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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by superpauL(m): 1:48pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Heroclitus:My thoughts exactly... |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Jozzy4: 1:48pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
socialmediaman: The Red part is highly stupid . Weak men everywhere, why bend your Rules for a woman validation ?? 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by loswhite(m): 1:48pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia:Answer the question. Are you a virgin? Are you saying the only thing you have to offer is sex? |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by happney65: 1:49pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
If you know you dont want to have sex,then you have no business going into a relationship..It is as simple as that.. 1..You are not even a virgin so what are you saying..Even if you were to be a virgin sef,people dey disvirgin them..If you don't want Sex,stay away from relationships..It is as simple as that QED!!! 2 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by A305: 1:49pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
mctfopt:Haha, That's due to the hustle. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by spiritedtete: 1:50pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Jozzy4: Your opinion is very valid... but learn to reply without insult.. behave like you are civilised in public ... even when you are not, it will go along way in fostering harmony. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by DNSPro: 1:50pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia: Only a fool will subscribe to this your rules. Dude just don't have the skill to push the right button, I guess. When another who knows the skill does, you will give it up... Without even thinking. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Gina2019(f): 1:50pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
valo25:You are not woman, so you won't understand. Grow up and stop quoting me. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Gina2019(f): 1:51pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Cuntface:Alpha man...Keep deceiving yourself. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Chaiiii wish I can get this type of girl I prefer no sex o 4 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by GuestLog: 1:52pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia:Don't listen to all these stupid advise about giving in to sex. There was an agreement between you two. If you give him sex now, let me tell you what will happen: 1: He now sees you as a woman who cannot hold herself when pressure arises from another guy. 2: He cannot boast of your fidelity 100%. If he hears any talk about you outside, 10% of him will have doubt for you. 3: If he wasn't serious about marriage in the first place, he will start looking for another girl who is pure in his eyes. Maybe a virgin even. He will now wait for her to be wife before sex. In the end, you will look foolish. 4: If he doesn't respect his vow of chastity, how can he respect marriage vows after marital pressure surmounts? 5: Watch him closely, this is the time to know his true colors. How he handles this situation tells you if he is ready for marriage or not. Don't settle for anything less. Please stand your ground. If he cannot keep his promise as a man, how does he intend to head a home? Beards and age is not maturity. Big chest and wallet doesn't make a man, character does. There are men (in thousands) who will kill for a woman like you! You are the pride of womanhood. 8 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by GuestLog: 1:55pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
gideonite98:Me too! See my comment below yours. I praise her for her strength. If this guy loses her because of his immaturity, he will regret it. 3 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Chrysz(m): 1:55pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019:how did you know that ma'am ![]() |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by bigiyaro(m): 1:55pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
just six months, una won marry, why d rush? una never reach anywhere o, u don dey seek for help, abeg take it easy and be sincere to each other, why smelling food that u will not eat? |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Don't let your bf and all these thirsty nairaland men pressure you to do what you are uncomfortable with or might end up regretting. Your bf seems to lack discipline and looks like a promise breaker. Give him a few days to cool off and stop bugging him with calls, then you can both communicate, express your feelings and re evaluate the terms of the relationship Lyydia: 2 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Gina2019(f): 1:56pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Basher8583:You are funny. How's she going to present the cookie? |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Liposure: 1:56pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
HarunaWest:baba, u don mad i swear laugh won kill me 4 here |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by socialmediaman: 1:56pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Jozzy4: Did you read the rest of that paragraph? I acknowledged he’s infatuated and ‘foolish’. He’s not looking for validation, he’s infatuated. That’s what happens in the game. She’ll bend her own rules at some point in the relationship as well, ‘foolishness’ isn’t entirely any one person’s property 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Gina2019(f): 1:57pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Chrysz:Cuz I've there before. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by optimus106(m): 1:58pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019: Why won't it show? Ever heard a guy telling a girl 'no sex b4 marriage'? Girls are the ones using that line on lame niqq*z No sex? Why don't you stay without the relationship and don't get that lame niq** pissed off ? ? ? 2 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Mouthgag: 1:58pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia:If you're not a virgin, If you've had sex with more than one person in your life, then you're a hypocrite. I pray he doesn't ever pick your calls again. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by RealGOAT: 1:59pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
May be she's being cautious to avoid previous experiences,you never can tell since she said is her personal decision. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Gina2019(f): 1:59pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
optimus106:Yes I've heard a guy telling a girl no sex before marriage. He was a devoted Christian back then. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by yeyeosoronga: 1:59pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Don't have sex with a guy if you don't want to, regardless of if you're a virgin or not . Don't be pressurised against your beliefs. It's usually not worth it at the end 2 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Cuntface: 2:00pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019: How exactly am I deceiving myself? I'm talking from experience. So stop generalizing |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
U know kissing and cuddling only lead to sex. If you are not interested in sex then don't initiate it. As for the guy if he is serious about you he should respect your decisions and wait till the time is right. As for those saying his true intention is sex, that may or may not be true. As far as the guy has a little change (money) if he want to have sex he will 2 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by skyhighweb(m): 2:01pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
wat if he now marries u n realize d chocolate is very wide n not sweet, since u basing d relationship on sexxx things shey u will like if he divorce afterwards or his dick can't last 1 round in a week wat den. who go stay go stay. feminist much? |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by kunleweb: 2:01pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
pryme: I picked a point. Very important point many ladies make. Mistake on. They pray for a good person, and then the person comes, they push him away with their "strategy" |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by wirinet(m): 2:02pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
franzis:No mind them. Oloshos de see husband before these pretending "holy mary" sisters. If you want fvck the guy, fvck him. If you don't want to fvck him, then leave him. It's wrong using sex as a condition for marriage. Sex before or after marriage does not determine a successful marriage. Your character and your other inate values that determines whether he marries you or the marriage is successful. 3 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by SpyAC(m): 2:03pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
henzy4life:but that's the truths nah, can't hv a woman giving me such conditions, even if I agree, there should be distances no hugging, no kissing and even handshake or been in a lonely place together, so there should be boundary |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Prolific2018: 2:05pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
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