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Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by callthefred: 11:01am On Jan 09, 2020 |
chigoizie7: Hmmm....you got me there. Thanks for that. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Liposure: 11:01am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Hmm |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Kennedyiheme: 11:02am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Lol she'll always respect her pastor even when you get married, it would cause alot of problems... I'd say call it off.. she's not a serious person |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Liposure: 11:07am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ladylite:babe am ur biggest fan rite now. #teamladylite |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by ehmmy11(m): 11:10am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Richnerd69: |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Dissme(m): 11:51am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ladylite: Is it the word of God that ought to be respected of that of a pastor? There is no problem for the Op to see her pastor that's respecting her choice which is good but disrespecting her man by telling him to forget it is selfish and unintelligent on her own part. Op be careful while you compromise. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by pryme(m): 12:02pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Richnerd69: You sound more shallow than the one you quoted. 1 Like |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Dissme(m): 12:08pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Richnerd69: See someone that is spiritually inclined, is that what your spirituality entails to reply a troll with a barbaric curse as well. Pretenders everywhere... Didn't you read that part in Op story when the said girl threatened him to forget it?.. Pastor over God that will kill the pastor someday... Every religious person is not a good human and not every good human is religious. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Newbielearner(m): 12:09pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
It's not like it's a big deal to see the pastor. But the way she said it is what I want to confirm. Did she say, "My pastor or no marriage"? If so, you're the one desperate to marry. You're the one who has seen something scarce and she's now aware. It means you were the one who introduced marriage in the relationship, not that she asked when you'd marry her. Well, talk to her calmly and ask her who she loves more. You or the pastor. If she replied you in a dominant manner, your home would be ruled by what the pastor says. If she responds calmly and tries to convince you, it means she wants it too but seeing the pastor matters to her. Then you should go. I believe in God sent and responsible pastors. But they shouldn't be the reason my wife (to be) would or wouldn't respect me... |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Richnerd69: 1:10pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Dissme: If I'm a pretender, would I fake my reply? I'll save my strength for something much more productive. We both know where this will lead to. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Richnerd69: 1:13pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
pryme: You didn't have to quote me. Don't be unfortunate. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by pryme(m): 1:23pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Richnerd69: You did not have to quote him. Dont be a hypocrite. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Richnerd69: 1:25pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Dissme: Does the word of God not also say we should heed to and obey the instructions of our heads, for they are to give account for our souls? It's a pity most "MOG" have abused this privilege , thereby Making people like you to have a say , to resist and rebel. Do you read your Bible at all? oh, I forgot you are indifferent and deficit of knowledge pertaining spiritual matters , my elicitation from your comments so far. There are erudites and men of high intellectual capacity that still submits and acknowledge spiritual heads. That you heed to spiritual instructions by your head doesn't make you unintelligent. She knows what she want and deserves a better man of her taste, a spiritual one for that... |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Richnerd69: 1:27pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
pryme: Don't be stupid boy! You're tripping. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Richnerd69: 1:32pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
zed7: To hell with you , you dine with death and ignorance ! Good enough, I didn't bother reading up after the first 5 words. Anything you say hence , is inconsequential and not worth my 5seconds. Ciao! |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by RealEzee(m): 1:46pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
callthefred:did she tell u to see her pastor when u started kissing n shining her kongo?? if she did, then go n see her pastor, if not thunder fire the pastor, rubbish!!. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by taneez(f): 1:52pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Hmmm |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Originalsly: 2:05pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Bro.... cut your losses..... go to the first one on the standby list. The writing is on the wall.... read it. Her pastor is the director and decision maker.... neither you nor her parents can advise her when it comes to relationship. If you go visit the pastor.... and he gives the approval.... you marry... and there is a problem ... wouldn't she go to the pastor? .... and what he says she will follow? ... you be saying X and she be saying Y... because the pastor said Y... then there is conflict in the home. If the pastor tells her he needs to have sex with her for whatever reason..... do you really believe she will say no? Her pastor is her god... let her be...move on. 1 Like |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by pryme(m): 2:31pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Ghostlord: 2:32pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude: Rightly said .. ![]() |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Richnerd69: 2:40pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
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Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by Bimpe29: 3:57pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
See the Pastor na, then you know where the pendulum will swing to. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by jossy1luv(f): 6:22pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Are you sure the pastor will not be a third party by the time you eventually marry her? “Whosoever finds a wife, finds a good thing” so the Bible says not who pastor finds wife/husband for. |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by OTayobami(m): 6:26pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
oodua1stson: Go and ask your grandpa! Omo ale |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by oodua1stson: 6:30pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
OTayobami:if I add A plus B now and you run mad people will say I'm wicked abi |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by OTayobami(m): 6:34pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
oodua1stson: It's God that will punish you and you and your generation will run mad |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by frozen70(f): 7:01pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
callthefred: I like your stand on the pastor issue You are supposed to meet her parents not pastor What if the pastor, approves and her parents reject, what happens Some ladies are into their pastor and that makes it difficult for them to act without the consent of their pastor's But bear in mind that, if you wedd her, take her to your church because she will likely be taking orders from pastor when you start treating her bad I will say give her time and see if she will appreciate you seeing her parents first and where she insists Then replace her with those on standby By the time she gets her senses back, if their is still vacancy, you can reconsider her with lay down rules and if there is no vacancy its her fault not yours |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by pryme(m): 7:45pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Richnerd69: And you think an extremely dumb person can't make one to start "tripping"? |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by oodua1stson: 10:53am On Jan 10, 2020 |
OTayobami:madness de hungry you ![]() |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by OTayobami(m): 1:14pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
oodua1stson: God punish you and your damned mouth there, i no blame you. Bastard son of a thousand fathers |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by oodua1stson: 5:57pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
OTayobami:my juju don begin de work. Your madness don start. No worry, e go reach next week before you enter narket |
Re: I'm I acting too Harsh?? by OTayobami(m): 8:06pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
oodua1stson: You go suffer tey |
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