lonely.

Statistically, he stands a better chance getting a lady than a job, so, he decides to go get a lady to make him happy, even if it's for a while.

Can we truly fault this guy sincerely?

Things are really bad in this country Bros. His Finances may never change and it shouldn't stop him from getting a shot at love, we all deserve someone.

RisenPhoenix:


Bro, if you lack a good job, a girl in your life is the least of your problems right now. Upgrade yourself and try to improve your hustle with clear planning. Women in your life at this moment will just add migraine to your malaria.

By the way, if you are successful financially, different women will just start seeing you carrying ring in vision and your pastor will be hinting you everyday; it will be like a real miracle. So don't worry about getting a wife in the future either.

Can we all cut it with this mentality and stop commercializing relationships it brings out the worst in people over time.

Men and women should create an avenue to get to know each other and build something.

CsRockefeller:


Bros let's look at it objectively o.

What if this guy is a need, throughout out his youthful days, he spent his time reading. Got to the University, didn't chase girls, was so focused on his books, graduated with a good grade and at an early age.

After service, had high hopes of getting a decent job, searched, searched and couldn't find any. Even if he found, he found low paying jobs. When he got home frustrated, no one to talk to, no female voice to hear from, the pressures at home is too much, no place to relax or someone to relax with and just tell.him things will be fine.

Now, he's 29, his Finances haven't changed for the better, he's lonely and craves for a feminine touch, he's afraid he may die broke and lonely.

Statistically, he stands a better chance getting a lady than a job, so, he decides to go get a lady to make him happy, even if it's for a while.

Can we truly fault this guy sincerely?

Things are really bad in this country Bros. His Finances may never change and it shouldn't stop him from getting a shot at love, we all deserve someone.

No caps couldnt agree more.

Im worried at the staggering levels of young folks who arent in a relationship or have female friends they talk to.

Ive come to a conclusion that countries like India, Nigeria that have a large burgeoning population of young folks are more pre-disposed to things like rape because we have increasing levels of young folks who arent in a relationship,

You should be happy because they will be no one to say "I left you for a better package".

Having a girl at 35 aint bad. Get yourself in order first because even if you get a girl tomorrow, it is just a matter of days before she starts complaining about your joblessness.

No jobs, No jobs, No jobs yet there are jobs everywhere only ur certificate won't allow u see any. Bros dump that paper in ur hand and jump into the street; even if its pure water sales do it and thank me later.

CsRockefeller:


Bros let's look at it objectively o.

What if this guy is a need, throughout out his youthful days, he spent his time reading. Got to the University, didn't chase girls, was so focused on his books, graduated with a good grade and at an early age.

After service, had high hopes of getting a decent job, searched, searched and couldn't find any. Even if he found, he found low paying jobs. When he got home frustrated, no one to talk to, no female voice to hear from, the pressures at home is too much, no place to relax or someone to relax with and just tell.him things will be fine.

Now, he's 29, his Finances haven't changed for the better, he's lonely and craves for a feminine touch, he's afraid he may die broke and lonely.

Statistically, he stands a better chance getting a lady than a job, so, he decides to go get a lady to make him happy, even if it's for a while.

Can we truly fault this guy sincerely?

Things are really bad in this country Bros. His Finances may never change and it shouldn't stop him from getting a shot at love, we all deserve someone.

And if he gets that love, without getting a well-paying job, it is a man with a well-paying job that will collect his love.... People should get their priorities right and stop putting the cat before the horse...

Papertrail11:




Can we all cut it with this mentality and stop commercializing relationships it brings out the worst in people over time.

Men and women should create an avenue to get to know each other and build something.

Commercialized relationships are the only honest ones. Romantic relationships more often than not; end in betrayal, disappointment and disaster.

internationalman:
the standard you are setting for yourself is too high.

lower your standard a bit and get a girlfriend after which you can go for a girl of higher standard when your standard is high


i bet yourself won't even recognize your standard if you introduce it

It's because of men like you that's why lot of ladies today don't want to be with a guy that's broke

Just Imagine?

So he should leacs the girl that will accepts him now that he is broke and go after classy ladies when he become financially stable?

What an advise?

MrBrownJay1:


- how can you plan marriage soon when you have nobody in your life? are you gonna marry yourself or what?
- your desperation to settle down is unhealthy and will only lead to heartache
- your job/money problem has absolutely NOTHING to do with the fact that you have no woman in your life


- if you cant attract anyone in your present state then you will equally be unattractive to these same women when you make money

...... they will just use your for your money while not giving a damn about you (as a person)


- there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 29.... some lose it at 12 others later...stop comparing yourself with others. when the right time will come, then you will get jiggy
- if sex is such a big deal for you then go to some olosho joint and be done with it... these women wont be any different than the women you hope to attract in the future when you finally get a job/money.

I see your pontifications here and elsewhere. They strike me as coming from one who has not been through the university of life or who has simply chosen to engage in ostrich evasion or live in cloud cuckoo land.

It is lie that the type or class of women he will attract is the same irrespective of his station in life especially financially.

Life is business. Nothing like love.
You will never succeed in life, career, business or even make money until you understand this principle.

It seems you are very naive, wet behind the ears or downright green.



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contumely2:

I see your pontifications here and elsewhere. They strike me as coming from one who has not been through the university of life or who has simply chosen to engage in ostrich evasion or live in cloud cuckoo land.

It is lie that the type or class of women he will attract is the same irrespective of his station in life especially financially.

Life is business. Nothing like love.
You will never succeed in life, career, business or even make money until you understand this principle.

It seems you are very naive, wet behind the ears or downright green.

you can believe whatever you want about my person (aka i am a 15yr old virgin who dont know women), my opinion remains the same.... if a woman does NOT value you when you are broke/struggling, she has no business being in your life if/when you finally make money.

here is a simple question for you: what would make a woman overlook me when i was broke but suddenly be interested in me when i suddenly am wealthy?!?!?!?!? or better yet, what sane person would value such delusional woman?

contumely2:


I see your pontifications here and elsewhere. They strike me as coming from one who has not been through the university of life or who has simply chosen to engage in ostrich evasion or live in cloud cuckoo land.

It is lie that the type or class of women he will attract is the same irrespective of his station in life especially financially.

Life is business. Nothing like love.
You will never succeed in life, career, business or even make money until you understand this principle.

It seems you are very naive, wet behind the ears or downright green.



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logobenz2
franchasng
pocohantas
amarabae
martinez39
harddon
pansophist
tonyebarcanista

You should have just let him wallow in his ignorance.
Such a dumbass!
Capitalism over love every day.The earlier people know that there isn't any true relationship without money,the better.
Spits!

AwkaetitiBabe:
So na village girl fit support? OK o

Yes!Village girl go sell kerosene for road to make sure say everything dey alright.
Can you do it?not like una city girls even get money sef
Swear say if I nack you for ground,I go see N500k.
Brokie them

Op try as much as possible to start something. Even if the income is low. No woman will want to settle down with a man without something doing.
Even if she marriage you and she has her own job, you wont feel free with her. And the truth is a woman will always misbehave towards you whether you are feeding and clothing her or not .
Now imagine she's feeding and taking care of other expenses, if she misbehave to you now, you will think it's because you are not yet employed.

Logobenz:
Yes!Village girl go sell kerosene for road to make sure say everything dey alright.
Can you do it?not like una city girls even get money sef
Swear say if I nack you for ground,I go see N500k.
Brokie them

Thank you. Instead of selling kerosene by d roadside, ama own a kerosene depot. I may be broke now but who knows what tomorrow hold?

Logobenz:
You should have just let him wallow in his ignorance.
Such a dumbass!
Capitalism over love every day.The earlier people know that there isn't any true relationship without money,the better.
Spits!

Men who think women can love them without money are in for great shock.

Martinez39:
Men who think women can love them without money are in for great shock.

I think they are just naive and see too many movies.
Women don't love men without money anywhere in the world.
You must not be Dangote but atleast be able to take care of basic necessities.
Harsh truth!

Martinez39:
Men who think women can love them without money are in for great shock.

i think you should have said: men who think that money can make women love them, are in for a shock.... these women may be attracted to such man's money, but would certainly NOT give a damn about that man. thinking that you can buy love is your fail of the day. the day that you lose the money that attracted such woman to your life, na the day you will realize that you were single all along and just foolishly paying a woman (who probably hated your guts) to be by your side unwillingly.

btw: as much as many women are attracted to bling bling , it takes a very stoopid fool to settle for the ones that wouldnt give you the time of day if you had no money.

Logobenz:
I think they are just naive and see too many movies.
Women don't love men without money anywhere in the world.
You must not be Dangote but atleast be able to take care of basic necessities.
Harsh truth!

lol, you must either look like king kong or have the WORST character on earth... no wonder men like you need money to attract women by your side.
everybody needs to take care of "their own" basic necessities, thats the principle of LIFE...how can you expect to attract women by your side if you cant even afford to feed/house/clothe yourself?! duh! but when you believe that you need to take care of other people's necessities (become mumu of the day) thats when you are making no sense whatsoever.

Logobenz:
I think they are just naive and see too many movies.
Women don't love men without money anywhere in the world.
You must not be Dangote but atleast be able to take care of basic necessities.
Harsh truth!

The media, movie industry, and romance novels are what brainwashed them. They are still naive.

Logobenz:
Yes!Village girl go sell kerosene for road to make sure say everything dey alright.
Can you do it?not like una city girls even get money sef
Swear say if I nack you for ground,I go see N500k.
Brokie them

Lol!

This shit is funny.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Thank you. Instead of selling kerosene by d roadside, ama own a kerosene depot. I may be broke now but who knows what tomorrow hold?

Na with empty hand them dey use build depot?
Abi you go use your head buy am?
You big so,you never still get sense
Eeewww!!

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

majority of guys born in Nigeria face this situation once in their lifetime, only very few guys who were fortunate to come from rich family backgrounds don't experience this phase in their life.


Right now, you should focus on how to improve your life financially.

Getting a job is not the only way to improve your financial life since job isn't coming, explore your skills, your talent, your natural gifts and what have you. Shun pride and shyness and fold your sleeve and do whatever you can do legally to start earning money at least monthly or daily or weekly.

Once your life is sorted out financially, ladies of all kinda will naturally come around.

I used to be a loner who had no girlfriend though out of personal decision and upbringing, but as I progressed in life, ladies started coming around even without me making any effort to my surprise.

Right now I am happily and excited married to my hearthrob and in fact so many ladies don't want to give up on me, some are still sending me threatening messages for settling down oh, which was why I did a very low key wedding strictly by invite, so you can see how life can change for a man once you sort out your financial life


So don't feel odd, it is normal for most Nigerian guys, that's the situation we found ourselves in, don't despair, focus on making money for now.

You can actually liberate yourself financially through internet freelance jobs, trading, marketing, etc.

Wish you the best.


Cc:
contumely2

MrBrownJay1:


- how can you plan marriage soon when you have nobody in your life? are you gonna marry yourself or what?
- your desperation to settle down is unhealthy and will only lead to heartache
- your job/money problem has absolutely NOTHING to do with the fact that you have no woman in your life
- if you cant attract anyone in your present state then you will equally be unattractive to these same women when you make money...... they will just use your for your money while not giving a damn about you (as a person)
- there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 29.... some lose it at 12 others later...stop comparing yourself with others. when the right time will come, then you will get jiggy
- if sex is such a big deal for you then go to some olosho joint and be done with it... these women wont be any different than the women you hope to attract in the future when you finally get a job/money.

You have a point but not entirely true.

Financial freedom gives a guy confidence, and it is your level of confidence as a man that increases your sex appeal to ladies.

He needs his confidence to attract or win his desired lady or ladies as the case may be.


When we talk about a guy focusing on making money and improving his financial life first before going after ladies, it is not for him to have money to be spending and squandering on ladies no, it is for his own good, to give him enough confidence and self esteem to attract or pursued his desired lady.

The op need to focus on improving his financial life so he can make good use of his little resources and abundant time to create wealth.