@Beync, I couldn't remember where I made mention of being a Christian , though this does not mean to denying be one either, but as far as I am concerned been responsible does not mean Christianity , so religion apart. Well morality , yes , that I have had a thought about , thus it compounded the reason why I am seeking 4 an advice b/4 taking action .

Why the shock, did u jam high tention wire

@op,
alright, make urself happy afterall!!

@Beync, once more , thanks a gr8 deal 4 ur candid contribution .

@OP Why don't you always put yourself in other ppl shoes. Imagine if your dad had brought you up that same way. How would you have felt about that? Don't demand for any advice again. Just go do it your way. A word is enuf 4 d wise.

@belamour, my broda na fight , lol . Well thanks , ime la .

Cultured:

@belamour, my broda na fight , lol . Well thanks , ime la .

Fight Ke Me no fit cause i no learn kung fu. Am already feeling the pains of your unborn baby who wont have a fully devoted parental care,

A child is not just for xmas or something to achieve before you are thirty, A child or baby is hard work, where will you be when the child is sick, or is crying out for you and your of some where else. You say you don't have time to commit to a wife what makes a child any different, To have a child you need to be 100% committed,

@xxcarolxx, thanks a gr8 deal , your advice is well noted & appreciated .

Dude, the world does not revolve around you. Human beings are not puppies or kittens that one buys and owns. Hell, even puppies and kittens should not be emotionally neglected by their owners, talk less of children.

Your best bet is to buy a pet turtle, lizard, or perhaps goat. Those animals to my knowledge will not mind being emotionally neglected.

Trying to do the same thing to a human being is ABUSE. Wait until you can devote your full time to a child before having one, otherwise you are violating their rights and abandoning the RESPONSIBILITY that you owe your kid.

I do not know if something is wrong with your head, you need to see a doctor and have your head checked. You shouldn't have to ask on an internet forum why what you are thinking about is wrong. I could excuse this if you were a 6 or 7 year old little kid who didn't know any better, but you are grown-@ss man. WTF is wrong with you? F.cking narcisstic ba.stard.

So you want a child and want someone else to raise it til your ready Unbelievable!!! Some peoples selfishness amazes me!! So why do you want a child? What is the point? Its not a toy its a life commitment. Grow up then think about it!!!

Talk to Cristiano Ronaldo. He can advise you on how he bought a baby.

DapoBear:

Dude, the world does not revolve around you. Human beings are not puppies or kittens that one buys and owns. Hell, even puppies and kittens should not be emotionally neglected by their owners, talk less of children.

Your best bet is to buy a pet turtle, lizard, or perhaps goat. Those animals to my knowledge will not mind being emotionally neglected.

Trying to do the same thing to a human being is ABUSE. Wait until you can devote your full time to a child before having one, otherwise you are violating their rights and abandoning the RESPONSIBILITY that you owe your kid.

I do not know if something is wrong with your head, you need to see a doctor and have your head checked. You shouldn't have to ask on an internet forum why what you are thinking about is wrong. I could excuse this if you were a 6 or 7 year old little kid who didn't know any better, but you are grown-@ss man. WTF is wrong with you? F.cking narcisstic ba.stard.

Love this comment!!!!

Children need emotional love and support more than anything else. They dont grow properly and their brains dont grow without love and affection. All you are saying poster is YOUR needs and wants. I have read through everything and cant find one comment of yours that says anything of the benifit to the child. Just wait for goodness sake before you destroy a life then dump it cos its not what you wanted or expected. Buy a puppy, see how you go with that. If it dies then you know to wait.

@DapoBear, I need no one to tell me that you are a pauper and worse of all a psychiatric patient , so no need to engage u in verbal war , we are not in the same category hope u got it right !  

@Tink_sh , same statement above is 4 u too , both of u seems mate in the pauper & psychiatric union , sorry , take your medication serious , though I know u can not get completely healed from these 2 among other numerous deceases u too are suffering from .

Mr Cultured, i am a mother so i am more than qualified to know what it takes to raise a child right. I also work in the area of children so i also know what damage silly, selfish parents have on a child for life. Some damage can not be fixed and will continue into their adulthood so you need to be very careful here. A child needs a hell of a lot more than finances to grow into a happy, healthy, secure child into adulthood. More than you understand. Any fool can have a child. I asked you simple questions and you respond with attack. You are in no way ready to be a father if you are silly when someone disagrees with you.

@ Tink_sh , it is not in my nature to insult people , but then I like it paying someone in his/her own coin . U were the 1 that made this comment " So you want a child and want someone else to raise it til your ready Unbelievable!!! Some peoples selfishness amazes me!! So why do you want a child? What is the point? Its not a toy its a life commitment. Grow up then think about it!!!" . According to u my seeking advice makes me selfish  , one that amazes u allot too . Well u can see I have reason 4 my outburst toward u , but for the sole reason that u are a mother as u have claimed , I therefore retract the abusive words I used against u, sorry ooooooooo .

But permit me to ask , have u heard about contract marriage before ? If u answer in the affirmative , tell me how does it work ?

cultured, i know what i said and you didnt answer the question. Why you want to do this to a child? It doesnt sound like you want advice. It sounds like you made up your mind and you want people to agree with you. What i said was valid. It is selfish cos your only thinking of yourself and your needs and wants and not the needs of a child. There is enough children in this world without love. There is enough damaged children in this world through adults sillyness. Why add another one unless your prepared to do whatever it takes for that child.

No i havent heard of contract marriage. But i have seen the damage made on a child when it has been born into a loveless relationship or born to save a relationship, or born out of the selfish needs of the parent without proper education on raising a child by the parents, etc.

@ Tink_sh, I contest some of the comments to get the best of advice , so it is not as if I have made up my mind to execute my thought , I do believe much in dialogue when in search 4 a solution to a need .

Cultured.

I have noticed from the different responses got here that anyone who doesn't key into your devilish plan gets insulted.

I'd advice you take the good advice offered you by good NL citizens instead of what you cooked up in your mind.