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Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by daragrams(m): 4:22pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Send her back to her parents and let your wife do what is expected her to do at home. Some women self 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by krak101(m): 4:22pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
You did well Sir. Personally I have made up my mind about anything concerning house helps...they must be treated like family. That is to say if I can't afford to Carter for them like my own kids then I can't have them. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Larryslim(m): 4:23pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Your wife is not a good woman! First for treating the girl that way and accusing you of sleeping with her, you should be scared of that woman you call a wife! 19 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by midnighter(f): 4:23pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Please where are you, let me come and make your breakfast, nonsense Chai! From slapping to nagging to this, what is really happening with my sisters this month ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by kokomilala(m): 4:23pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
You didn't overreact.Women,by nature,are emotionally weaker and more often than not are irrational; they act on their whims and caprices or what I'd like to call INSTINCTS. Having said that, you need to be deft in managing the situation. You can go ahead, if you still have the means,and get some stuffs for the girl.It will be bad if she's the odd one out this period.Then, let your wife ,in a subtle ,wily way,realise that the said girl deserves commendation for her trust and industry. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by VirginSearcher(m): 4:24pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
OP! Please take the house help shopping yourself.. your wife is not only wicked but mad 12 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by ekitimanalways(m): 4:24pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
STENON:Precisely! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by StepTwo: 4:24pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357:go to the market, but clothes for your househelp but if you have to do that then pay close attention to your wive's relationship with the househelp afterwards. Believe me bro, that househelp needs more of your attention than your wife does. Her sadness will affect your kids more than that of your wive's, be smart. Wish you luck. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by ikaboy: 4:24pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Seems you are better off in political section 31 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by ibechris(m): 4:25pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
If na me,I will not say anything further. On that Christmas day,I will burn all those clothes she bought for the children and hers...and I will leave them to travel to my village. Next time,no be person go tell am to behave. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by webngnews: 4:25pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Deal with her |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by bezimo(m): 4:25pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: You married an evil selfish bitch....If you check the narrative of househelps been maltreated.. you will see women the perpetrator in almost all cases..The average 9ja woman's has a desperate wicked heart towards househelp.. it's terrible and sad. If you are a woman...never be such evil person...treat your house help very well..in doing so..they are most likely to multiply that kindness towards your kids and much more..you are sowing a seed that your children will harvest tommorow. Ensure by letting her go to same school with your kids,eat same food, wear same quality of clothes and shoes as your kids, travel with your family to the same vacation, enjoy same everything.This is how to be a good woman in all ramifications before God and man Well..you are the man of the house you decide what obtains in that house and I fear your wife is maltreating your house help without you knowing and now blackmailing you for reacting to her wickedness. You need to be firm in that house don't allow your yeye wife decide or give you B.S in that house..so give her ultimatum to buy the things for your househelp or else give her shit..you know why you should react its because God will judge you as complicit to her wickedness if you did see wickedness under your roof and you did not react to stop it. I am so angry with this situation on your behalf..God knows I hate oppression with so much passion, if my future wify behave like this to domestic servants in my house if and when we choose to have such people in my house.The way I will react ehn to her..she will see another side of me that she will regret ever provoking. Nonsense women. You did not overreact..i think you underreacted sef to her B.S..imagine refusing to buy things for your househelp as instructed, falsely accusing you and now refusing to make food for you..like is she mad sef..in my own house again..on top my own money again..You didn't react eneough to her B.S you should give her shit.. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by pocohantas(f): 4:25pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Pay attention to how your partner treats people below them. People they feel they owe nothing. Someday it might be you in that position... Your wife is wicked. EOD -You didn't overreact. -Allow her cry very well. -Please, a child shouldn't be a maid. Get an adult than can match you both in strength and wickedness ![]() 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Kingzeez10: 4:25pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
theButterfly:You dey mind this old fool 5 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by boxer022(m): 4:26pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Sorry to say this but your wife is very wicked and I like the way you called her to action. What does she mean by "the house help doesn't need clothes, because you feed her and train her in school ". This is the type of woman that will take your children and the maid out, buy things for your children and nothing for her. She has forgotten that she is maltreating another man's child and should not complain when her's is also maltreated. What you have to do now is instruct her to buy the clothes for her failing which you will buy them yourself. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Dpharisee: 4:26pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Since your wife has started blackmailing you, send the girl back to her parents and pay her school fees through her parents if you can afford it. Let her do all the work, dont bother replacing her except with a nanny who will come to the house to work and go back home whenever she is needed. Your wife is a wicked woman, you have to make plan B for yourself and your kids as this is a sign that if you run into any hard time she will not pity you if the table turns ![]() 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by mangojuice(m): 4:26pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Counsel her and if no change divorce her immediately coz She is not a good wife. My humble opinion sir. 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Talkingoil(m): 4:26pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: Women and emotional blackmail. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by lekan3531(m): 4:26pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: OLoriburku somebody you be.... You are talking as if you dont av sense in short u dont have sense. Why are you giving such advice.....My guy u no get Joy at all 18 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by chigoizie7(m): 4:26pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Your wife is wicked |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by cooooooks(m): 4:26pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
How many househelps in Nigeria are over 18?? Also, such an adult househelp is a fully grown woman and most wives will suspect them. Graxie: 4 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Nobody: 4:26pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
The woman may not be a bad woman but she surely is selfish 6 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Baztardmods: 4:27pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Your wife is an example of selfish, greedy, wicked, sadist and foolish woman.. let her know that no one can predict tomorrow.. the girl could grow to be a responsible person in future.. I hate your wife.. tufia! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Kiezodumah(m): 4:27pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: No sense in the nonsense u spewed.. 13 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Happyguy201: 4:27pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Your wife is a self centered ungrateful witch . Ordinary clothe she's behaving this way crazy and wicked woman. Just send the girl back let her do the chores her self no be person go tell am . Wonder why some people are so heartless . 3 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by phkka1(m): 4:27pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Your wife is very wicked and unnecessarily jealous over nothing. She doesn't have value for this girl that is helping her to raise her own children. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by frozen70(f): 4:27pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: Women and their manipulating nature Let her cry well well You have done nothing wrong and she made you to say what you said Tell her if she doesn't take those children to market to get their dresses, you will treat her in a manner that will correct her senses and be strick about it She is being selfish and nothing else It's either she brakes or she bends Make your stand and don't shift your ground If she doesn't cook for you, get the meals prepared yourself if you can or eat out Am a woman but I don't like women holding men to ransom even when the man is the one spending the money 11 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Trimque2k1(m): 4:28pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:Indeed humans are mostly used to evil 6 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Talkingoil(m): 4:28pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Graxie: You're doing more harm than good |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Graxie(f): 4:29pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
cooooooks:For information Mr dirty, people pay adult house help to come to their house and leave after each day job. Stop using minor. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by cooooooks(m): 4:29pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
It is the man and his children that will suffer in the end. A woman who has had a househelp cannot live without one. I know from experience. daragrams: 4 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by ogawisdom(m): 4:29pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: U have put this poor girl in a massive trouble Ur wife will maltreat her badly now She may not even eat again why u are fighting for cloth for her ![]() Send the poor girl home as soon as possible 2 Likes |
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