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Will There Be A Marriage Despite Our Love:please Advise! by Beke2020: 11:29am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Good day mama, Please advice me. I am in a relationship for almost one year. Initially,he did not tell me but later on,like 4 months later,he told me he is a divorcee with a kid. I was shocked and that made me leave him. Its been five years after his divorce but I was not happy he did not tell me at first. But later on,we began dating and he really makes me happy. I have met his kid,a very smart boy. The ex wife has moved on and is engaged to someone else,I think. My issue now is,even though I have been dating this guy,its been a year and he has nit said anything about marriage to me. I know he says he loves being around me and loves spending time with me,would love to spend the rest of his life with me but he has not really asked me to marry him. I feel somehow but I want to ask him what his plans for marriage. In fact,I already asked him and he said he will definitely get married again but he is not sure. His answer is: it can be this year or next five years. That he wants to be 100% .... https://livelystones.com.ng/will-there-be-a-marriage-despite-our-loveplease-advise/
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Re: Will There Be A Marriage Despite Our Love:please Advise! by donbachi(m): 11:36am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Him don already get male child from previous marriage...he is not bordered...just endure,he will still marry u. |
Re: Will There Be A Marriage Despite Our Love:please Advise! by frozen70(f): 3:43pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
I think he kept the secret of his previous marriage to you because he wanted to be sure of who you are to him He will definitely get married but wants to be sure 100% because of what he suffered or experienced in his last marriage If you truly loves him and be ready to be his wife Accept and showove to his child Respect and appreciate him for who he is to you If you are very sure he loves you and doesn't have any other girl friend, win his heart with an attitude that he is not ready to leave you for another man But if you are very sure he is using you to while away time Tell him that you want to look for a man to settle down with, since he is not yet ready Why I said this is because there is no time It's better to get married and spend the time with a man than spending time with a man that doesn't have your plan's |
Re: Will There Be A Marriage Despite Our Love:please Advise! by Hidohwuh: 5:23pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
I think he is still having doubt about something or still trying to get some things before proposing to you. Babe, you have to endure,study him too. It is very important. When you know him better, then u know where to come in to help. N:B my opinion |
Re: Will There Be A Marriage Despite Our Love:please Advise! by samson07(m): 11:57pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
tell him you need to settle down, if he is not ready let him give you reason, after hearing his reason u have to sit down and think. do u want to be studying him? is the man a book? there are men out there looking for marriage stop wasting your time with some that does not know when he can settle down with. 1year is enough to date. |
Re: Will There Be A Marriage Despite Our Love:please Advise! by mechanics(m): 1:36am On Jan 03, 2020 |
It's wrong to marry a divorcee, you have a look for another man. |
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