TobyeCole:






God bless you sir. I thought taking care of the kid ( feeding 4 to 5 times daily), nothing to stress the kid was me handling her good treatment. After years her skin began to glow so much that different people who come across us want to take her, some even to overseas. And where even preparing her. Mind towards this before her rebellious character from no where made her too difficult to continue with her development.





Seeing that she glitters, albeit to a good extent character wise and her flawless skin produced pride, arrogance, uncontrollable attitude and outright rudeness and disregard for people. Seeing how overbearing it had become I asked the father to come take his kid since he wasn't tmat the lowest he was 10 years back and since the dad is not unemployed as before so wy does this woman obsess herself with this girl. I hope you can see why now



There are millions os Street kids like her she can bring into her home and train like her children if she was half as good as she projected herself. Why must it be this one...


I leave the case to God to judge. I told my neighbors they are all mad and are waiting for her

Evil people can do evil, you have played the role God wanted you to play, and I am 101% sure he will bless you beyond your comprehension, however, if she decides to destroy her life, thats a problem, you have played your part, God bless you and your family.

DavidEsq:

Guy ur story for make sense pass so, if only ur English correct. I don bite my tongue because of this your English, no be say I dey follow u speak am sef. Abeg no vex o, ur English teacher die ni?
wetin be "she spinned the identity to cover up identities"? Chineke nna.

He is obviously upset.

Please employ me!

mofedamijo:


Evil people can do evil, you have played the role God wanted you to play, and I am 101% sure he will bless you beyond your comprehension, however, if she decides to destroy her life, thats a problem, you have played your part, God bless you and your family.

Amen Sir

Thank You Sir. I'm consoled. Thanks for your kind words

Catchfirez:


You are arrogant and stupid. You really act like psycho trully. Must you display your foolisnesd here.

How can I say dis thing on my mind now? Is someone kpanshing the girl in that house, but has lost the chance to continue kpanshing because she has someone else's (an area boy's) attention? The emphasis on the girl's glowing skin is becoming too much to pass unnoticed sha

DavidEsq:

How can I say dis thing on my mind now? Is someone kpanshing the girl in that house, but has lost the chance to continue kpanshing because she has someone else's (an area boy's) attention? The emphasis on the girl's glowing skin is becoming too much to pass unnoticed sha

She's a virgin. I'm a minister. I raised her up as a token of my heart and contribution to this world



To avoid issues as such was why immediately. I picked her from the street handed her over to my. Mum. While I only provide mentorship alone.

DavidEsq:

How can I say dis thing on my mind now? Is someone kpanshing the girl in that house, but has lost the chance to continue kpanshing because she has someone else's (an area boy's) attention? The emphasis on the girl's glowing skin is becoming too much to pass unnoticed sha

He doesn’t even know how weird he sounds.

Graxie:
Is the girl your wife?

Aha! Finally person don talk am. Only I think the girl is less than a wife to him. Deep-seated resentment that goes beyond responding to someone's stubbornness, but seems more like loss of kpanshing opportunity, smells here.

Zooposki:


Maybe she is a career woman. I don’t blame her though. Women are often left with the short end of the stick, after staying at home to take care of the children, to the detriment of their financial status. Meanwhile the husband often ends up leaving them for a younger model, after he has become financially stable due to no distractions from the home front. Wise women are now serious about their careers though and want independent financial stability and are no longer housewives. The raising of children should be a joint effort between husbands and wives.

Well so what's the need for marriage then. Let's just have kids then run a joint account dedicated to the kid so that the nanny can get paid.

DavidEsq:

Aha! Finally person don talk am. Only I think the girl is less than a wife to him. Deep-seated resentment that goes beyond responding to someone's stubbornness, but seems more like loss of kpanshing opportunity, smells here.

The said girl is a virgin. And I only chose to pick her from where she was thrown without shelter from the goodness of my heart.


I remain a. Missionary and don't do. Premarital sex Sir.

TobyeCole:



She's a virgin. I'm a minister. I raised her up as a token of my heart and contribution to this world



To avoid issues as such was why immediately. I picked her from the street handed her over to my. Mum. While I only provide mentorship alone.

Minister wey dey spread gossip. Story jus entered NL, minister don spread gospel for all the neighbors. Shey na minister of public information u be, ni? U say she is a virgin? Oshey awon virginometer

DavidEsq:

Minister wey dey spread gossip. Story jus entered NL, minister don spread gospel for all the neighbors. Shey na minister of public information u be, ni?

It is funny how its my wrongs you're seeing all. Over the place. Spreading gossip. Do you know how it feels to be back stabbed. I only. Communicated what I read here since my family's image was falsely depicted. Am I wrong for bringing the best persons in complicated issues that best known the truth of a matter to the truth of an issue?



Judge me in the spirit of truth. Or don't judge issues when you aren't privy to detailed information.

TobyeCole:



The said girl is a virgin. And I only chose to pick her from where she was thrown without shelter from the goodness of my heart.


I remain a. Missionary and don't do. Premarital sex Sir.

Abia. This is now funny, how do you know she is a virgin?

TobyeCole:




It is funny how its my wrongs you're seeing all. Over the place. Spreading gossip. Do you know how it feels to be back stabbed. I only. Communicated what I read here since my family's image was falsely depicted. Am I wrong for bringing the best persons in complicated issues that best known the truth of a matter to the truth of an issue?



Judge me in the spirit of truth. Or don't judge issues when you aren't privy to detailed information.

As a minister, have u come across Proverbs 19:11? This what it says: "The insight of a man certainly slows down his anger,And it is beauty on his part to overlook an offense". Do u think that there is a need to handle this issue from a scripture-based approach? U have been hollering all over the place in a rabid manner, throwing scriptural caution to the wind. The scriptures disagree with u on this and oh, pls don't whip out that "I'm not perfect" immunity clause cos none of the persons concerned here are also perfect.

Graxie:
Abia. This is now funny, how do you know she is a virgin?

Because I took her in since she was little and she has been under the shelter of our home for the past 8/10years

Graxie:
Abia. This is now funny, how do you know she is a virgin?

Yauwa! my sis pls coman drink cold zobo and add some buns to it

DavidEsq:

As a minister, have u come across Proverbs 19:11? This what it says: "The insight of a man certainly slows down his anger,And it is beauty on his part to overlook an offense". Do u think that there is a need to handle this issue from a scripture-based approach? U have been hollering all over the place in a rabid manner, throwing scriptural caution to the wind. The scriptures disagree with u on this and oh, pls don't whip out that "I'm not perfect" immunity clause cos none of the persons concerned here are also perfect.

But why are you seeing me as the bad party over and over when I've done nothing wrong. Why are you insistent on trying to tag me and my family as bad people by your hearsay, common one sided story?

TobyeCole:




Because I took her in since she was little and she has been under the shelter of our home for the past 8/10years

Mmawu, does that determine virginity. Please like I stated, the woman story is different from yours or there is more to your story.

TobyeCole:




Because I took her in since she was little and she has been under the shelter of our home for the past 8/10years

Yet, Alaye earlier stated that the essence of pushing for a return to her roots is to avoid untimely pregnancy, which would imply that the possibilities of her having sex with area boys (wey baba done dey envy) is high. How does this reconcile with the certainty that she is a virgin? This cross-examination don dey make sense o

Graxie:
Mmawu, does that determine virginity. Please like I stated, the woman story is different from yours or there is more to your story.

LMAO @ mmawu. There is more anty

Graxie:
Mmawu, does that determine virginity. Please like I stated, the woman story is different from yours or there is more to your story.

If you pick a child up at 8 years old. And lives with you till she turns let's say 15 and has remain under your custody for such a period during her formative years, would it be wrong to classify her as a virgin girl given her entire activities could be accounted for the entire years?


Mind you before this this family has nurtured and released about 5.girls like her who all left too as pure girls.

DavidEsq:

Yet, Alaye earlier stated that the essence of pushing for a return to her roots is to avoid untimely pregnancy, which would imply that the possibilities of her having sex with area boys (wey baba done dey envy) is high. How does this reconcile with the certainty that she is a virgin? This cross-examination don dey make sense o

She had become rebellious and unruly beyond control. And God being my witness won't permit me to repair lives just to destroy them.


How come do you have accusations of me when you don't know me nor permit me hearing with objectivity?



The girl had a brother who doesn't walk but crawls on his chest my family took in along with her. Why didn't you ask the OP why she doesn't want such too along with the girl she's lying over?

TobyeCole:





But why are you seeing me as the bad party over and over when I've done nothing wrong. Why are you insistent on trying to tag me and my family as bad people by your hearsay, common one sided story?

If you do not see yourself as wrong here, in light of the scriptures, then u need to take off that Episcopal robe and assume the idiosyncrasies of an agbero

TobyeCole:




She had become rebellious and unruly beyond control. And God being my witness won't permit me to repair lives just to destroy them.


How come do you have accusations of me when you don't know me nor permit me hearing with objectivity?

Innuendos are not accusations

DavidEsq:

If you do not see yourself as wrong here, in light of the scriptures, then u need to take off that Episcopal robe and assume the idiosyncrasies of an agbero

God is my defense. I stand boldly before my father with no sense of guilt. And if I can stand before God unashamed, I don't see how a human would judge me by any standard of any wrong doing when my hands and garments are pure.


You just reminded me. I'll take this matter to my father



I'm done. Thank you for branding me as an evil person when you have nothing on me that qualifies me as such

TobyeCole:



If you pick a child up at 8 years old. And lives with you till she turns let's say 15 and has remain under your custody for such a period during her formative years, would it be wrong to classify her as a virgin girl given her entire activities could be accounted for the entire years?


Mind you before this this family has nurtured and released about 5.girls like her who all left too as pure girls.

why are you particular about picking girls to raise them under your mom? How come she have become rebellious since you guys nurtured her from 8years? How can a mother of 8years drive her child from the home?

TobyeCole:



If you pick a child up at 8 years old. And lives with you till she turns let's say 15 and has remain under your custody for such a period during her formative years, would it be wrong to classify her as a virgin girl given her entire activities could be accounted for the entire years?


Mind you before this this family has nurtured and released about 5.girls like her who all left too as pure girls.

U said she has been with u for 10 years. Why are u removing 3 years from her age. If u took her in at 8 and she has stayed for 10 years, then she is 18 not 15 and the fact that u are using format to reduce her age so we would think she is 15, raises the hair at the back of my neck

Graxie:
why are particular about picking girls to raise them under your mom? How come she have become rebellious since you guys nurtured her from 8years? How can a mother of 8years drive her child from the home?

You've been all over me as a. Criminal trying me over and over like you have an already made-up mind. Have you not noticed this thread has over 20000 views and only few persons commented because they saw the glaring hypocrisy.


If you can't discern hypocrisy from truth, then you won't be able to judge/get the truths from humans.


Always look at motives, to discern the truth in issues. Read darlenese comment on the first page. There lies a woman with wisdom that discerned accurately what the entire event is about

Graxie:
why are particular about picking girls to raise them under your mom? How come she have become rebellious since you guys nurtured her from 8years? How can a mother of 8years drive her child from the home?

U strong pass me. Oya carry on with the cross-examination

DavidEsq:

U said she has been with u for 10 years. Why are u removing 3 years from her age. If u took her in at 8 and she has stayed for 10 years, then she is 18 not 15 and the fact that u are using format to reduce her age so we would think she is 15, raises the hair at the back of my neck

My brother. Don't force it. You've made your point that I'm guilty by whatever standards you have. I told you I was done interacting with you. I've taken my complains to the throne of God

TobyeCole:


God is my defense. I stand boldly before my father with no sense of guilt. And if I can stand before God unashamed, I don't see how a human would judge me by any standard of any wrong doing when my hands and garments are pure.


You just reminded me. I'll take this matter to my father



I'm done. Thank you for branding me as an evil person when you have nothing on me that qualifies me as such

After washing ur dirty boxers, sorry, linen is public, u now remember ur "father". Chai o!

TobyeCole:




My brother. Don't force it. You've made your point that I'm guilty by whatever standards you have. I told you I was done interacting with you. I've taken my complains to the throne of God

Too bad the throne of Nairaland took priority over the one u are now taking it to. U see why the scriptures should always be ur looking Glass? How u handled this matter speaks volumes of how u handle other affairs and it is far from the standards the scriptures hold out. In fact u only apply the scriptures to others but not yourself. Hence this rude approach