author=eni4real If the husband-to-be find out and decide to dump the lady on the wedding day.. All these ladies bashing the Op will change their gears.. They will blame another man, the husband to be, why did he have to do that?? Why did he have to disgrace her?? Is he a virgin himself?? He should know that she can commit suicide now!! Bla bla.. Don't mind them, they will never face the truth!!! How they are bashing a guy that is not committed to any responsible union baffle me..

A lady that was asked out, proposed to, had introduction and is geting ready for marriage, has the gut to have sex with a side guy? What a waste of bride price!!!

All these NL girls can do the same.. They really treat dat as a small stuff.. dat is the reason why they focus on bashin the op and his future!!
I don't know what strike the 21st century Nigerian ladies sef! Wost immoral metalities ever!!!
sir when i was younger, i wonder why responsible men settle for women who are less beautiful and attrative

Alfather:
There is a motion i want to correct in this trend. U all are bashing the op for sleeping with the girl, i do not concur to that. I read the post twice to be sure of the words am seeing. Mr op invited the girl over not knowing she is getting marraid soon. The girl in questioning who knows she is a bride ought to keep her priority. The op having two girl friends is not a crime even though he slept with the girl. The reason is this, a man by virtue is entitled to marry as many wives as he want. But for a woman jumping from men to men is a taboo by norms, and a shame to her husband if she is marraid.

but she's not married so what exactly are you talking about?

fcdgrand:
a virgin! any time! any day!, i also have my own bad character

me too

lilmax:
but she's not married so what exactly are you talking about?

do u remember the story of mary and joseph in d scripture, when joseph found out she was pregnant were they marriad? Joseph would have put her away If not for the holy spirit who convicted him. What if the girl in questioning got pregnant in the act. No wonder men are raising children who are not theirs these days. DNA for all my kids, its a must. Satan is a woman

Livecamp09:


Na dem. Audio liar.. Most ladies have cheated on their partners one way or the other

Thank God you said "audio liar". Itiboribo

Why u guys dey always bring jesus up in a conversation like this. I've u forgotten this is romance thread?

Sabby1:


Women aren't thieves.... you are. You can't allow any woman do this to you in the future, but you can do that to someone's wife to be.

You were having sex with another lady and are now suspicious of your girlfriend, who probably might be innocent

All you need is JESUS....

Livecamp09:


But oloshos?

Not at all
We are just girls

Alfather:
do u remember the story of mary and joseph in d scripture, when joseph found out she was pregnant were they marriad? Joseph would have put her away If not for the holy spirit who convicted him. What if the girl in questioning got pregnant in the act. No wonder men are raising children who are not theirs these days. DNA for all my kids, its a must. Satan is a woman

in the same Bible we were told not to fornicate, which the guy did


No come here dey quote Bible for me


If he wasn't cheating, would have been a different thing

MannieA:




I really don't understand Nigerian men and their crave for virgins when they aren't virgins either.
Like y'all should grow up!

and start marrying retired and gratuity earning prostitutes na lol... you can recommend them to ur brothers.

thanks but no thanks
this is ridiculous

culf:



lol, nobody is above mistake my dear....unfortunately they are the once that usually end up with good, faithful wives.

Hmmmm...okay
But he doesn't have any right to castigate women when he isn't any better.

MedicH:


and start marrying retired and gratuity earning prostitutes na lol... you can recommend them to ur brothers.

thanks but no thanks
this is ridiculous

Oh shut it please!
Are you tryna say all non-virgins are prostitutes?
How do some of you even think?
Marrying a virgin doesn't necessarily mean you are marrying a good woman. Think about it

Livecamp09:


U can never have the knowledge cos u ain't created to know.. Stop being a feminist.. All you bitches/hoes ain't loyal

Shut up oga!



Are you loyal?
Stupid folks be expecting loyalty when they aren't loyal..spits

fcdgrand:
not a "wack mentality" as you called it, it is a pride for every real man to marry a virgin, the feeling is special "NOBODY HAVE BANG MY WIFE BEFORE" feeling, note; plan B, searc hing 18 to 22 yrs virgin to marry next year 2020, incase she fail in year 2021

Good luck looking for a virgin then!
I just want to know how old you are..lmaoo

MannieA:



Oh shut it please!
Are you tryna say all non-virgins are prostitutes?
How do some of you even think?
Marrying a virgin doesn't necessarily mean you are marrying a good woman. Think about it

Bitterness.

Pls it's xmas.

MedicH:


Bitterness.

Pls it's xmas.

I'm not bitter tho
Merry Christmas anyways

lilmax:
in the same Bible we were told not to fornicate, which the guy did


No come here dey quote Bible for me


If he wasn't cheating, would have been a different thing

we know the guy was not in the good side, offence we come, but woe unto him by which the offence come. Tackling the young man case is like cut the brance while the root is still there intact. Root out the woman and set the two men free.

Paige001:
so you had a girlfriend and you still had the mind to invite another girl over, i feel sorry for your ex, she should have dumped your sorry ass first

Lolzzzzz

He didn't tie a rope on the girl

you were not supposed to Bleep her after she told you

Some girls have less brains, she wanted a liberty of support or scolding for her behaviour

But konji no make you discipline yourself

It would have been better you visited a brothel to relieve
You were not like Joseph

MannieA:


Why do you males always like acting like y'all don't have bad characters?Most of y'all have really disgusting attitudes.
And hey, I'm not a feminist coz I know that's the next thing you will say. I'm just tryna speak my mind

Babie Gurl. Compliment of the season.

MannieA:




Good luck looking for a virgin then!
I just want to know how old you are..lmaoo

why are you obessed about my age?, if i may even ask, you too how old are you?

bodaola:
Last week. I invited a girl to my house and one thing one thing we started smooching... When the smooching is going on. She said, i Dont want to do this. I said why, she said... My wedding is 28 of December.

In shock i was like, so you will soon be a married woman. She said yes. Even should me I.V on her phone. I was wowed.
Then i tend removing my mind off this. Not until she said she's already Hot that she needs my dick now... She pounce on it and we ride on. While we were fuvking, her Fiance called and she instructed me to keep quiet. Then i did.
During the Convo, the guy asked her where is she. She then replied she's at aunty Hannah's place. She came to bargain about the wedding planner shit. Then the guy said OK and dropped the call.
We continue fuvking, but my mind was off it. At that time, i began to feel heartbreak. I felt the pain. I began to think my girlfriend is fuvking another guy apparently. Mehn! As we are talking now! I just broke up with my girlfriend. I can't allow any woman do this to me in future.

See, i Dont think I will get married. I sorry mum, I will do baby mama thing. No! Women are thieves!

Wise decision ese. Tbh I'm getting tired of this section and the way men complain. Looks like I will switch over to family or education section.

You knew she was going to get married and you still pounced that pussy. That's low bro. No self respect whatsoever.

bodaola:


Swear to the God you serve that you have never cheated on your boyfriend or spouse. Lie and Die

Ese this is not about the person you quoted rather about you. You don't like to be cheated on so don't cheat. If you can't keep a relationship you can't keep a marriage. And thank God you decided to be single.

A certain moniker just goes about quoting people on this thread. She doesn't even know whether the people she's quoting and antagonizing are much, much older than her.

But it's nairaland and it's a faceless forum

RisenPhoenix:


I am married already and all my kids look like me so I am ok thus far. If she cheats it's no skin off my nose, I'll just get a replacement. And she can't do it without my knowledge; my hobby is people watching. I will immediately detect the subtle changes that women seem unable to hide when they cheat; and bid her farewell.

Hahahahaha... all your kids look like you.. that part made me laff like mad... lol... she might be smarter than you think.. busy drilling some other nigga while they laff at the people watching husband... and comes back home to say how much she loves you so you won't notice a thing... don't worry.. as long as you don't know it won't hurt ya... ha ha ha... Karma is bitch.. ho ho ho.. Merry xmas

H2Ossss:


Hahahahaha... all your kids look like you.. that part made me laff like mad... lol... she might be smarter than you think.. busy drilling some other nigga while they laff at the people watching husband... and comes back home to say how much she loves you so you won't notice a thing... don't worry.. as long as you don't know it won't hurt ya... ha ha ha... Karma is bitch.. ho ho ho.. Merry xmas

Apparently smart enough to make the kids look like me. My concern is that I don't raise kids that are not mine, that's all. And you don't seem very well versed in relationships so I guess explaining the subtle changes that would enable you to know if your partner is cheating on you, especially after some time together; wouldn't really make any sense to you.

Anyway, if it happens, it wouldn't hurt me any more than any breach of contract would. We just seperate amicably and both move on.

RisenPhoenix:


Apparently smart enough to make the kids look like me. My concern is that I don't raise kids that are not mine, that's all. And you don't seem very well versed in relationships so I guess explaining the subtle changes that would enable you to know if your partner is cheating on you, especially after some time together; wouldn't really make any sense to you.

Anyway, if it happens, it wouldn't hurt me any more than any breach of contract would. We just seperate amicably and both move on.

Young man.... Merry Christmas... just remember there's Karma... might not be u.. Might be ur kids.. who knows if ur sons wife to be might..... or even daughter.... anyway... Don't wanna spoil ur xmas meal .. Off to grove my xmas till dawn... no more response from moi... Remember young man... KARMA!!!!!!

H2Ossss:


Young man.... Merry Christmas... just remember there's Karma... might not be u.. Might be ur kids.. who knows if ur sons wife to be might..... or even daughter.... anyway... Don't wanna spoil ur xmas meal .. Off to grove my xmas till dawn... no more response from moi... Remember young man... KARMA!!!!!!

Lol. A foolish old woman superstition behind which helpless men take solace. A real man doesn't wait for some vague undefined karma to do his work for him.

I wonder why you give off a vibe of being pained though, did you find out that you were cuckolded a week to your wedding? If you were, believe me, it is not an event I am proud of, but what's done is done; we can only learn from the past, not change it.

broke guys dont marry,but they are full of excuse and lies

MannieA:


Shut up oga!



Are you loyal?
Stupid folks be expecting loyalty when they aren't loyal..spits

I don't argue with mannerless olosho who has nothing to offer except sex

Hisduchess:


Thank God you said "audio liar". Itiboribo

Olosho

bodaola:
Last week. I invited a girl to my house and one thing one thing we started smooching... When the smooching is going on. She said, i Dont want to do this. I said why, she said... My wedding is 28 of December.

In shock i was like, so you will soon be a married woman. She said yes. Even should me I.V on her phone. I was wowed.
Then i tend removing my mind off this. Not until she said she's already Hot that she needs my dick now... She pounce on it and we ride on. While we were fuvking, her Fiance called and she instructed me to keep quiet. Then i did.
During the Convo, the guy asked her where is she. She then replied she's at aunty Hannah's place. She came to bargain about the wedding planner shit. Then the guy said OK and dropped the call.
We continue fuvking, but my mind was off it. At that time, i began to feel heartbreak. I felt the pain. I began to think my girlfriend is fuvking another guy apparently. Mehn! As we are talking now! I just broke up with my girlfriend. I can't allow any woman do this to me in future.

See, i Dont think I will get married. I sorry mum, I will do baby mama thing. No! Women are thieves!

Lol, you knew she was getting married and you still slept with her.if she's a thief then what are you? Am accomplist, you are the bigger thief. You just scared someone will one day sleep with your woman Like you just did.karma

RisenPhoenix:


I can relate. Happened to me twice. One of the ladies even spent the very weekend before her wedding with me, and actually offered to come back again the following wednesday after work had I not disagreed; thinking of the poor ignorant cuckold. Funny thing is, she said she loved me but would never consider marrying me because I was not religious enough like he was. Lucky me I guess, otherwise, I might have been the one cheated on by my very religious wife to be.

I think thy do it atimes to get relief as to b able to withstand pressure 4rm d Oda pesin