Kestolove:
A jobless man should not be bleeping

YorubaKing:
Go brothel (Empire, Jolly friends etc..) go find ashana now... N500 - N1K would do the magic... Thank me later.

niaralandtopuser:
by support you mean unsolicited advice?

lordjojo12:
it depends tho

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Martinez39:
Men who think women can love them without money are in for great shock.

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

CsRockefeller:


Bros let's look at it objectively o.

What if this guy is a need, throughout out his youthful days, he spent his time reading. Got to the University, didn't chase girls, was so focused on his books, graduated with a good grade and at an early age.

After service, had high hopes of getting a decent job, searched, searched and couldn't find any. Even if he found, he found low paying jobs. When he got home frustrated, no one to talk to, no female voice to hear from, the pressures at home is too much, no place to relax or someone to relax with and just tell.him things will be fine.

Now, he's 29, his Finances haven't changed for the better, he's lonely and craves for a feminine touch, he's afraid he may die broke and lonely.

Statistically, he stands a better chance getting a lady than a job, so, he decides to go get a lady to make him happy, even if it's for a while.

Can we truly fault this guy sincerely?

Things are really bad in this country Bros. His Finances may never change and it shouldn't stop him from getting a shot at love, we all deserve someone.

Rukkydelta:


It's because of men like you that's why lot of ladies today don't want to be with a guy that's broke

Just Imagine?

So he should leacs the girl that will accepts him now that he is broke and go after classy ladies when he become financially stable?

What an advise?

contumely2:


I see your pontifications here and elsewhere. They strike me as coming from one who has not been through the university of life or who has simply chosen to engage in ostrich evasion or live in cloud cuckoo land.

It is lie that the type or class of women he will attract is the same irrespective of his station in life especially financially.

Life is business. Nothing like love.
You will never succeed in life, career, business or even make money until you understand this principle.

It seems you are very naive, wet behind the ears or downright green.



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SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

SKYloafFISH:
Op try as much as possible to start something. Even if the income is low. No woman will want to settle down with a man without something doing.
Even if she marriage you and she has her own job, you wont feel free with her. And the truth is a woman will always misbehave towards you whether you are feeding and clothing her or not .
Now imagine she's feeding and taking care of other expenses, if she misbehave to you now, you will think it's because you are not yet employed.

Logobenz:
Na with empty hand them dey use build depot?
Abi you go use your head buy am?
You big so,you never still get sense
Eeewww!!

MrBrownJay1:


you can believe whatever you want about my person (aka i am a 15yr old virgin who dont know women), my opinion remains the same.... if a woman does NOT value you when you are broke/struggling, she has no business being in your life if/when you finally make money.

here is a simple question for you: what would make a woman overlook me when i was broke but suddenly be interested in me when i suddenly am wealthy?!?!?!?!? or better yet, what sane person would value such delusional woman?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Thought its only women who go desperate for companions. The op should put everything to God. He's just 29, I have seen mid 30s men who don't even know their left from their right.

franchasng:
majority of guys born in Nigeria face this situation once in their lifetime, only very few guys who were fortunate to come from rich family backgrounds don't experience this phase in their life.


Right now, you should focus on how to improve your life financially.

Getting a job is not the only way to improve your financial life since job isn't coming, explore your skills, your talent, your natural gifts and what have you. Shun pride and shyness and fold your sleeve and do whatever you can do legally to start earning money at least monthly or daily or weekly.

Once your life is sorted out financially, ladies of all kinda will naturally come around.

I used to be a loner who had no girlfriend though out of personal decision and upbringing, but as I progressed in life, ladies started coming around even without me making any effort to my surprise.

Right now I am happily and excited married to my hearthrob and in fact so many ladies don't want to give up on me, some are still sending me threatening messages for settling down oh, which was why I did a very low key wedding strictly by invite, so you can see how life can change for a man once you sort out your financial life


So don't feel odd, it is normal for most Nigerian guys, that's the situation we found ourselves in, don't despair, focus on making money for now.

You can actually liberate yourself financially through internet freelance jobs, trading, marketing, etc.

Wish you the best.


Cc:
contumely2

eyizlive:
So that's what happened and our dear OP got more than he bargained for. I hope he can sift the wheat from the chaff as the wisemen from the east came with wise words.

As for me, I think you've already fallen into poverty you don't need to fall in love join...
#happynewyear

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