OP, where did you make your research that your firth two children would not carry SS anemia?

Cheato64:
it's a risk I will take

you will regret your life if u do, I promise u

If you really love her, then go for her. Keep hope that hope burning and alive. Do research too, there must be something out there that can help. And know that there are other alternatives too, when you consider bearing children.

Oga, dont be wicked to your unborn children.

You never see sickle cell crisis before, e dey pursue erection, money and love commot for house

Me chonu

Blindersoff:


It is amniocentesis not ammiocentesis

Cheers edited

tosyne2much:
OP, where did you make your research that your firth two children would not carry SS anemia?

a friend of mine. 1st child. Had sickle cell. Died last year when she was over 30 years

mrssomebody:
My junior brother lost one of his good friend to sickle cell crisis....a very nice boy with promising future. Maybe his death could have been avoided if his parents made a different choice. Trust me the love u feel now won't be all that when "push comes to shove". may God give you the strength to move on.

If his parents made a different choice he wouldn't have existed in the first place.
The only way he would have existed is if he were SS.
Unless you think his existing isn't a good thing in the first place.

Vox populi vox dei or you can go ahead if you have enough money to handle big crisis

tosyne2much:
OP, where did you make your research that your firth two children would not carry SS anemia?

If both parents have sickle cell trait (HbAS) there is a one in four (25%) chance that any given child could be born with sickle cell anaemia. There is also a one in four chance that any given child could be completely unaffected. There is a one in two (50%) chance that any given child will get the sickle cell trait.

Cheato64:
I and Oma have dated for more than 2yrs, I intend getting married to her. When we started dating she told me from onset her genotype is AS. I taught I was AA because I did the test when I was like 10yrs.

We decided to go for HIV test just to be sure even though we had unprotected sex. On doing the HIV test, the attendance whom we didn't ask, checked our genotype, performed all the test because she taught we were couple and since it's an Anglican Church hospital and we came together, it means we are planning to get married.

The result came out HIV negative for both of us, blood group O+, while she's AB and genotype we were both AS. She insist we call it off, 2yrs courtship just like that.

Oma is a nicest person I have ever known after my mom, she takes care of me, I eat healthy, I don't repeat clothes both inner and outer wears. She makes sure I work out regularly, I don't do house chores yet my friends envy me whenever they come visiting.

Name any good thing Oma has it. Now Oma has moved on but I can't, I kept on looking for a lady like Oma, now I understand why most men talk trash about Nigerian women (no offense) and when I meet a lady the first thing I ask is her genotype.

I can recall I asked a lady her genotype even before asking for her name. I can't keep a relationship all I think about is my sweet Oma. She has moved on so she claim but we still talk and she told me she has a man right now even though we still sextexting, we talk how much we miss each other it's been over 6 months since we last saw, she relocated to delta while am in Enugu.

I invited her which she decline but invited me which I accepted I intend going this weekend and I will ask her to marry me, if we get married there is a possibility our first 2 children won't carry the sickle cell anemia. My friend is telling me not to do it but my mind is made up.

Quit! Easier said than done... There will be a strain in your relationship and the bond you have for"oma" once you bring forth a child with sickle cell.

Winneygirl:


Lol. Very funny. ,
You can send me a PM.

that madridguy is a big time scam and love-peddler. Don't mind him or her

Another fake story, like his previous one that also reached FP

Just a week ago, in your previous thread, you said you're married and your wife is pregnant. Now, you're looking for an AA to kidnap marry

I have a few questions
1. Why didn't you seek a second opinion just to be sure?

2. Have u seen a kid with Vaso-occlusive crisis?

3. Since u claim u love Oma so much, why would you want to put her through that kinda torture?

4. How d hell did u come about that crap about ur first two kids dodging the sickle cell gene HbS?

Laughing hysterically


Nothing can give you peace Except following Quran and hadith..


Nonsense.. Genotype ko.. Jinotype ni

Sterope:
Is it important for both of you to have children?

Your mother gave birth to you, so you must birth yours.

God wants us to be fruitful and multiply.

Cheato64:
I and Oma have dated for more than 2yrs, I intend getting married to her. When we started dating she told me from onset her genotype is AS. I taught I was AA because I did the test when I was like 10yrs.

We decided to go for HIV test just to be sure even though we had unprotected sex. On doing the HIV test, the attendance whom we didn't ask, checked our genotype, performed all the test because she taught we were couple and since it's an Anglican Church hospital and we came together, it means we are planning to get married.

The result came out HIV negative for both of us, blood group O+, while she's AB and genotype we were both AS. She insist we call it off, 2yrs courtship just like that.

Oma is a nicest person I have ever known after my mom, she takes care of me, I eat healthy, I don't repeat clothes both inner and outer wears. She makes sure I work out regularly, I don't do house chores yet my friends envy me whenever they come visiting.

Name any good thing Oma has it. Now Oma has moved on but I can't, I kept on looking for a lady like Oma, now I understand why most men talk trash about Nigerian women (no offense) and when I meet a lady the first thing I ask is her genotype.

I can recall I asked a lady her genotype even before asking for her name. I can't keep a relationship all I think about is my sweet Oma. She has moved on so she claim but we still talk and she told me she has a man right now even though we still sextexting, we talk how much we miss each other it's been over 6 months since we last saw, she relocated to delta while am in Enugu.

I invited her which she decline but invited me which I accepted I intend going this weekend and I will ask her to marry me, if we get married there is a possibility our first 2 children won't carry the sickle cell anemia. My friend is telling me not to do it but my mind is made up.

You and OMA are very ignorant.

What happens to prenatal diagnosis and and pre implantation ivf?

Two olodos...

Giving up does not mean you are weak but that you are strong enough to let go
we all make sacrifices for the ones we love if you truly love her you should let her go
i know a family whom their first born is a sickle cell patient and i can tell you that they are going through hell
only a fool will see trouble and still walk into it

chieyine:


You stay in Enugu right?
I stay in University of Nigeria Teaching Hospital.
I am inviting you to the hospital let me take you to Sickle Cell clinic.

Then you will know that when the die is cast, the so called love will die.

best comment ever

GOFRONT:


Bros, Quit it....There are so many Omas with AA genotype out there...

Rubbish
What of IVF and prenatal diagnosis?
What is the essence of technology?

I understand how you feel. my simple advice; DON'T DO THIS!

Cheato64:
it's a risk I will take

Do it bro. You can't wrong what doesn't exist(your children).
If your kids have SS, it is their luck.
You can't have them any other way without them being SS.

There re ways dem dey do am. But expensive sha

[quote author=Cheato64 post=85543831]I and Oma have dated for more than 2yrs, I intend getting married to her. When we started dating she told me from onset her genotype is AS. I taught I was AA because I did the test when I was like 10yrs.
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Cheato64:
I and Oma have dated for more than 2yrs, I intend getting married to her. When we started dating she told me from onset her genotype is AS. I taught I was AA because I did the test when I was like 10yrs.

We decided to go for HIV test just to be sure even though we had unprotected sex. On doing the HIV test, the attendance whom we didn't ask, checked our genotype, performed all the test because she taught we were couple and since it's an Anglican Church hospital and we came together, it means we are planning to get married.

The result came out HIV negative for both of us, blood group O+, while she's AB and genotype we were both AS. She insist we call it off, 2yrs courtship just like that.

Oma is a nicest person I have ever known after my mom, she takes care of me, I eat healthy, I don't repeat clothes both inner and outer wears. She makes sure I work out regularly, I don't do house chores yet my friends envy me whenever they come visiting.

Name any good thing Oma has it. Now Oma has moved on but I can't, I kept on looking for a lady like Oma, now I understand why most men talk trash about Nigerian women (no offense) and when I meet a lady the first thing I ask is her genotype.

I can recall I asked a lady her genotype even before asking for her name. I can't keep a relationship all I think about is my sweet Oma. She has moved on so she claim but we still talk and she told me she has a man right now even though we still sextexting, we talk how much we miss each other it's been over 6 months since we last saw, she relocated to delta while am in Enugu.

I invited her which she decline but invited me which I accepted I intend going this weekend and I will ask her to marry me, if we get married there is a possibility our first 2 children won't carry the sickle cell anemia. My friend is telling me not to do it but my mind is made up.

I am in the same shoe. We decided nothing will come in between our happiness. My guy save up some money and do IVF. They do it in abuja ... virtually everywhere. Dont mind these Niggers
If the world thought the way Niggerians think there will be no aeroplanes. People will still keep talking about how it is impossible to fly

RIP to d girl i av bro dat died after age of 28 too he start since 2months old.. It was a teribble experience

virgoquin:
By the time your child starts having crisis every now and then, the love will disappear from your eyes and you will be faced with the hard truth...

Birthing an SS child is not easy at all, the pains they go through Everytime, all your finances will go for medications which you are not sure that they will make it.

What about the emotional pains nko, are you ready to watch your beloved child to be in constant pains. The child will not forgive you at all.
I know of a girl who died last year because she was an SS, she was past 21 but she still died. Even when she was alive she was always sick and in crisis

By the time you give birth to ss children and exaust your cash on them, that love will turn to bitterness. You better end it and save yourself from future sorrow.

1Sharon:
I'm guessing you lot have never heard about amniocentesis?

We have aunty.
And do you have an idea how much amniocentesis costs?
When you find out the cost pls come back to advice the guy, and ask if he has the money for it

Cheato64:
I and Oma have dated for more than 2yrs, I intend getting married to her. When we started dating she told me from onset her genotype is AS. I taught I was AA because I did the test when I was like 10yrs.

We decided to go for HIV test just to be sure even though we had unprotected sex. On doing the HIV test, the attendance whom we didn't ask, checked our genotype, performed all the test because she taught we were couple and since it's an Anglican Church hospital and we came together, it means we are planning to get married.

The result came out HIV negative for both of us, blood group O+, while she's AB and genotype we were both AS. She insist we call it off, 2yrs courtship just like that.

Oma is a nicest person I have ever known after my mom, she takes care of me, I eat healthy, I don't repeat clothes both inner and outer wears. She makes sure I work out regularly, I don't do house chores yet my friends envy me whenever they come visiting.

Name any good thing Oma has it. Now Oma has moved on but I can't, I kept on looking for a lady like Oma, now I understand why most men talk trash about Nigerian women (no offense) and when I meet a lady the first thing I ask is her genotype.

I can recall I asked a lady her genotype even before asking for her name. I can't keep a relationship all I think about is my sweet Oma. She has moved on so she claim but we still talk and she told me she has a man right now even though we still sextexting, we talk how much we miss each other it's been over 6 months since we last saw, she relocated to delta while am in Enugu.

I invited her which she decline but invited me which I accepted I intend going this weekend and I will ask her to marry me, if we get married there is a possibility our first 2 children won't carry the sickle cell anemia. My friend is telling me not to do it but my mind is made up.

There is no nice way to say this. But END IT

2 years of heartbreak is better than a lifetime of heartbreak

czarina:
No matter how hard it is, you can be assured that it's not nearly half as hard as worrying your head or having sleepless nights over a sick child.

And then you'll realize that this choice was actually a piece of cake.

Ignorance will kill most Africans...

You people just pas tru school for nothing...

What happens to technology like
Prenatal diagnosis
Pre implantation selection
IVF etc?
I know many fools here will still quote me to talk about religious moral bullshîts. But I'm very sure that if they told you that you're carrying an imbecîle or a deformed child in your womb, you won't think twice before you ask that they take it out ...

You are just a wicked father to-be who wants to endanger d life of your unborn child because of ur being foolish and self-centered.

[b]Guy quit that level. Is better u face the heart break now and bear it rather to regret later in life

thatigboman:
a friend of mine. 1st child. Had sickle cell. Died last year when she was over 30 years

Oooh gosh!

I also lost my friend's younger brother some years back. A brilliant guy with a promising future